Saying "I love you" for the first time during sex?

[Anonymous]

Is it ok? Weird? Are those words better suited for another time?

[kaylaS91]

It's fine but a bit iffy because, especially since it'll be your first time saying it to your boyfriend, he may wonder what you really meant. He'll probably wonder if it was a legit 'I love you', if you had actually said that you love sex, etc..
(you can say it during sex but make sure to say it again when you're not on such a hormonal high to ensure that he knows you were being genuine.)

[miamigirl1970]

When a woman is having sex, her oxytocin levels are the highest they will be... what that means is your emotions are somewhere you might not otherwise have them. Tread lightly... don't say the words just in the heat of sex... I would say if you have already said the words, ok, but for a first time, maybe better saved for a more purposeful encounter, just my two cents... best of luck

[anaspie]

Im going with weird... if that is the first time he said it or only time I would take it like a grain of salt. People get wrapped up in the moment especially during sex, and will say things that they dont always mean whole heartedly

[RedHood7]

It's a risky shot. You'll either have very passionate sex right off the bat (the feelings are reciprocate) or you'll make it awkward for you SO (in case he/she doesn't feel the same or is scared of admiting it/commitment)

[zagor]

I don't think people hold you to what you say during sex. As long as you get the name right.

[Asker]

True, but I'm referring to in a relationship lol

[jamiejean1021]

I've definitely called a guy the wrong name for the entire night once... (It was a one night stand) we've now been hooking up for 5 months

[Shawn58]

@jamiejean1021 lol what, hey but I don't know maybr he just didn't care because the sex was good

[zagor]

@jamiejean1021 As long as it was during sex, he probably didn't notice.

I've dealt with the issue by avoiding using the name.

[jamiejean1021]

Oh I was too drunk to know I was doing it - he told me the next day

[Shawn58]

@jamiejean1021 lol

[LaurenGrace]

Take anything during sex with a grain of salt... people have said things " i love you" & " your my dirty little slut " etc and not actually ment it 1000000 times over.. i do think i love you is better said another time forsure.

[ShortCircuit]

I wouldn't mind as long as she continued to say it outside of sex, so that I know it wasn't just a product of the physical/emotional high she was on at the time.

[RJGraveyTrain]

It's a hit or a miss. Sometimes it's cute, if you're "making love", but if you're down and dirty getting at her it can be awkward and mood killing.

[MadeInAmerica]

It's weird. Especially the first time saying it. That should be in more casual setting then we both of you are butt naked going at each other.

[Frisky]

It's too easy to say during sex, I don't think I would believe it. It would probably be really nice to hear just out of the blue, just because.

[Pearl85]

Better suited to another time.
Emotions run high during sex and certain feelings can be felt that you may not feel at other times.

[shawnski]

It is ok but i don't think its the norm. People say (myself included) fucked up stuff during sex. Probably would be better suited for another time. If it has already happened though I wouldn't sweat it.

[Blonde401]

It's a rush of endorphins. Doesn't really mean they/you meant it.

[Jupiter35]

Not the best place to say it. I know you want to because it's sex and all, but that's not love.

[TripleAce]

You were on this little high from sex and got a little yappy but it's fine no biggie

[Anonymous]

Depends how long you have known ea. and how serious is the relationship?

[Anonymous]

It's more believable if you say it afterward. People will say almost anything during sex.

[Anonymous]

Maybe say it afterwards when you're cuddling and basking in the afterglow.

[Anonymous]

I think I'd want to know beforehand. I don't think I'd agree to doing that with someone I didn't know loved me. XD

[JudgmentDay]

I think that's what they call "Pillow Talk".

[Sweetie3423]

I think its better for another time.

[Anonymous]

It is okay but a little bit weird.

[Unit1]

LOVE IT!!! <3 grrr

[Yanoa_Yanza]

It could be both xD

[gemini9]

I vote weird.