Do you still care when you're upset/angry at your SO?

WiseTurtle

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Do you still care when you're upset/angry at your SO ?

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When I was married and my wife and I had a disagreement during the evening, we would go to bed, I would snuggle up and put my arms around her, and tell her that I loved her even when we had a disagreement. Then I would kiss her shoulder, assure her that we would find a way to resolve our difference, and wish her sweet dreams. All of that makes it more difficult to stay angry.

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- WiseTurtle
  
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  Yay that's cute :)
  
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hippietri Follow
Xper 5 Age: 34

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Yes, altho its not always healthy to be too considerate

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- WiseTurtle
  
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  Yeah I agree :) otherwise arguments will lose their sense
  
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kaylaS91 Follow
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still care in what sense?
Either way, of course I still care about him and would totally hold the umbrella over both of us, whether we're fighting or not.

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- WiseTurtle
  
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  In a sense that you wouldn't be bothered to do whatever you usually do (normal life) when you're not mad/upset/angry/fighting. In a sense that the fight won't affect the usual caring of you for him. I'm sorry my English is not that good to explain this well but I tried lol :D
  
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- kaylaS91
  
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  oh ahha well.. yeah, I guess the answer remains yes. Seeing as how arguments between my boyfriend and I usually end with us cuddling, if not having sex. :P
  
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- WiseTurtle
  
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  Well that's a very nice ending, but the arguments must end with some sort of lessons so they won't be repeated after if you see what I mean.
  
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- kaylaS91
  
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  exactly. It's like the most pleasant, never ending learning curve. :)
  
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- WiseTurtle
  
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  Yeah you're right.
  
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vpfafouta Follow
Xper 5 Age: 26 , mho 66%

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yeah. i've been in some nasty arguments with my boyfriend, but i still care no matter what. that's just being a good person regardless of what went down.

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  Good :)
  
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witherwing Follow
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I'm usually angry at him for about an hour tops, so wouldn't be much of a relationship, if I stopped caring for him in an hour.

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- WiseTurtle
  
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  Yeah I agree.
  
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Anonymous
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Definitely... that's why I'm so upset
But that's also why I can't stay mad for long

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  Very nice :)
  
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Bliss-taylor Follow
Explorer Age: 34 , mho 58%

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He loves to piss me off. lol
Yes, if you really love someone being angry isn't going to change that.

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- WiseTurtle
  
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  lol really? What does he love in that?
  
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- Bliss-taylor
  
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  He says my eyes are sexy when I'm mad. So he annoys me to get me to glare. He likes making up. I also think he just likes to argue sometimes. lol Mostly its just playful. I mean he really does tick me off but I get over it easily. I probably only get REALLY angry over something serious once a year. We don't like staying mad at each other.
  
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- WiseTurtle
  
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  Oh that's nice to get over easy, you just know his game :D
  
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samhradh_leannan Follow
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Yep, absolutely. I think that's a big part of loving someone.

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- WiseTurtle
  
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  I agree, in that moment real love show some of it's sides :)
  
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fauchelevent Follow
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Of course, my being upset with him doesn't mean that I no longer care about him.

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- WiseTurtle
  
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  Great :D
  
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meatballs21 Follow
Master Age: 46

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Yes, that is how it works. You are upset or pissed off but you still rush over to help the moment they're in trouble.

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- WiseTurtle
  
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  Yeah that's the spirit :D
  
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KaseyRouqe Follow
Xper 5 Age: 30 , mho 42%

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Of course. Being angry doesn't mean you don't love them.

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- WiseTurtle
  
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  I didn't mean that, I mean would you behave ignoring him and don't care about him when you're mad.
  
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- KaseyRouqe
  
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  I think ignoring and acting indifferent won't fix the situation. Once again even if I'm angry, there's still love. If you love someone, you try to tackle the problems. It's after you've failed time after time that it's time to call it quits.
  
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- WiseTurtle
  
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  Yeah I agree :)
  
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Bulgarian Follow
Xper 5 Age: 35

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No, I don't. When I'm angry, I don't call, I don't care.

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- WiseTurtle
  
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  All right even if that isn't really the right thing to do :)
  
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- Bulgarian
  
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  It's the right thing to do. The girl decided to piss me off seriously and did not make efforts to stop me. Anything that happens to her afterwards is not my responsibility!
  
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Anonymous
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Depend which reasons I'm angry, if it's because of him then I don't give a shit.

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- WiseTurtle
  
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  So you don't care about him when being mad?
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  I don't
  
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- WiseTurtle
  
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  But wouldn't that be not right if things were reversed?
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  It's the same, if he's angry at me I don't expect him to care for me. if I have a problem I wouldn't tell him I would deal with it alone.
  
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- WiseTurtle
  
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  Humm okay, one last question: Do you actually think it's right you if you don't care once you're mad?
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  I think it's normal
  
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- WiseTurtle
  
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  Okay thank you for your honest opinion :)
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  You're welcome :)
  
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Anonymous
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Honestly never been genuinely mad at him plus I don't handle anger well.

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- WiseTurtle
  
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  Actually the fact of not handling anger well is a good thing :)
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  Why is that?
  
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- WiseTurtle
  
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  It shows that you have more work to do to improve and that is a good thing if he help you out. It's like an occasion to improve by having his help :)
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  No it's just I don't know how to handle anger because I'm not that type of person but if I am mad or sad he does help a lot.
  
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- WiseTurtle
  
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  That's why I said it's a good thing :D
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  Lol oh ok then.
  
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- WiseTurtle
  
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  I hope you understood what I meant :D
  
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creepypanda Follow
Xper 5 Age: 25

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I haven't had any big arguments.

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- WiseTurtle
  
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  You don't need to have big arguments to know :D
  
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- creepypanda
  
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  I'd care no matter what, then.
  
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- WiseTurtle
  
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  That's great :)
  
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CoffeeGirl456 Follow
Xper 6 Age: 90 , mho 39%

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yes, absolutely

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- WiseTurtle
  
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  Great :D
  
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- CoffeeGirl456
  
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  what great lol you dont know how to pass that moment with him ahahaha
  
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- WiseTurtle
  
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  But still it's a great thing that it doesn't affect you much when you're upset.
  
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PunkinPie Follow
Xper 6 Age: 48 , mho 33%

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Of course.

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- WiseTurtle
  
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  Nice :D
  
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Malaya Follow
Xper 6 Age: 29 , mho 42%

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Yes absoutletly

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- WiseTurtle
  
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  Very nice :)
  
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Pinay_ako Follow
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yes.

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- WiseTurtle
  
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  Great :)
  
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MimiHashima Follow
Xper 6 Age: 32

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Of course.

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- WiseTurtle
  
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  Good you should :D
  
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- MimiHashima
  
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  Always lol.
  
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- WiseTurtle
  
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  Yeah :D
  
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ariadneR Follow
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absolutely

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- WiseTurtle
  
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  Great :D !
  
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nonaa87 Follow
Xper 5 Age: 39

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Yes a lot

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- WiseTurtle
  
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  wouldn't that be negative if you were too much considerate?
  
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FoodAddict Follow
Xper 5 Age: 23

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Yes.

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- WiseTurtle
  
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  Good :)
  
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moonpie89 Follow
Master Age: 32

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Haha yes.

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- WiseTurtle
  
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  Great :D
  
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JamesBH Follow
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Of course

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