This "out of my league" crap is idiotic. People dosen't only chose partners who are just as perfect as them. This also goes the other way around. People chose partners depending on their qualeties, and people have a lot of different opinions when it comes to which of these qualeties are the best. We bassicly value some qualeties over others. So if you have a small ammount of qualeties, but the qualeties you hold are valued by someone else you might have a chance.
Perceptions of value and standards are extremely subjective despite the basic equality of human variability. That said, I only really consider someone inaccessible if she has an admirable, acquired skills or traits that I couldn't ever match, like Venus Williams in tennis or Maura Healey with law.
It's just my crappy self esteem that pops up in d back of my brain whenever I start crushing on a guy n whisper shouts "whatever the freaking hell r u wishing for!!! He's so far beyond ur league. Just slip out of his line of sight before u embarrass urself"
1) Way too intelligent 2) Way too outgoing 3) Way too social and extroverted Has a lot of friends both girls and guys 4) Really artistic and values art in a way that makes me feel I know nth about it
I just can't ever imagine this type of guys to notice or be interested in a potato like me 😂
It used to be I thought anyone I was attracted to was out of my league. Now I don’t believe anyone is out of my league. Just some girls might take a bit more work to get than others lol. Maybe that’s silly with way too high hopes but that’s just how I feel these days.
Leauges are not assumption but reality. Leauges r the wrong word in the first place. It's a combination of person's priorities he/she wants to see in their partner. There could be hundreds of priorities depending on each individual. There r 9 billion people on Earth. And not everybody wants the same. It can't be a general question. Looks, Money/Job and status are 3 fundamental criteria influenced by social structures one lives in. Rest are all personal choices and very hard to define
If some of these actions lead me to believe that they are out of my league it's actually the actions of somebody who is narcissistic or generally thinks that they are superior so I would consider those individuals out of my league only because it's a league that I don't want to have anything to do with
Nothing other than let's say a girl who is older than me, and holds a professional degree such as a doctorate. That's about it.
I don't really like to rate women by looks because something I have noticed is that women who are above average looking tend to not much else going for them (there are exceptions of course)
So true. People get caught up in looks too much. Which I do to since I love pretty women. But The pretty chick poop stinks just like the average and not so good looking chick.
They have a really nice car. And a fancy last name. And eat at restaurants where the food is served fancily on a regular basis. Looks wise, nothing much, I'm more into regular guys than really hot ones.
When I was younger I asnt exactly the most attractive, but as there year shabe gone by thst has changed. I use to think looks would make someone iyt of my league, but I no longer feel that way. But now I feel like s certain financial status could make someone out of my league. I'd imagine I'll ve making quite a decent amount if money post-college/later down the line. But there will always be someone making more money than you.
I think it would probably have to be if she was very wealthy, though I'm surprised how much wealthy women feel small or lesser when you start having an intellectual conversation with them and they say stuff like, "I wish I was that smart," or "I wish I knew things like that." Kinda makes you feel awkward.
Apart from physical attraction being the obvious factor, I'd say it's how outgoing and confident they appear to be. Because it kind of screams "I know I'm hot and I know what my options are, and you're at the bottom of my list."
If they look very attractive. I don't like really attractive guys anyway. 🙅 I am afraid they will leave me for hot girl. Average looking guys are the best :)
Because of the way they act what they drive how they look and how they are towards you but shy guys like me. Think if she's a beautiful woman and acts a little rude and just no attention at all outta the league is that true
Nothing aside from high age difference and/or her already having a relationship. There are no real leages, it just feels like there are. It's really just opportunities. (That is WAY too much makeup, by the way. lol)
It's partly about looks but I'd say social status is behind the presumption you're out of someone's league. For example, a hardcore WoW player would assume a socialite won't be interested because of stereotypes from both sides and probably the former's rejection by the latter.
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This "out of my league" crap is idiotic. People dosen't only chose partners who are just as perfect as them. This also goes the other way around. People chose partners depending on their qualeties, and people have a lot of different opinions when it comes to which of these qualeties are the best. We bassicly value some qualeties over others. So if you have a small ammount of qualeties, but the qualeties you hold are valued by someone else you might have a chance.
Perceptions of value and standards are extremely subjective despite the basic equality of human variability. That said, I only really consider someone inaccessible if she has an admirable, acquired skills or traits that I couldn't ever match, like Venus Williams in tennis or Maura Healey with law.
It's just my crappy self esteem that pops up in d back of my brain whenever I start crushing on a guy n whisper shouts "whatever the freaking hell r u wishing for!!! He's so far beyond ur league. Just slip out of his line of sight before u embarrass urself"
1) Way too intelligent
2) Way too outgoing
3) Way too social and extroverted
Has a lot of friends both girls and guys
4) Really artistic and values art in a way that makes me feel I know nth about it
I just can't ever imagine this type of guys to notice or be interested in a potato like me 😂
It used to be I thought anyone I was attracted to was out of my league. Now I don’t believe anyone is out of my league. Just some girls might take a bit more work to get than others lol. Maybe that’s silly with way too high hopes but that’s just how I feel these days.
Leauges are not assumption but reality. Leauges r the wrong word in the first place. It's a combination of person's priorities he/she wants to see in their partner. There could be hundreds of priorities depending on each individual. There r 9 billion people on Earth. And not everybody wants the same. It can't be a general question. Looks, Money/Job and status are 3 fundamental criteria influenced by social structures one lives in. Rest are all personal choices and very hard to define
If some of these actions lead me to believe that they are out of my league it's actually the actions of somebody who is narcissistic or generally thinks that they are superior so I would consider those individuals out of my league only because it's a league that I don't want to have anything to do with
Nothing other than let's say a girl who is older than me, and holds a professional degree such as a doctorate. That's about it.
I don't really like to rate women by looks because something I have noticed is that women who are above average looking tend to not much else going for them (there are exceptions of course)
I don't ever think that anymore when it comes to women. I've talked to women who were 9s and 10s.
Besides their looks, they aren't all that special.
So true. People get caught up in looks too much. Which I do to since I love pretty women. But The pretty chick poop stinks just like the average and not so good looking chick.
How well they dress, the nice things they have, the fact that they are standoffish, much more mature, very academic,
... Should I keep going? Lol.
They have a really nice car. And a fancy last name. And eat at restaurants where the food is served fancily on a regular basis. Looks wise, nothing much, I'm more into regular guys than really hot ones.
If I eat the garbage out of people's recycling bins will girls think I'm out of their league?
@Twinrova well yes but not that you're above their league.
Well what if I drive up to the bins in a sports car?
@Twinrova why make a good car stink?
I want girls to think I'm not out of their league.
@Twinrova well then don't eat from trash.
Oh, so you're saying if I continue to as I just said, I will be out of their league?
I also have a 2 inch penis erect... I think most girls are intimidated by my assets.
When I was younger I asnt exactly the most attractive, but as there year shabe gone by thst has changed. I use to think looks would make someone iyt of my league, but I no longer feel that way. But now I feel like s certain financial status could make someone out of my league. I'd imagine I'll ve making quite a decent amount if money post-college/later down the line. But there will always be someone making more money than you.
I think it would probably have to be if she was very wealthy, though I'm surprised how much wealthy women feel small or lesser when you start having an intellectual conversation with them and they say stuff like, "I wish I was that smart," or "I wish I knew things like that." Kinda makes you feel awkward.
Apart from physical attraction being the obvious factor, I'd say it's how outgoing and confident they appear to be. Because it kind of screams "I know I'm hot and I know what my options are, and you're at the bottom of my list."
If they look very attractive. I don't like really attractive guys anyway. 🙅 I am afraid they will leave me for hot girl. Average looking guys are the best :)
Usually when they are platinum division or higher. I'm like only Gold III but one day I'll be challenjour.
Never thought that about a guy. When I am low I think I am pretty average, but I'm probably better than average.
You're 37, your way off of average.
The average days were over long ago.
@HeAintMe and you sure are 20 cause you can't tell a fake age online ahhaha
If we are not considering looks, I suppose their influence. How people regard someone can be intimidating at times.
Because of the way they act what they drive how they look and how they are towards you but shy guys like me. Think if she's a beautiful woman and acts a little rude and just no attention at all outta the league is that true
Nothing aside from high age difference and/or her already having a relationship. There are no real leages, it just feels like there are. It's really just opportunities.
(That is WAY too much makeup, by the way. lol)
It's partly about looks but I'd say social status is behind the presumption you're out of someone's league. For example, a hardcore WoW player would assume a socialite won't be interested because of stereotypes from both sides and probably the former's rejection by the latter.