What makes you assume someone is out of your league? (Page 2)

Question

Presuming you believe in leagues in the first place what are some qualities in someone which would make you assume the person wouldn't be interested in you or you wouldn't stand a chance? Apart from looks being the obvious one what are some other characteristics or things which make someone out of your league?

gjd47233 · Answer

It's all superficial sand based on looks. Any other reason is an excuse for a girl who is too high maintenance

iCuddleU · Answer

Typically by their appearance and if they are in a big group with friends, I'm too shy to ask a good looking guy out like that. So he's out of my league..

desiree512 · Answer

If they're far more attractive than I am. If they're too old or young for me.

princiee · Answer

If you assume this you are undermining your capacity.

kayakkyle46 · Answer

If you dress in rags trying to get people who are dressed in designer clothing its not going to work out unless you have great game. Also seeing cellulite or manly chicks makes me vomit in my mouth. Also people in the 5-7 range are way easier to talk to than people in the 1-3 range or 8-10 range. No one is truly unapproachaple however people who've had great partners don't like to settle for garbage.

Section · Answer

I don’t assume that, I just assume we’re not compatible.

Anonymous · Answer

I am fat so usually when I like a guy and is skinny it's a whatever forget him lol Maybe many friends considering himself important etc

Anonymous · Answer

Higher social status or they're really attractive. I've been wrong before and it surprises me everytime lmao.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

If a girl drinks and smokes weed all the time than she would be out of my league. LOL

jacquesvol · Answer

The price of her clothes, handbag, car , jewelry...

gemgem · Answer

If she makes a lot more money than me, it wouldn't bother me at all but women seem put off by it. They think the

Anonymous · Answer

I used to feel that way if she's gorgeous, but as I got older, I realized that many of the good looking chicks are nutty as fuck or have a lot of baggage. Now, I just assume that "league" is all in my mind.

Anonymous · Answer

Looks by large. I know I'm smart and I've done amazing things, so her achievements don't bother me. I know what "level" of women I can get and it's based on physical appearance. I don't even bother with anything higher.

Illuvatar · Answer

I automatically assume the females i am interested in are out of my league...

Charlucky · Answer

i am not one to believe in leagues. I've asked out all sorts of women

Aphrodite92 · Answer

There Strong Confident Gorgeous, money and to much for some people.

Anonymous · Answer

When a guy is good looking and has rich social life. Like he is too good for me. And for the other way around - when someone is just plain stupid and have no sense of humour.

Anonymous · Answer

Simple, social status. Which mine is nonexistent due to my own self-alienation. So yeah, generally for females the main thing they look at is whether or not you have a social life or your own social standing in your social group or peer group so that's how I can tell if someone is out my league. Lol if they have any social life then they are way out of my league 😂😂

Jemini_Crocket · Answer

My crush is out of my league. He's handsome, popular and dated pretty looking girls who had ambitions or at least were funny all the time. I don't meet any of such qualities.

Robsinsf53 · Answer

I dont believe that any woman's out of my league because everyone said my future ex wife was supposed to be outta my league and we got married, had a daughter and just couldn't make it work.

Adam_INTJ · Answer

A helthy body, a broad friend circle, and confident body language indicate that a girl is probably set enough to where she doesn't want to add another person to her life; she'll feel fine the way things are

Sha84 · Answer

nobody is out of my league, don't support caste systems

ManBornFree · Answer

its an excuse we devised to avoid high maintanance women

Groisu · Answer

Never feel out of my league  Hence the reason I'm still single

widdershins_ · Answer

If he's around my age and a lot further in his career or life plans. I feel like I'm lagging behind.

witherwing · Answer

If they have a large friend circle.

ariadneR · Answer

Even though no one is out of my league, I will base it on the qualities my friend told me, when I told her about my crush. Better paying job high up on the corporate ladder got an accent well off

l21007 · Answer

If I think they look way better than me and they also have a nice character that makes me look like a bad person in comparison

Sweetkitty150 · Answer

Looks and how much they make. I feel a guy who makes a ton more than I And is better looking than me would laugh at me if I wanted to be with him

flatline · Answer

Nobody is out of your league - so long as you've the money and social status to make up for what you may lack in looks, nom sayin'

oppswasthatme · Answer

You should assume everyone is in your league, if your a healthy person and try to be the best person you can. You never know how's going to be into what.

Chuckle · Answer

I think insecurity makes someone assumes that someone is out of their league.

Anonymous · Answer

I kind of look at it like "Obvious incompatibility". If she desires a certain lifestyle different than the one I live, and has the appearance to attain what she wants, we likely will not "fit".

fsu19 · Answer

Race plays a role. Not exactly out of my league but sometimes I'm like "I highly doubt she'd like me"

Hollywood-Glam · Answer

Apart from physical appearance which is a major one, ... I don't know where to start, it's anything and everything. I'm possibly below every guy's league. Everyone is out of my league, lol.

Anonymous · Answer

Besides looks, I would say someone highly educated , very wealthy and completely independent would probably have nothing to do with me

Anonymous · Answer

Generally their accomplishments. I'm rather certain my odds of attracting the super wealth and ultra talented are zero.

Sparagun · Answer

Im quoite attractive so I usually never assume somebody is out of my league but I do get vibes off some women that they seem to be ignorent or stuck up... sometimes not even attractive women are like this..

Anonymous · Answer

Lol people say they don't believe in leagues then why is it when I'm with my very attractive female friend, people give my potato looking ass, the dirtiest judgmental looks.

melanieeeB · Answer

The level of confidence, how they present themselves combined with their look

HitGirl_4680 · Answer

Looks. It’s pretty much the only thing that stops me and sets me back.

BleepRawrsaurus_Rex · Answer

Different financial situations, different career goals, and the way a person looks/ carries themselves

AndrewMG · Answer

On a good self esteem day not much, on the flip side on a bad self esteem day the fact they have a pulse lol It's swings and roundabouts lol

lucasnabizada · Answer

Nothing... This is bullshit to bring your confidence down

El_Samir · Answer

If she takes my breath away on the first look I assume she is out of my league.

girlnamedkarmen · Answer

I feel like someone is out of my league when they honestly have more experience and excitement

godsentgirl · Answer

I guess it’s his killer hair... and the way he does that stare...

jon28805 · Answer

Sometimes intelligence makes me think someone is out of my league.

Anonymous · Answer

I haven't experienced that problem yet luckily 😂😂😂

Benzie003 · Answer

I never assume any one is out of my league.. everyone has a "type" that they are atracted too..  Eg; some "high maintenance" women aren't into "high maintenance" men...

Anonymous · Answer

A girl who is wealthy but I have to go into looks too like if she’s even remotely attractive she probably wouldn’t date me

Draxxi · Answer

They breathe would be the first thing for me... that puts them far out of my league

Anonymous · Answer

The job they do... the house they live in... the car they drive... the clothes they wear... their style...

Maebo · Answer

When he is loved by everyone (all ages) and only has eyes for other women

sp33d · Answer

Assuming I believe all this, the main reason would have to be huge differences in lifestyle.

Davidx1 · Answer

Nothing does, there are simply people you are and aren't compatible with

hugomf · Answer

Someone who has absolutely nothing in common with me, someone who is attracted to my male opposites

Anonymous · Answer

only a person who has low self confidence would think this. Everyone is made different and that does make us any better than one another.

oldoldold · Answer

Life has taught me leugues exist. But apparentlly im ranked low enough that i just make human when useful.

Decentguy · Answer

i dont believe in that leage crap. if we both click with each other, then i'll date her, otherwise i won't

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