I'll admit, I'm on your side. The thing is, society's pretty plastic right about now & "we waste time looking for the perfect love, instead of creating the perfect love." Most girls just don't see that much. And there are a lot of girl that love that mind game, chase crap, but there are some out there that are pretty straight forward. I'd know because I'm one of them. You have to go for a girl that you like and you can build a relationship with, and to do that you can't really have clashing personalities. For example: seems like if you go for a girl that likes the word play, you're going to hate women until the end of time.
I agree. But it is incorrect for you to group a whole gender together like this, because there are women who are in it for love. Like others have said, you've been going for the wrong girls. Sounds like you're furious. Just be patient. Why not go for the low maintenance types who appreciate the simpler things in life. Don't give up. Date different people. You'll soon find that not everyone is the same. Goodluck on finding the one.
Your clearly socialising with the wrong people, ey? I've had none of these experiences. Maybe with like, one or two girls. But they were f***ing insane anyway. You need to like, screen girls, before you get into them, hahaha. If she's clearly painfully disturbed, like the ones your talking about, leave her aloneeee.
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Well I am sorry that your experience as a lesbian has not worked out. Sucks to see that women do it to other women to. I hope that some day you find a nice man to settle down with, I think your attempts at females has failed and you should just be with men from now on.
I'm here with you bro I hate them too. I'm a truck driver that drives acrossed the US and been to every state at least once, talked to many people and been to a lot of places, they all are the same. If your not a body builder, drive a Ferrari with a mansion off the ocean they won't even look at you anymore. I know what your talking about it seems like from the 80's on back, to the early 90's people married because of love, yes looks do play a roll, I know if I was 500 pounds I wouldn't be writing this, but it's horrible today. Look on that show Maury for example of the low life scum guys on there and the women love that! An average Jo like us doesn't stand a chance anymore and personality don't mean a thing either. I've been on every dating site, had MySpace for 7 years and the only thing they would do is just read my messages and never reply, facebook, I can go on and on. I am set on being single all my life and that's fine with me.
I totally agree with you. I love girls, but they make no sense. They never do and they never will. I literally hate them sometimes. I stopped taking their crap, which is probably why I don't have a girlfriend, but I don't really care.
Just try to find a girl whose good out-weighs her insanity. that's all you can do.
hey I agree with what you're saying, I mean, being a girl myself, I can't say I never do those things, because I probably do on occasion, but I try not to. I also agree with the "together for love and nothing else", I don't care what a person looks like, what their job is, or anything. if you love someone, you will find them attractive no matter what.
as for periods, to be honest, it really messes with a girls hormones and therefore emotions, and although girls can't help getting a little snappy during that time, it doesn't mean they can't be aware of that.
not every couple is going to work out, but you can always hope.
its because bitches think their the sh*t ...cuz they got hella make up and cover up ect making them look good...
but I know what you mean...if a girl wants a hug its fine but when we want a hug its noooooooooooooooooooooo
thats why you gotta hit it and quit it
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I think your being a sexist pig and this is why your getting the girls who act this way with you, you overgeneralize and it insults them they don't all think the same as others! Insted of looking at the girls at bars and stuff and the girls who are all over the usual places where people "hook up" you need to go to a church or a library to find the girls your after, if they will have you after this bs ^. I'm only 15 soon to be 16, and I know all this! Wake up and smell the roses man!
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I hate men. I really do. They go after the "hot" girls, the ones who were hot sh*t in high school and still think they are, but have no redeeming qualities. Do they go after the smart girls? No, they'd rather have the girl with a nice rack than the girl with a college degree. No, they want the girls who rely on their looks, and aspire only to be trophy wives. You know they'll cheat on you with a professional athlete, right?
And then they complain when all girls are vapid bitches. Amazing.
Yeah, the guy who made paypal, he married a girl and divorced her because she wasn't "hot" or "blond" enough, or enough of the wife who went for clothes and makeup. So it can be true in some cases of what you say. It was in a cosmo magazine and I read about her messy divorce with him, after like 5 kids.
Paranoid as in, 2 people answer within the same minute and you assume it's the same person. It's happened to me pretty often on here, actually. I just posted anon because I prefer anonymous communication, I never actually post under my username.
Oh and by the way I feel I should clarify on my answer, I don't actually feel this way about guys. I'm just saying, your little rant could go both ways.
Advicegiver, are you talking to me? My answer was meant to be a blatant generalization, satirizing OP's incorrect generalizations, and yes it IS incorrect - that was the point.
It's obvious that you're going for the wrong women. Go for the girls opposite of them, they may not be a perfect 10 when it comes to looks but at least they have integrity.
human condition said it best, Try going for girls that aren't hot, or stuck up, or daddy's little princesses. Try the tomboys, nerdy, shy, conservative, or quirky girls.
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i think mtv is to blame shows like Jersey Shore were the girls all dress like sluts and fuck around is what is destroying society woman now spend hours with makeup and primping everyday just so they can look like them , now kids are doing the same thing you see girls 9+ trying to look like porn stars taking selfies pretending to suck dick. im 22 i have a sister whos 14 a couple months ago my mum read who facebook msgs and found that she's been sending nudes to boys after a big fight my mum asked her if she's still a virgin apparently being 14 and a virgin is a bad thing, she go's on to tell my mum that she's slept with 5 guys and that she and her friends have been going to an abandoned house when there meant to be at school and having sex every day. now days being called a stut is the equivalent to being called a cool guy
It sounds like you had a really bad experience with someone. I agree, a lot of girls are bitches, and they are never happy no matter what you give them or do for them. I have tons of guy friends, only about 3 close girls. I don't like girls. They're too catty and dramatic. But I promise, not all girls are like that! You just haven't met the right one yet. Keep your head up :)
Word I agree with you but hey that's why women are very irrational. They don't know what they want and they don't think when they act. Welcome to life.
As long as he makes an honest living, his career wouldn't matter much to me. And I agree, women do sometimes expect the man to read their minds. I think if you're in tune with a woman, you can really tell what's she's thinking/feeling... I've had guys answer my questions before I even asked & I'm like, "woah, he's a keeper!" Anyway, I'm sorry some woman (or women) did you wrong, but it's not fair to assume every woman is like that.
I know what you are talking about I wish girls were nicer. See to me have you ever heard good guys finish last well good girls do to. I wish we were different and I am sorry you had bad experiences.
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I'll admit, I'm on your side. The thing is, society's pretty plastic right about now & "we waste time looking for the perfect love, instead of creating the perfect love." Most girls just don't see that much. And there are a lot of girl that love that mind game, chase crap, but there are some out there that are pretty straight forward. I'd know because I'm one of them. You have to go for a girl that you like and you can build a relationship with, and to do that you can't really have clashing personalities. For example: seems like if you go for a girl that likes the word play, you're going to hate women until the end of time.
But, best of luckk.
I agree. But it is incorrect for you to group a whole gender together like this, because there are women who are in it for love. Like others have said, you've been going for the wrong girls. Sounds like you're furious. Just be patient. Why not go for the low maintenance types who appreciate the simpler things in life. Don't give up. Date different people. You'll soon find that not everyone is the same. Goodluck on finding the one.
Your clearly socialising with the wrong people, ey? I've had none of these experiences. Maybe with like, one or two girls. But they were f***ing insane anyway. You need to like, screen girls, before you get into them, hahaha. If she's clearly painfully disturbed, like the ones your talking about, leave her aloneeee.
Well I am sorry that your experience as a lesbian has not worked out. Sucks to see that women do it to other women to. I hope that some day you find a nice man to settle down with, I think your attempts at females has failed and you should just be with men from now on.
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LOL, even if I was a lesbian, that's the stupidest thing I've heard in all my life.
Thanks Bambii ^^
Just fighting stupidity where I can sir :)
Lol, you'll have your work cut out for yaaaa
I'm here with you bro I hate them too. I'm a truck driver that drives acrossed the US and been to every state at least once, talked to many people and been to a lot of places, they all are the same. If your not a body builder, drive a Ferrari with a mansion off the ocean they won't even look at you anymore. I know what your talking about it seems like from the 80's on back, to the early 90's people married because of love, yes looks do play a roll, I know if I was 500 pounds I wouldn't be writing this, but it's horrible today. Look on that show Maury for example of the low life scum guys on there and the women love that! An average Jo like us doesn't stand a chance anymore and personality don't mean a thing either. I've been on every dating site, had MySpace for 7 years and the only thing they would do is just read my messages and never reply, facebook, I can go on and on. I am set on being single all my life and that's fine with me.
I totally agree with you. I love girls, but they make no sense. They never do and they never will. I literally hate them sometimes. I stopped taking their crap, which is probably why I don't have a girlfriend, but I don't really care.
Just try to find a girl whose good out-weighs her insanity. that's all you can do.
hey I agree with what you're saying, I mean, being a girl myself, I can't say I never do those things, because I probably do on occasion, but I try not to. I also agree with the "together for love and nothing else", I don't care what a person looks like, what their job is, or anything. if you love someone, you will find them attractive no matter what.
as for periods, to be honest, it really messes with a girls hormones and therefore emotions, and although girls can't help getting a little snappy during that time, it doesn't mean they can't be aware of that.
not every couple is going to work out, but you can always hope.
its because bitches think their the sh*t ...cuz they got hella make up and cover up ect making them look good...
but I know what you mean...if a girl wants a hug its fine but when we want a hug its noooooooooooooooooooooo
thats why you gotta hit it and quit it
I think your being a sexist pig and this is why your getting the girls who act this way with you, you overgeneralize and it insults them they don't all think the same as others! Insted of looking at the girls at bars and stuff and the girls who are all over the usual places where people "hook up" you need to go to a church or a library to find the girls your after, if they will have you after this bs ^. I'm only 15 soon to be 16, and I know all this! Wake up and smell the roses man!
I hate men. I really do. They go after the "hot" girls, the ones who were hot sh*t in high school and still think they are, but have no redeeming qualities. Do they go after the smart girls? No, they'd rather have the girl with a nice rack than the girl with a college degree. No, they want the girls who rely on their looks, and aspire only to be trophy wives. You know they'll cheat on you with a professional athlete, right?
And then they complain when all girls are vapid bitches. Amazing.
Yeah, the guy who made paypal, he married a girl and divorced her because she wasn't "hot" or "blond" enough, or enough of the wife who went for clothes and makeup. So it can be true in some cases of what you say. It was in a cosmo magazine and I read about her messy divorce with him, after like 5 kids.
Secondbestkiller posted back to back last night a minute apart. This is her anonymous answer.
What? No. It's cute that you're so paranoid though. (:
Paranoid? She's a little 16 year old liberal from NY. Nothing to be paranoid about
Paranoid as in, 2 people answer within the same minute and you assume it's the same person. It's happened to me pretty often on here, actually. I just posted anon because I prefer anonymous communication, I never actually post under my username.
Oh and by the way I feel I should clarify on my answer, I don't actually feel this way about guys. I'm just saying, your little rant could go both ways.
Incorrect. Don't generalize.
Advicegiver, are you talking to me? My answer was meant to be a blatant generalization, satirizing OP's incorrect generalizations, and yes it IS incorrect - that was the point.
don't hate men, many of them aren't that bad. ...suggestion; try the shy ones, I think you'll be surprised
Oh for f***'s sake, I don't hate men. This is satirical (satirizing OP's little rant).
I'm in a relationship, it's pretty obvious I DON'T hate men.
I just wanna say that I agree, people are ruled to much by there physical need but girls aren't exactly inocent of it either.
It's obvious that you're going for the wrong women. Go for the girls opposite of them, they may not be a perfect 10 when it comes to looks but at least they have integrity.
human condition said it best, Try going for girls that aren't hot, or stuck up, or daddy's little princesses. Try the tomboys, nerdy, shy, conservative, or quirky girls.
i think mtv is to blame shows like Jersey Shore were the girls all dress like sluts and fuck around is what is destroying society woman now spend hours with makeup and primping everyday just so they can look like them , now kids are doing the same thing you see girls 9+ trying to look like porn stars taking selfies pretending to suck dick. im 22 i have a sister whos 14 a couple months ago my mum read who facebook msgs and found that she's been sending nudes to boys after a big fight my mum asked her if she's still a virgin apparently being 14 and a virgin is a bad thing, she go's on to tell my mum that she's slept with 5 guys and that she and her friends have been going to an abandoned house when there meant to be at school and having sex every day. now days being called a stut is the equivalent to being called a cool guy
You sound bitter and cynical,therefore I won't even take the time to answer this question
Good, don't. Am I supposed to be upset that you don't want to answer? No. I could care less.
It's "I couldn't care less"
And You have issues,go to a therapist
You should go to your monthly Feminist club meeting.
I'm not a feminist:)
It sounds like you had a really bad experience with someone. I agree, a lot of girls are bitches, and they are never happy no matter what you give them or do for them. I have tons of guy friends, only about 3 close girls. I don't like girls. They're too catty and dramatic. But I promise, not all girls are like that! You just haven't met the right one yet. Keep your head up :)
Word I agree with you but hey that's why women are very irrational. They don't know what they want and they don't think when they act. Welcome to life.
As long as he makes an honest living, his career wouldn't matter much to me. And I agree, women do sometimes expect the man to read their minds. I think if you're in tune with a woman, you can really tell what's she's thinking/feeling... I've had guys answer my questions before I even asked & I'm like, "woah, he's a keeper!" Anyway, I'm sorry some woman (or women) did you wrong, but it's not fair to assume every woman is like that.
I know what you are talking about I wish girls were nicer. See to me have you ever heard good guys finish last well good girls do to. I wish we were different and I am sorry you had bad experiences.
I wish girls were nicer to and finally someone that can see good guys and good girls do finish last a lot of the time it seems.
Trust me, we feel similarly about men... seem to always looking for something better to come along...
I don't talk to anyone too much when I've my period because I can't even stand on my legs that time..
IM not a gold digger neither run after look.
But you guys do run after look.
Women were always about personality and men about looks. Seems to be switched up now.
I can say the same thing about guys but I won't write novel about it like you. I'll simply dismiss them
i can understand.. some women are just crazy like that.