Well if you don't want me when I'm going through shit why would I want you when I'm at the Top of my Game Shining like a Diamond!!!
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That sounds like something someone spoiled would say to excuse their awful behavior. If I can't handle someone at their "worst"(that could mean all sorts of things like possibly an abuser) I'd probably think I don't even want them at their best.
And no doubt it came from Marilyn Monroe. A woman who had big boobs and smiled in front of the camera and every single other aspect of her life was absolutely awful and that's why she downed a bottle of pills.
I know personnally such a woman. At her worst? Resentful, thinks she's always the victim and never guilty of anything, tends to hit under the belt, bossy, infected by wrath, thinks she did good therapies but never healed from her traumas... she has good sides, but her dark side is really exhausting. So, I decided to stay away from her in 2023. I don't know when I'll reunite with her.
How about, if your expectation is that someone handle you at your worst and you should be the judge of what is good and bad handling of you at your worst then you should probably not be in a relationship.
No. If someone is a total ass the whole damn time I am with them and they say that they are at their worst to stick by them, what if they don't ever get better?
Yes i agree because We select a life partner to be with us and take care of us in our good and bad and worst situation too Soo if some one doesn't care us when we are in worst situation they don't deserve to be as our life partner
I agree because I interpret it as if you can't handle someone in their hardest time and help them through it then you don't deserve them when everything is care free and easier.
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Well if you don't want me when I'm going through shit why would I want you when I'm at the Top of my Game Shining like a Diamond!!!
That sounds like something someone spoiled would say to excuse their awful behavior. If I can't handle someone at their "worst"(that could mean all sorts of things like possibly an abuser) I'd probably think I don't even want them at their best.
And no doubt it came from Marilyn Monroe. A woman who had big boobs and smiled in front of the camera and every single other aspect of her life was absolutely awful and that's why she downed a bottle of pills.
Someone on here said it's not actually her quote.
The world still attributes it to her though since she embodied it more than anyone.
Disagree. It's just an excuse to get away with bad behavior before it happens.
And Marilyn Monroe, never said that. The first time it was ever used, was 6 years after she had died.
GaG put her here, I had no idea it was conected to her.
I prefer the one I found:
"If you can't handle me at my worst, you're right coz that shit is nasty"
Nice.
On a more serious note, if someone's worse means that theyre abusive or a dick in some form or other, their best may not be worth the effort.
Yea, there is more than way to explain this qoute.
I know personnally such a woman. At her worst? Resentful, thinks she's always the victim and never guilty of anything, tends to hit under the belt, bossy, infected by wrath, thinks she did good therapies but never healed from her traumas... she has good sides, but her dark side is really exhausting. So, I decided to stay away from her in 2023. I don't know when I'll reunite with her.
Sounds like an excuse to behave like a jerk and throw the responsibility of fights onto the back of the other person.
It's how our loved ones react during the hard times that show their true allegiance.
I agree.
Fully agree.
You know, I literally just told my girlfriend this the other day - if I can't love all of you, I don't deserve any of you.
I agree cus at the worst is when someone really needs love, care, support, comfort and advice... that is what makes the rel
Oh no no no no. She must be always at her best or else
https://i.imgflip.com/2asqwz.jpg
LOLOLOL I'm done!!!
As long as it's not interpreted as "Let me be an asshole to you just to see how much you like me", I agree.
The exact same sentiment as...
If you're not usually giving me your best... I won't give a shit about you when you're showing me your worst...
Disagree.
It's your own job to handle your bad mood, and not to take it out on another person.
Yep.
I am surprised that more people agree.
If you love someone love them no matter the situation but only if they let you thas what i learn
How about, if your expectation is that someone handle you at your worst and you should be the judge of what is good and bad handling of you at your worst then you should probably not be in a relationship.
No. If someone is a total ass the whole damn time I am with them and they say that they are at their worst to stick by them, what if they don't ever get better?
Absolutely garbage. This is the saying of a narcissist.
Could be so.
Yes i agree because
We select a life partner to be with us and take care of us in our good and bad and worst situation too
Soo if some one doesn't care us when we are in worst situation they don't deserve to be as our life partner
https://i.imgur.com/EKiAyQ9h.jpg
I agree because I interpret it as if you can't handle someone in their hardest time and help them through it then you don't deserve them when everything is care free and easier.