It is important, I texted the girl I like about her first day at work - a new job she had been stressing about getting; however, his friend being sick AND at the hospital sounds quite taxing and does require more attention than a first day at a job.
I'd say wait a little bit until he's able to relax his mind from his friend's illness, making sure his friend is ok, and then asking him if he'd like to know how your day at work went. I'm sure you can bring it up nicely, he will appreciate your care for his day too and not "demanding" attention to yourself.
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you should try to let it go since it sounds like i a lot may have been on his mind. like don't be angry about it but you could just bring it up like, "i know you were busy and had a lot on your mind but are you interested how my first day of work went?"
Yes let it go
and when he recovers, he'll administer all the self abuse deserved for not seeing your world on his radar... which I'll assume he usually does.
It bothers me also when SO becomes more concerned over world/local news than my day's events, esp. if I need to dump the bad portions ASAP to recover.
I would say that world events being more distracting = SO is falling out of love but a close friend hospital distraction... doesn't mean that.
Keep an eye on things, if this is the 1st time he has done this (not asking about your day), then let it go. If this continues, he prob doesn't really care about you. Talking to him about it is pointless, you don't need to talk to a partner on how to make you feel good, they will do it themselves because they care about you.
It might of just slipped his mind. Guys are idiots in that aspect... You could tell him how work went anyway. Just say "oh by the way, work was good (if it went good haha or say bad if it was bad)" and if anything interesting happened say something about that. If you want to drop it you can.
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Yes. He is under pressure with his friend.
However, if this happens all the time, than no. He needs to talk to you about your day. He needs to be concerned about your day. And he should be asking you questions about you day if you are at a job for 1 day or 50 years.no, I wouldn't let it go. But just don't make such a big deal about it either. Just casually ask him if he would be interested in your first day at work next time you talk to him. And then tell him you really appreciate him interested in your life and wanting to listen to you.
Chillllll girl. He has more important things to think about. The world doesn't revolve around you. I hope you read that in a nice voice and not a bitchy tone lol. Let it go.
I'd let it go, his mind was elsewhere with very legitimate concerns so it's time to be a little selfless and not worry so much about YOU and worry more so about him. That's a part of being in a relationship.
Yes he probably had a lot on his mind. I would be kind of upset but like I said he had a good excuse.
You should let it go, he's got bigger things on his mind right now, forgetting your first day isn't too bad.
Are you kidding me? even if he wasn't dealing with something, you have no right to turn something this trivial into a big deal. Women are so dam sensitive
yeah let it go he had something else on his mind
No. Make him ask.
Let it go...
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