Let me explain. I read it and it sounded harsh. I mean own what you did. All you xan do is own your actions. He has to own his too. And if a relationship is making you go tit for tat than do you really think its worth it? Id say be honest cause if you hold it in it will eventually eat at you. Unless your a selfish person cause they dont care. But I dont think you are so be true to yourself.
He has been doing shitty things on your behalf, as in not calling and trying to make you a priority... but if thats the way you jump to conclusions without communicating... i wouldn't want a relationship with you.
No not here's any deal bullshit... I dont care if someone likes someones pictures. I treat my partner with respect and she can have her own life. We also have each other and enjoy it. If you justify cheating like that you dont deserve anyone.
The fact is, its a toxic relationship and jealousy is taking over if both partners can't be happy for other people in their lives. The fuck is wrong with people these days
Lol liking some other dudes pictures is not much respect for you. Sorry. Maybe you have been hurt in the past that you tolarate your partner too much or you really dont care about being serious with her. Sorry bro. I disagree with you on that on. But no disrespect its your life choice.
Fair call, each to their own. I see jealousy as toxicity is all I'm saying. Nothing wrong with liking peoples pics, it can certainly be done respectfully
Yeah but he is doing it on purpose. I know for example if my men like other girls pictures that i didn't know or werent part of our friendship group. I eould doubt him and be curious because like any person i wpuld think. He is interested in these random girls that i dont know about
Yeah i got you fam. I think we pretty much have the same opinion just stating it differently. I dont agree with the cheating at all. Just leave if unhappy. Me and my partner have agreed it doesn't worry us if each other thinks someone is good looking. We also have a very happy and healthy relationship which makes it easy and comfortable.
I broke up with him once because of him neglecting me. He would not respond to my text but he would share stuff on facebook. I dont care if you like pics. But he hearted a girl’s picture on facebook and after that he liked every single picture of hers.
Yeah see even worse. Girl dont even feel guilty. If a guy treated you like that he is playing games. Not even worth your time. You got pride the size of a mountine because you are worth it. If he wants to be a dickhead just make the breakup official. Send him a text saying hey i want to meet up and discuss us. When are you available. Trust me by the looks of it he doesn't seem ready for a serious relationship with you and you shouldn't be the only one investing. After all it takes 2 to tango.
You're still young maybe you need to live that life first before you settle down. If you're going to go kissing random dudes you should probably break up with him.
Dude.. Social media is life.. I don't use that shit, so I technically don't exist. My ex once told me that I have to get myself at least one app in order to make our relationship official.. "It wouldn't feel real otherwise" 😂
No.. I still communicate with female human beings in real life and.. I actually am kind to them sometimes.. That's still enough evidence to be accused of it.
@rapfan107 very true, walk too close 😂... look at them a second too long, look too high, look to low, mention some other woman's name, talk about your mother too much, say my sister looks pretty LOL... Women find every reason to be jealous. 😂😂😂
Guys come on. you're so innocent. But here is the deal. Women have a sixth sense so if another woman is after our men we will pounce because we care about you. You should be relieved if a girl asks you or is upset of you are interested in other girls because it means we love you and want a serious relationship now if you aren't interested in something serious call it what you want but love is not only female logic. Its universal.
When did i agree. Not at all cute. If i had doubt he would e cheating i would leave him on the spot. If he thinks thats cute he needs to get a dictionary and reevalute
😂all I'm saying just the fact that e may be talking or just liking bother girls pick does not mean we are cheating. That's all in their heads. Would you feel ok if your boyfriend accused you of cheating just for talking to another guy?🤔
@dandiecandie very true. I wouldn't "fight" over no man. He wants to get on cheating, some chick wants him more, I say go for it. I'd kick his ass over to her just because... Not cause I don't want him but yeah entertain the thought and you're already there 😂 I would never put in more effort than needed to keep a man by my side. He should just want to be there. I would expect the same for me. And yeah some of us do just instinctively know when other women are being sly, or when our man is being too flirtatious for our own comfort... But again, it takes a certain kind of woman to care enough to be jealous but not make a huge ordeal out of it... Such as kissing another man cause we feel insecure. That's just bogus excuses for being a cheater.
First of all i dont have a boyfriend and talking is different from cheating or liking someone. If he liked another girls picture i would be pissed off because i want a serious relationship. What is he in 3rd year unuversity where he thinks he still got it lol. Hell no whatever he thinks he has got its in my possession now. Lol. By the way i dont have a boyfriend but if i did i woyld have him to talk to not other guys. Got it mr. Biggie smalls. Loool.
Well first off good thing you don't have a boyfriend or he'll go insane JK please don't shoot me 😂 and second I can bauch for a lot guys when I say , just cause we like a pic online ow e have an small conversation with another girl. We are not cheating , no need to have that level of paranoia. We still love youguys and it's impossible to avoid contact with other girls and last I don't know if I should take the biggie part as a compliment or an insult 😂😂
Lol well its not paranoia its about the fact that i would get upset if he has free time but spends it talking to other girls. That hurts and makes me think that he thinks im not interesting or fun enough so he needs another one to make him feel enterained. In this i would tell him. Go to her she's more interesting. I am the type that wants the guy forever with me. If he can bleed just a little for me i would bleed for him for life. But thats because i take love matters very seriously and am very devoted to the one i chose thats why i dont jump in a relationship right away. I assess the situation before hand. That includes compatibility in values and mentality. This means he would think and value the same way as i do. Thus we would not end up hurting each other. Loving passionatly and madly ia very far from paranoia its called true love thats hard to find.
If paranoia it's true love mental facilities must be full of great lovers jk😂 all I'm saying it's sometimes I see one of my girl friends post a new profile pic online and if we click like doesn't mean we're cheating. And soemtimes if you're like in the DMV or the store and girl starts a friendly conversation, you can't be like "sorry I got a girlfriend I'm only hers , my time it's just for her" we don't love guys any less for that 😉
Lol so here is why your logic doesn't work. I already explained you paranoia accusation and im not gonna revisit it because what you say is bs. Anyway you see for a girl to already make a move on you because you use your smooth talking skills to impress her al ready proves the point that you upped up tour game as you like her. No of you're gonna be a dick and lead her on wothout any intentions that just means you dont care about the girl you have on your arm and on top of that you are selfishly using manipulative techniques to entice or draw attention to yourself in order to feel adequate and show your current girlfriwnd that girls want you bur 2 can play at that game U use communication skills but us girls have boobies and buddies to do the talking for us. But in a way it shows you are deprived of necessary attention from your current partner that you crave to fullfill it from someone else. thus the meaning less enticing conversations tou have with a cashier.
Otherwise if you both really decided to stop playing the game you will only see your girl and no one else. You will tell the cashier. Yeah yeah im busy just pack it up and give me back my change.
Rapfan. I dont need your advice because the man who gets to be my husband will be the luckiest in the world and he will know it. So he for sure as hell will not look forvattenttion from random girls online or cashiers. He will know the diamond he has on his arms cannot bd found anywhere else.
You should be put down you no good hussy. First instinct for girls when they don't know exactly what a guy's doing - Cheat on him... damn sluts need to be sterilized
At this point, if he's worth it, he'll stick around even knowing you cheated. He would understand why you did it. But be very aware, YOU FUCKED UP. Hopefully you didn't really damage him but being honest will immediately give you your answer.
I honestly don't see how people can say this. He definitely 100% deserves to know that she cheated on him. Keeping it a secret is just horrible and in my opinion makes it worse. Because then she is not only a cheater, but a liar.
Actually anyone sexual or romantic (that includes kissing or even texting someone else) you do with another person and have to hide from your partner is cheating.
@Anon-ymous1 If it isn't then I'm sure neither of us would have an issue kissing someone else in front of our partners. lol After all whoever have nothing to hide has nothing to worry about.
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Own your mistake. Imagine how youd feel if he was asking people the same question. Would you want to know?
Let me explain. I read it and it sounded harsh. I mean own what you did. All you xan do is own your actions. He has to own his too. And if a relationship is making you go tit for tat than do you really think its worth it? Id say be honest cause if you hold it in it will eventually eat at you. Unless your a selfish person cause they dont care. But I dont think you are so be true to yourself.
He has been doing shitty things on your behalf, as in not calling and trying to make you a priority... but if thats the way you jump to conclusions without communicating... i wouldn't want a relationship with you.
Oh yeah well here is the deal would you want a relationship with a girl who likes other dudes pictures
No not here's any deal bullshit... I dont care if someone likes someones pictures. I treat my partner with respect and she can have her own life. We also have each other and enjoy it. If you justify cheating like that you dont deserve anyone.
The fact is, its a toxic relationship and jealousy is taking over if both partners can't be happy for other people in their lives. The fuck is wrong with people these days
Lol liking some other dudes pictures is not much respect for you. Sorry. Maybe you have been hurt in the past that you tolarate your partner too much or you really dont care about being serious with her. Sorry bro. I disagree with you on that on. But no disrespect its your life choice.
There is nothing wrong with people but obviously thinking that ypur partner thinks more of others than you its degrading. Its not self transformstion.
Fair call, each to their own. I see jealousy as toxicity is all I'm saying. Nothing wrong with liking peoples pics, it can certainly be done respectfully
Yeah but he is doing it on purpose. I know for example if my men like other girls pictures that i didn't know or werent part of our friendship group. I eould doubt him and be curious because like any person i wpuld think. He is interested in these random girls that i dont know about
Just using logic here. You know what i mean
Yeah i got you fam. I think we pretty much have the same opinion just stating it differently.
I dont agree with the cheating at all. Just leave if unhappy. Me and my partner have agreed it doesn't worry us if each other thinks someone is good looking. We also have a very happy and healthy relationship which makes it easy and comfortable.
Thats awesome bro. If you guys can make it work in your own special way. It doesn't matter. Its what works for both sides to achieve happiness.
I broke up with him once because of him neglecting me. He would not respond to my text but he would share stuff on facebook. I dont care if you like pics. But he hearted a girl’s picture on facebook and after that he liked every single picture of hers.
Yeah see even worse. Girl dont even feel guilty. If a guy treated you like that he is playing games. Not even worth your time. You got pride the size of a mountine because you are worth it. If he wants to be a dickhead just make the breakup official. Send him a text saying hey i want to meet up and discuss us. When are you available. Trust me by the looks of it he doesn't seem ready for a serious relationship with you and you shouldn't be the only one investing. After all it takes 2 to tango.
You cheated because of him liking photos on social media? That might be one of the dumbest things I've ever heard.
you need to tell him what you did and how you feel about him in the last time. Be honest, this way things work out how they have to
What you did was stupid. I don't know how you can fix it.
The relationship was doomed from the beginning. No trust, no communication, no effort. Basically, all parties involved are at fault.
Yeah, you cheated. If you want to stay in the relationship you need to talk to him about how you are feeling at least.
It's over! It is a matter of time. It doesn't matter how you handle it.
If you have a soul, just officially end it now. If you don't you are selfish.
Don't tell him, if you want to stay in the relationship. But if he is neglecting you so, then how is the relationship going to last?
You're still young maybe you need to live that life first before you settle down. If you're going to go kissing random dudes you should probably break up with him.
Ok so you thought he was cheating cause he liked some girl's pics "female logic "
Dude.. Social media is life.. I don't use that shit, so I technically don't exist.
My ex once told me that I have to get myself at least one app in order to make our relationship official.. "It wouldn't feel real otherwise" 😂
Then you're off the hook man 😂 there's no way you can get caused of cheating for liking other girls pic
No.. I still communicate with female human beings in real life and.. I actually am kind to them sometimes.. That's still enough evidence to be accused of it.
Lol yeah they literally get jealous if you walk near another girl
@rapfan107 very true, walk too close 😂... look at them a second too long, look too high, look to low, mention some other woman's name, talk about your mother too much, say my sister looks pretty LOL... Women find every reason to be jealous. 😂😂😂
True 😂😂you can't even talk to the cashiers. They're like , why was she asking you if you were interested in the specials
Guys come on. you're so innocent. But here is the deal. Women have a sixth sense so if another woman is after our men we will pounce because we care about you. You should be relieved if a girl asks you or is upset of you are interested in other girls because it means we love you and want a serious relationship now if you aren't interested in something serious call it what you want but love is not only female logic. Its universal.
😂ok so what are supposed to do then , close our eyes every time there's another girl near by 😂
Lol thats exagerating. You just focus on your girl. she's your priority of you love her that is.
See then you agree. It's cute when we get accused of cheating just for talking , seeing or just a girls pick online.
When did i agree. Not at all cute. If i had doubt he would e cheating i would leave him on the spot. If he thinks thats cute he needs to get a dictionary and reevalute
😂all I'm saying just the fact that e may be talking or just liking bother girls pick does not mean we are cheating. That's all in their heads. Would you feel ok if your boyfriend accused you of cheating just for talking to another guy?🤔
@dandiecandie very true. I wouldn't "fight" over no man. He wants to get on cheating, some chick wants him more, I say go for it. I'd kick his ass over to her just because... Not cause I don't want him but yeah entertain the thought and you're already there 😂
I would never put in more effort than needed to keep a man by my side. He should just want to be there. I would expect the same for me.
And yeah some of us do just instinctively know when other women are being sly, or when our man is being too flirtatious for our own comfort... But again, it takes a certain kind of woman to care enough to be jealous but not make a huge ordeal out of it... Such as kissing another man cause we feel insecure. That's just bogus excuses for being a cheater.
First of all i dont have a boyfriend and talking is different from cheating or liking someone. If he liked another girls picture i would be pissed off because i want a serious relationship. What is he in 3rd year unuversity where he thinks he still got it lol. Hell no whatever he thinks he has got its in my possession now. Lol. By the way i dont have a boyfriend but if i did i woyld have him to talk to not other guys. Got it mr. Biggie smalls. Loool.
Well first off good thing you don't have a boyfriend or he'll go insane JK please don't shoot me 😂 and second I can bauch for a lot guys when I say , just cause we like a pic online ow e have an small conversation with another girl. We are not cheating , no need to have that level of paranoia. We still love youguys and it's impossible to avoid contact with other girls and last I don't know if I should take the biggie part as a compliment or an insult 😂😂
Lol well its not paranoia its about the fact that i would get upset if he has free time but spends it talking to other girls. That hurts and makes me think that he thinks im not interesting or fun enough so he needs another one to make him feel enterained. In this i would tell him. Go to her she's more interesting. I am the type that wants the guy forever with me. If he can bleed just a little for me i would bleed for him for life. But thats because i take love matters very seriously and am very devoted to the one i chose thats why i dont jump in a relationship right away. I assess the situation before hand. That includes compatibility in values and mentality. This means he would think and value the same way as i do. Thus we would not end up hurting each other. Loving passionatly and madly ia very far from paranoia its called true love thats hard to find.
If paranoia it's true love mental facilities must be full of great lovers jk😂 all I'm saying it's sometimes I see one of my girl friends post a new profile pic online and if we click like doesn't mean we're cheating. And soemtimes if you're like in the DMV or the store and girl starts a friendly conversation, you can't be like "sorry I got a girlfriend I'm only hers , my time it's just for her" we don't love guys any less for that 😉
Lol so here is why your logic doesn't work. I already explained you paranoia accusation and im not gonna revisit it because what you say is bs. Anyway you see for a girl to already make a move on you because you use your smooth talking skills to impress her al ready proves the point that you upped up tour game as you like her. No of you're gonna be a dick and lead her on wothout any intentions that just means you dont care about the girl you have on your arm and on top of that you are selfishly using manipulative techniques to entice or draw attention to yourself in order to feel adequate and show your current girlfriwnd that girls want you bur 2 can play at that game
U use communication skills but us girls have boobies and buddies to do the talking for us. But in a way it shows you are deprived of necessary attention from your current partner that you crave to fullfill it from someone else. thus the meaning less enticing conversations tou have with a cashier.
Otherwise if you both really decided to stop playing the game you will only see your girl and no one else. You will tell the cashier. Yeah yeah im busy just pack it up and give me back my change.
😂😂Ok just do me a favor and when you get a boyfriend don't slit his throat or shoot him for liking a pic online or talks to a cashier
Rapfan. I dont need your advice because the man who gets to be my husband will be the luckiest in the world and he will know it. So he for sure as hell will not look forvattenttion from random girls online or cashiers. He will know the diamond he has on his arms cannot bd found anywhere else.
Dont care if he likes other girls’ picture. I do care if he likes every single pic of one girl.
@dandiecandie you go girl. You’re the shit lmao you’re just too perfect.
You should be put down you no good hussy. First instinct for girls when they don't know exactly what a guy's doing - Cheat on him... damn sluts need to be sterilized
Though it seem to be that relationship was at an end, I dont think thats a good excuse for cheating.
Just a kiss? Just don't tell him. He was flirting by liking those pics id nothing else.
At this point, if he's worth it, he'll stick around even knowing you cheated. He would understand why you did it. But be very aware, YOU FUCKED UP. Hopefully you didn't really damage him but being honest will immediately give you your answer.
Talk to him tell him how you feel and talk it out dont cheat work it out
A kiss is nothing, don't even bring it up. What if your wrong about him and ruin you relationship over a kiss?
I honestly don't see how people can say this. He definitely 100% deserves to know that she cheated on him. Keeping it a secret is just horrible and in my opinion makes it worse. Because then she is not only a cheater, but a liar.
Keep it to yourself. Do you like your boyfriend any less as a result of the kiss?
No but i feel very guilty and hurt :(
Why.
It's fairer to stop the relationship with him and find a new one.
Kissing a guy is not cheating. Having sex with another guy is cheating.
Wait how is that not cheating?
@daisy56 Kissing. No that is not cheating. Sex (intercourse) is the only act that is cheating.
So if you were in a close relationship with someone and they kissed another man you wouldn’t be angered at all?
@Rick912 I agree
@daisy56 I would like to know why they did but I would not be angry.
Being okey with your woman kissing other men is kind of a cuckish attitude.
Actually anyone sexual or romantic (that includes kissing or even texting someone else) you do with another person and have to hide from your partner is cheating.
@Vesuvius87 ... No it isn't.
@Anon-ymous1
If it isn't then I'm sure neither of us would have an issue kissing someone else in front of our partners. lol
After all whoever have nothing to hide has nothing to worry about.
@Vesuvius87 Wouldn't give a crap, really.