My long distance boyfriend wants to hire an escort. Should I even consider it? (Page 2)

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My long distance boyfriend asked me the other day if it would be OK if he hired an escort to take care of his physical needs when we can't be together. We live in different states, and only see each other about once a month, for a few days. He even suggested that I find someone local to me to use to meet my physical needs, if I wanted to. He compared it to going to see a masseuse, and said that it would be purely physical, and that it wouldn't be allowed to interfere with our relationship. He offered to let me help pick out the girl, and said he would never tell me anything about it, to minimize jealousy. My initial reaction was a huge "no" and after talking about it, he agreed it wasn't a good idea. My concern is that he's already used such a service, and is trying to cover it up by getting permission after the fact. He showed me profiles of potential escorts during our conversation. I also worry that this is not the end of this story, and that it will be brought up again. The fact that he could bring it up very casually makes me wonder how much he really cares for me, and I fear that he is going to end up cheating on me. I'm just looking for some outside, unbiased opinions.

Anonymous · Answer

noo don't let him

My long distance boyfriend wants to hire an escort. Should I even consider it? (Page 2)

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