Why does my boyfriend always turn his laptop away from me when he is on it?

[Anonymous]

Every time he goes online he sits on the opposite side of the bed from me so that I can't see his laptop. He is very protective of it. Even on his cell phone, he will be typing stuff right in front of me and I know he can't be writing work related emails at like 3 am so what's he doing? guys what do you think about this kind of behavior?

Updates

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update...found him on dating/sex websites saying he was looking for casual sex and no strings attached sex. so now wtf do I do? besides drop him because thtz obvious. what can I say to really hit home with him so he knows what he did was wrong?

[IAmAnon123]

I wouldn't think too deeply into it. Now, obviously, I don't know your boyfriend, what kind of person he is, or how he treats his laptop, but I know a lot of guys (including myself) treat their laptop how girls treat their diary. It's my personal space that I don't like anyone else invading. You're boyfriend might be the same way and I don't think it's anything to worry about.

And for the love of god, DO NOT start snooping around on his computer unless you're having legitimate concerns about his behavior. Way too many women do this and it speaks volumes for the level of trust they have toward the relationship.

[DirtyButterKnife]

Ok, if he's doing that WHILE YOU ARE IN THE SAME GOD DAMN ROOM, you have no reason to stay with him.

Who cares about letting him know he was wrong. Just leave him and don't give a f*** about him, he's not worth it.

[Asker]

Yes. I suppose he has been doing this while I'm in the room with him. I'm just really let down and hurt. We have been together almost 4 yrs.

[sinful1620]

I do this too... it's creepy to think someone else is reading what you write. It's also very possible he's doing something like surfing 4chan where he doesn't want you to see everything that comes up on his screen. It doesn't automatically mean he's cheating on you or anything like that.

[henzo_zyo]

u will need to find a way to find out what's going on, but don't let him know about that. be patient, I believe you will find out the truth. right now just act like usual and don't have negative thinking before you find out

[henzo_zyo]

oops he's going out of the track there. move on and decide what's the best thing to do for u

[Hollynm69]

well to find out what's going on

wait till he isint home then go on his laptop and search through the internet histery under the favorites tab

and look and see what he has been on

[hesaysim2sexy]

"cheater"