My crush rejected me but I still love her, what shoud I do?

[dooniz]

I loved her for 3 years. she is may classmate. we just chat sometimes... i told her that i like her so much... she told you are a good classmate and friend, but we can't be a good match.
She said we can still be friends...
Im dying now. it made me so sad and i dont know what do do, i do anything just to be with her:(

[CliffyJr]

feelings like that are toxic to your well being. yes it sucks. yes it hurts. and no its not going to magicallyfix itself overnight. but if she doesn't have feelings for you now, its super unlikely that she'll have feelings for you later. best thing to do is to move on, you can't dwell on it. yes, have a period for mourning but then take a breath and move forward.

it will feel so much better when you find someone that actually wants to be with you. someone willing to give up their own time to spend it with you. being fixated on the one person that doesn't see you in that way is only going to hurt more and more the longer it goes on.

[dooniz]

I have made my decision
I just want her or no one else,

[CliffyJr]

There are 7.5 billion people on the planet. Believe me, I have been in your situation before. Wanting no body else but the one, but if she doesn't like you back it doesn't matter what you do, that's not going to change. Like I said before, it feels so much better to be with someone who actually wants to be with you.

[dooniz]

I thought she will accept, i didint bilieve this
I want to take my chance again, ask again in a couple of months again
Bad thins is that she is my classmate and i see her everyday:(

[CliffyJr]

It's not often that a girl will change her mind. You can try again in a couple months if you like but unless there's anything that you can do differently between now and then to prove to her that you are relationship material then you'll probably end up with the same result.

How often do you talk to her? Do you see her outside of class at all?

[dooniz]

Sometims we speak on what app and...
We are medicine students and sometimes i talk to her at hospital. we had a good relation and yesterday i ask him to be more than friemds, and ahe told you are good but we can't be match

[CliffyJr]

Three years and you sometimes talk to each other. That's probably got a bit to do with it. Because those moments that you do communicate are fleeting. The more time you can spend with someone, the more likely they are to develop feelings for you. It's a natural cause and effect. If you get the chance to, maybe go and hang out with here outside of the classroom or hospital. Doesn't have to be the two of you alone, can be going to a party or the movies with a group of friends, going out and having a few drinks as a group.

Simply watching from afar and rarely communicating isn't going to make her interested in you. If you want to make it work you have to do more. Again, the time spent together doesn't have to be alone. But if you're in each others presence more often then maybe she can start to notice you more. It's your only chance.

[dooniz]

Thank you, iwill take my chance

[CliffyJr]

I wish you the best of luck dude.

[frostant]

"I do anything just to be with her"
Well you just sold yourself for someone who do not feel the same

There are other things you have to do with your life. So do not waste your time and energy for someone who do not care.
She doesn't deserve that... also she made it clear that she's not interested.

So move on, keep yourself busy with other things and you'll be good. It'll take time but it's good.

[dooniz]

Thank u
Is there any chance if i ask her again after a while, like a couple month?

[frostant]

Or you can make her ask you after a while 😏

Success is always the best revenge dude!!

And yea you can ask her again after a while. It's your life and you make the choices.

You have two options,
1. Be successful and make her chase you
or 2. Spend all your efforts to make her fall
If you keep on chasing her, she might feel sorry and give you a chance.

But the option is always better

[dooniz]

So you tell me i can have a second chance?:)

[Areta]

one question... do you want to suffer? do you think it's worth it,?

[dooniz]

I was thinking to her for three years, i can't let ot go:(

[Areta]

well, you'll suffer then. good luck man. keep on fighting

[JhonnyMA]

If it hurts you, just keep distant, you're young, you'll find someone, just forget it...

[dooniz]

She was the only one i wanted , i didn't have any girlfriends in three years just because of her. i can't fotget;( and i think i dont have any chance😭

[JhonnyMA]

you're young, you'll learn that things like that happens all the time, till you find someone, true question is how do you want to learn it? the easy way or the hard one? Just go out start talking to other girls, you'll forget her soon...

keep something in mind:
You lost someone who don't care about you, she lost someone who cares about her...

[dooniz]

Thank you so much

Forgetting her... makes me frightened:(

[JhonnyMA]

forgetting her will be a good thing, you don't have to be afraid, don't think that you'll never love somebody again cuz you will, and may be she will love you too, isn't it good? like the girl comment said it's not worthy, now you may think it is, but it is not... if you try will get to a point that she will find someone and you'll hurt even more..

[Ripper_E]

You don't love her

[dooniz]

I love her bro