A stripper gave her number to my boyfriend, I don't know how to react?

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My boyfriend went to a strip club with his friend (which I'm totally fine with) and they were being flirty with some strippers. They like to be in competition with one another about who has more game. A stripper gave her number to my boyfriend and he texted the number once just to see if it was real (he showed me everything) and it was. His friend got a fake number so it made my boyfriend feel pretty good. Of course I got mad at first but he explained that 1. He's telling me everything about it, not hiding it 2. He loves me and would never cheat on me 3. He explained that it's probably her way of getting more business and more regular customers. I was mad about it at first but then we talked about it and I felt a bit better about it but I wanted more opinions. What would you guys do in this situation? Is texting the stripper crossing the line?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I know my boyfriend has done this before and I was ticked right off cuz it made me think he was cheating. He told me about it and all that which eventually made me feel less aggravated and uneasy

I don't know if your boyfriend called the stripper but my boyfriend called and texted her a few times (that’s what made me more annoyed and “omg he’s cheating”). If he’s texting the stripper in a flirty way and trying to get with her, it’s a problem. If he’s texting her so she can get more business and payment, I wouldn’t try to think of it as an issue because it may not be. But if you do think it is, always TALK to HIM about it

jellyroo · Accepted Answer

If him texting to check if the number's real (since fake numbers is pretty common, being curious about it seems normal), why doesn't him competing with his buddy over who can attract the most strippers bother you?

Unless he's planning to make a friend out of the stripper, or doesn't want to remove her number, I'd say there's no problem.

AzureGirl · Accepted Answer

I wouldn’t be concerned if the only reason he messaged the number is to settle a stupid bet with a friend. I would be concerned if he texted it anytime in the future on more than friendly terms. But considering he only got it for bet purposes and he was honest about the whole thing I don’t think that’ll really happen.

SheeRaXStePhan · Accepted Answer

Hmmm, actually It's pretty good that your boyfriend told you everything about it, but texting a stripper "eeh"... kinda over the limit... I mean okay, he likes to go to these kinds of places and such, having a stripper number... but texting her is a "No" from me...

lastchancemotel · Accepted Answer

He's actually right. He had a friendly wager at the expense of someone who was on the clock, he wasn't getting anywhere and he knew it, and was open and honest, showed you everything and still was willing to talk with you about it. If you don't like it talk to him about it, or maybe get in on it and take a leap on the wild side for a while ;) go ahead and act like a different person for a while (you obviously don't have to have sex with the stripper!), he'll love you for it and when you get home... If you get home... You'll have him going like crazy watching you flirt... Especially if you beat him ;)

Miristheiss · Accepted Answer

You guys sound like you have a healthy relationship with a good shot at long term success. There's nothing that says I love you more than making a date to go pay other live women to take off their clothes for his sexual enticement and for them to gyrate their naked bodies on his lap. I'm sure he was thinking of you the entire time. How romantic.

Chaz269 · Answer

His excitement is ridiculous. I guarantee if they connected that it would be a pay to play scenario. She's not into him on any personal level. She sees dollar signs on him, and that's it.
Strippers don't go to work to make friends or meet love interests. They're on the job and grinding the stone like very few people could possibly understand and fewer can relate.

trisa0918 · Answer

Lol
You were being a great girlfriend
Why get all suspicious and bothered now?

Just make sure it's all in the open and trust him.
But if u can't help but think about it, then maybe don't let him get in touch with her any further.

madhatters4 · Answer

i think you have to define the line. i personally would say it's crossing the line but if you think it's harmless fun and trust that it is then the line hasn't been crossed

winterr · Answer

The fact that he even texted her in the first place is mad disrespectful. He's in a relationship he shouldn't have the need to prove to his friends who has more game. That's something a single person would do.

SarahsSummer · Answer

Lol. The man with “more game” at a strip club is the one who spends more. Does he waste his money for other frivolous reasons?

Babyygirl__18 · Answer

Find her Ofc, ask her why she did it and never to do it again, beat her up if u have to and leave

Luna26 · Answer

Completely immature. Why does he need to know who's got more game if he's in a relationship with you? Just not ok at all.

heckyhicky · Answer

This reminds me when my ex wrote "text me" and his real number on a sheet on the wall in a public area.

theharlequin · Answer

I'd say him going to a strip club when he's in a relationship is crossing the line

Brutal_Honesty · Answer

he probably isn't intending to cheat on you but you have made it clear that you are not enjoying this, and that should be a line for him. if he crosses that line, that's not cool

Anonymous · Answer

He actually checked if her number was real? Sounds like he's working his way up to a side chick.

Shihab-91 · Answer

To be honest going to striping club is not fine lol

Anonymous · Answer

What do you expect when he goes to strip clubs? High class conversation?

deeders · Answer

As long its only chatting and not sexting it should be fine

Anonymous · Answer

You should screw his friend with the weak game in order to even the score a bit. That'll teach him that game isn't everything.

Pink2000 · Answer

I wouldn’t be okay with it.

Pauliho · Answer

Tell your boyfriend to bin it

FrenchyRomain · Answer

going to the strip club ni the 1st place is wrong

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