Is it ok to dump a cheater on his b-day? (Page 5)

Question

His b-day is this Sunday. I found out but rather than doing a direct confrontation and dumping him now, I want to wait till his b-day. He doesn't know I know. I'm still dumping him. I ain't staying with no cheater.

PureCinnamon · Answer

Honestly not my style but it's your problem so you can be as spiteful as he wants

Kakaile · Answer

I dont think its a good idea. Id wait til the day after but its up to you.

kk123help · Answer

He cheated so yeah dump him on his birthday not like he is going to care

biryavi · Answer

Be as petty as you want, just don't do something that could backfire lol

Wollu · Answer

If you are a sadist, you might feel the urge to cause extra pain. But it is happy without you, you've shot yourself in the foot by waiting.

asterking01 · Answer

That's the right choice dear... He is cheater and he is the bad person doesn't mean u have to become one... U should definitely wait for his birthday and then dump him later

Anonymous · Answer

I’d do it on his birthday lol no fucks. That’s what he deserves

bkro37 · Answer

You can dump a cheater whenever you damn well please lol. Freaking scum

JDavid25 · Answer

I mean he cheated.. You are a good one for even carin about it in the first place.. haha..

Kreneman · Answer

I wouldn't wait til his birthday, I would do it as soon as possible.

Anonymous · Answer

But if he is playing around with another girl, you leaving him isn't really going to affect him though. He gonna just go to his other girl after you leave him on his birthday.

therainman · Answer

Do it as soon as you know about it. Don't wait on it! Once a cheater, always a cheater.

DollySummers · Answer

No. Do it the day after. It would make you worse than him.

raymantice · Answer

Fuck em, they don't care about you, I finally got away from a manipulative x. Love yourself

Stella1999 · Answer

Yes I would put in Birthday Card in box with pictures for proof.

weaponsdude · Answer

Good for you girl. Make it a painful, depressing day for him. He has earned it.

11110000bbbb · Answer

Do it After or Before. Not on the actual day if you all actually acknowledge the day

metalunicorn1996 · Answer

To tell u the truth you should do it after his birthday

Anonymous · Answer

why are you gonna wait for his birthday? Just dump him quickly

CHARismatic110 · Answer

Sure it is. Happy birthday, go fuck yourself!!! 🎁🎊🎉🎈

aspiringwriter · Answer

Nobody should be dumped on their birthday no matter what. Since you're going to dump them do it before or after his birthday. How would you feel if you got dumped on your birthday?

sleepypenguin · Answer

Either on his birthday or wait till valentines day and make a scene

zerospace · Answer

In this situation where he is already found guilty you should do whatever you think is perfect in this two options

Lycaneye · Answer

Just dump him.. you shouldn't care for its his birthday... Or give him a chance

SketchForger · Answer

Seems spiteful. If you want to break up break up, doesn't matter when.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes i wouldn't give a shit if it was his birthday... he deserves it

hornymike6969 · Answer

won't really matter to him hell just text the other girl and hook up with her for the rest of the night.

zackspada · Answer

Wow your a total bitch that you'd ruin somebody s birthday.

TorixDurg · Answer

Given the circumstances described in your post, I'd say don't go out of your way to dump them on their birthday, just do it now.

daviceroy · Answer

You should do it now. The only person you're hurting right now is you. Waiting will make no difference to him.

Patricknotastar · Answer

Hint that you will dump him on his birthday IF he cheats. Watch him be paranoid for the days prior to his birthday.

safwat1 · Answer

If your gonna do it just too make him feel bad even more than just a confrontation then no, just end it quickly

Lauleneke · Answer

You can edit for his birthday make a cake with I’m dumping your ass then hit him with it lol

Depressive · Answer

Is it ok? Not really? Like definitely understandable, he's been an asshole, make him hurt, but I don't think answering his infidelity with pettiness is the way to do it.

Spacepope · Answer

wow dumping him on birthday. how smart. dump him while he's having a party with 20 other girls around he can fuck. he will be deeply impressed. ... not!

dragon9669 · Answer

Seems harsh, if you caught him cheating however, go for it

Anonymous · Answer

So have you dumped him yet or what. We need updates lmao

Anonymous · Answer

I would suggest hide meat in various places at his room when you get a chance to...😈

Revelator87 · Answer

Oh, come on! Grow up! You are not 14 anymore. Why did he cheated on you? If he did it, he had a reason. You don't own him. Neither he does to you. Instead of revenge, go in front of your mirror and ask that person what you could do better next time.

Stargazer14 · Answer

My birthday is the day after his^^ and I think you should just dump him now

Amanduh24 · Answer

I would do it a minute after his birthday or a minute before

jessture · Answer

Just get it over with now. Stop pretending you live on the bachelorette

Ana18 · Answer

Ofcourse.. it's a perfect time.. there is no excuse for cheating

liarenae · Answer

I would say, happy birthday, hope you got what you wanted and cut him out like that

Whysosirius7 · Answer

No. Breaking up with him is understandable but do it nicely or you’re no better than him

rahul_24 · Answer

I'm saying yes only to the fact that he is a cheater. Don't wait for a perfect day, just break up with him the moment you found out

Tomz12345678 · Answer

He hurt you by cheating why shouldn't you be allowed to do it back. If he isn't ready to commit to one partner then he deserves the pain you will bring him

afe322222 · Answer

Best revenge ever. Like happy birthday, b***! I know what you did.

AlariceRuben · Answer

Haha I love the zero fucks attitude. Do it! Wearing red too 😂

fucgriffith · Answer

It's okay to dump a cheater any day. You're just not doing yourself any favors staying in a shitty relationship for however long till his birthday arrives.

voolf · Answer

Oh girl show some courtesy for your own sake. Though he might be a cheater but he still don't deserve to be dumped in his born day.

ambermdee · Answer

It's only okay if his whole family is there and you confront him. Otherwise there's no reason to wait, you're just going to hurt yourself by waiting.

madpoetuk · Answer

Yes. Serves him right. He'll get a reminder every year not to cheat.

Anonymous · Answer

Dumping a cheater will do nothing to them  You dump him and later on that day he’s fucking some girls brains out You have to get at him a different way

babaganoosh · Answer

Revenge is a dish best served cold and slow. Jesus loves you & happy birthday.

IgnisFatuu · Answer

Just organize a red wedding stile birthday party for him, that will do the trick.

mrbabble · Answer

He deserves it. Dump him and spit on his cake.

MisterNeet · Answer

It's justified, but why wait? Dump him on the spot. He cucked you, bro.

worldscolide · Answer

As they say in temporal mechanics there is no time like the present.

SpicyChickenWings · Answer

Dump him when ever, bur it says quite a bit about you

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