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Is Liking Older Men Bad? What Age Gap Is Too Much? (Page 2)
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I feel uncomfortable to date with girls even a year younger than me. I think I have to change my mentality even though I look somewhat older.
It depends what you personally desire. Age is only but a number.
probably go as young as 25 and as old as about 35 for a relationship but as young as 20 and as old as maybe early 50's for something casual.
I have the same age gap between myself and my man. If it works it works and forget everyone else
As long as you are both happy and in love, just go for it. Age really doesn't matter.
I can say the same thing. I’m in love with a guy in his 40’s - almost 30 years older then me. I LOVE everything about him, except his wife. Can’t have everything i guess.
You are with a married man?
@sheflips yes, sort of. They are separated but still living in the same house. He has a basement apartment and the only thing they share now are the kids. His daughter is a friend of mine and I babysit for them.
Have you ever thought he is just using you?
@sheflips Doesn’t really matter I guess. Not like he’s going to marry me anytime soon.
Go for it. No age difference biases here. If you're into each other, have fun
I like relationship with older women. Older than me.
Most women go through a liking-older-men phase that lasts until they have a pair of wrinkly, old balls slapping their asses; that's when the phase ends.
Ahahaha!! I wasn't expecting this comment lmao
The age gap sounds like too much, but you're an adult so you if you think it's worth it go for it
I see no problem with the age gap your both over age 21 that's all matters.
Do whatever the fluff you want!
I do find an age gap that big a bit weird though, don't you want to experience growing with a guy your age?
I wouldn't mind it actually, I just so happened to fall in love with someone older instead of someone my age lol
"don't you want to experience growing with a guy your age?" - I was thinking about that too.
Love is love I guess, as long as you love each other.
Is not that simple...
What's not simple?
This:
"Love is love I guess, as long as you love each other."
I mean you can't really help who you fall in love with, as long as they love each other then its all good
Yes, you can't help who you fall in love with. But you can choose to not act on it, when it's wrong to be with them.
But what if it's only one person you have loved and can't love anyone else?
Then you accept that you won't fall in love again.
@menina
Yes, you can't help who you fall in love with. But you can choose to not act on it, when it's wrong to be with them.
(when it's wrong to be with them.)
What makes it wrong to be with him? An age gap that doesn't seem to bother you? who gives a shit if it bothers anybody else.
@Joelski440 "What makes it wrong to be with him?" - He's 47, she's 24, he's white and she's black. And do you still ask me what's wrong?
Yes, an age gap bothers me. But if she wants to be with him, then she should go for it. I'm just sharing my opinion.
:o :o :o
I don't judge any gap tbh. And right now I tend to think since 16 is legal in places, they can be ino any age they are attracted to.
Naw its not bad in any way, Age is but a number, my love is 51 and im 26 things are going well
How does sex work if she is in menopause stage? Have you thought of the future with someone in the aging stage?
The sex is on and off, but thats not something i worry about too much, yea I've thought about it, and willing
Of course not. I don't look my age and I date younger all the time. Conversation is the only hitch
Nothing wrong with it. Age is just a number
It's ok, but chances are you will still be fairly young when he dies, so it's not practical.
Widow at 50, quite young unless he lives a long life
I think that is too much but is because I wouldn't Merry a woman 20 years older than me but usually the man is older than woman
Nothing wrong with a age gap. For me much more then ten year did not work.