Why does my boyfriend call me "beautiful" when I look like a mess? (Page 2)

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Usually when I go out, I always wear some makeup, even when I go to my boyfriend's place. Yesterday I slept over at his and obviously I took my makeup off even tho I had few acne breakouts on my face since I'm getting my period soon and he saw my acnes but he still calls me "beautiful."  E. g. he would say  - goodnight beautiful  - you okay beautiful?  - i love you beautiful Etc  Should I believe him? Lol Or he's just being sweet coz he's my bf? I look sooo terrible like as if any guy would think I look beautiful yesterday without makeup coz of my breakouts. I know my acnes will go away in few days. Anyways guys, do you do this? Girls, does your man do this?

zulfiqarali · Answer

In love u see positive things not negative so ur boy friend is right... secondly in love ur partner is most beautiful whatever dress colour condition.. it does not matter

Agent · Answer

I mean, you gotta remember he's seeing you through the lens of a heterosexual guy. So you're more attractive to him than you are to you. Girls with acne or wrinkles can still be hot.

AyushMate · Answer

He loves you very much. And if you'll ask me then I would have done the same thing. It doesn't matter if you have acne, you are always a beautiful person for him.

DigitalArchon · Answer

Your boyfriend will always think you're beautiful even if your just in worn out comfy clothes with no make up on. thats the true you, the real person he is in love with.

NiceGuyFinishedFirst · Answer

I called my heart beautiful every day. Didn't even have to see her to know. Was always flirting with her and never stopped trying to win her over. It was almost a nickname at one point if I didn't already call her my heart. But, I'm cheesy I guess 😂 always got her to smile and it was worth it Everytime to see it. 😍

Missylove24 · Answer

Girl u better take that compliment and run with it!! Just be happy he cares enough to say things like that.. it might be something about u that drives him crazy despite the fact YOU think u look a mess.. take that as a boost of confidence.. if u stop and listen when he says it.. It might boost u up 2 and wanna start looking more beautiful than u were b4

mindseyemuse · Answer

Just because you don't think you're still beautiful without makeup doesn't mean he doesn't think you are. The only reason you're asking this question is that you don't feel it so you think he's doing something weird by saying it. But he really means it. You need to look within yourself and ask why you are being so negative and judgmental about yourself. If he's your favorite person in the world, maybe you should respect and trust his opinion.

torwulf · Answer

Every girl I've ever been with looked just as beautiful as a mess. In fact, sometimes it's quite hot.

Kookie00 · Answer

He can see the beauty in you that you can't see. Cherish that fella!

sakalator · Answer

Because.. oh God 😍 I mean whenever I look at her.. there is no way I would say something else ☺️ she is the most beautiful artwork from this planet 😍

Gamezordd · Answer

look you do look beautiful, but don't take it as an excuse to not put in more effort towards looking good dassit. Wish I could say that to my girlfriend

mscott38 · Answer

Sounds like he like you for who you truly are, and that a good thing.

errez · Answer

Just wondering - why there are girls who voted "I'm a guy..."?

Zenurus · Answer

I always preferred the more relaxed, 'so what' -look. Maybe 'cause I don't understand or find fashion or trends appealing, but - I do love waking up to see that just woken up eyes, messy hair and drowsy voice. ^^

Prof_Don · Answer

Many women underrate how good they look to men in a natural state.

Prankster13 · Answer

Look. Almost always when a guy does that. It's because he can tell you don't feel beautiful. But you are. And he thinks you deserve to know it. 😉

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

That's wonderful! You should appreciate that. And, give yourself more credit.

IlyaTheImpaler · Answer

I know, it baffles me too

andreasderjuengere · Answer

Beauty is not only the looks in itself. Being isolated, it would be quite bleak. There is also the aura of beautiful behaviour, feeling and interacting.

Synttacks · Answer

If he says it and doesn't mean it he probably only says it when you fish for it. If he says it because he can then he means it and you should believe him.

findingdreamland-1 · Answer

You are just being insecure. Mean or not mean, enjoy the compliment :)

Mikey_Ramone · Answer

Because he just loves you. Aww us silly boys... we're like moths being blinded by the light lol.

Guxci_28_03 · Answer

can't Be Bothered Reading All That But he's Prolly Either Being Nice Or Telling The Truth.

JimRSmith · Answer

I do this, all the time, and I mean it, so take it at face value.

Ayer93 · Answer

When you're genuinely attracted to someone, it doesn't really matter what they wear. Have you not had that feeling ever? 😓

SaltyBooze · Answer

because you probly dont look like a mess, just regular, and he thinks you're beautiful.

SPChavan · Answer

If you know your man... You'll figure it out by yourself... If he is lying or not.. you don't have to ask 😀

LegateLanius · Answer

Take it at face value. He loves you and thinks you are beautiful. Also, people tend to exaggerate things. You probably don't look like a "mess" as much as you think you do.

mcget · Answer

With my ex-girlfriend i always liked it more when see was wearing my hoodies and no make up, messy hair, just the relaxed look.  Because if he loves you. He really loves to see you

Titanic1912 · Answer

I'm a guy and I voted A! I do it all the time. My mom doesn't think my crush is beautiful. I don't think she's beautiful. I KNOW she's beautiful. She's a goddess.

CHARismatic110 · Answer

Because he's your boyfriend and he loves you flaws and all?

Anonymous · Answer

Because no matter what you will always look beautiful to him. You can have the worst day ever and he will tell you that because he is truly in love with you.

Torex · Answer

Have you ever thought that if someone finds you beautiful they might still think so even when you are a mess?

Anonymous · Answer

Because it's true.

If the whole 'men saying they prefer no makeup' thing should tell you anything it's that you don't understand what they find beautiful and it's certainly not the plastic perfect all-put-together look most of the time.

ChronicThinker · Answer

Because he's attracted to you.

nsyprkr · Answer

Girls are even strange for a girl. If he loves you, ofcourse, he finds you beatiful. What is the problem with it?

jessture · Answer

Can men ever do anything right? Calls you beautiful, its a problem. If he didn't it would probably still be a problem

Eladriel · Answer

We tend to see the real perfections and beauties through prepared appearances. Meaning, when you're a mess, what he sees through your make up or whatever is 100% out there.

stbiker · Answer

Beauty has nothing to do with how you look but how the other person feels for you. Beauty by looks is just a propaganda by the cosmetic industry. Trust your man, he's seen the beauty inside you.

Zanezane · Answer

doesn't matter if ur not wearing makeup or ur hair isn't done up for me, thats something most girls dont understand, i can't really explain in depth. Thats just guys for u

Steve37 · Answer

It's more than just your appearance that he finds beautiful.

epaxily · Answer

Why are you so insecure lmao. Of course he means it.

gclark2708 · Answer

Why is this even a question, your boyfriend thinks you're beautiful whether you look a mess or not. Or maybe he wants to make you feel good

TomasLyy · Answer

Maybe because he's genuinely infatuated with you, to find someone who finds you beautiful is truly a blessing. Don't take him for granted

Main_man_Dan · Answer

He says it because it's the real you and the real you is beautiful to him. A lot of guys are turned off from makeup.

Lilianușka · Answer

There are guys who loves their girlfriend for their naturalistic look. He wants to see you without makeup.

KatherineJ · Answer

It sounds like he likes you for YOU! That’s wonderful!

Devonin · Answer

If he is sincere and you should be able to tell. He is looking at the you he sees not the you I front of him and it means he can overlook the flaws in who you are and see the beautiful person underneath.

dolemite68 · Answer

Cuz girls do look beautiful even when they aren’t perfect looking 🤷‍♂️

Milanonymosa · Answer

When you love someone, he becomes perfect to your eyes.

atlasking · Answer

Because I will love my girlfriend no matter what, that's my 100% guaranteed promise. I don' have one atm.

Nice222 · Answer

What girls think is beautiful and what guy think is beautiful are two different things. I love how my wife looks all dressed down or when she first wakes up.

Anonymous · Answer

Because he loves you and to him, you're always beautiful; even when you're a mess. You're a very lucky woman.

kharos · Answer

Yes I did it like always. Second you lucky bastard... =)

Nicole812 · Answer

he's saying that he doesn’t care about what you look like because he loves you

Sha84 · Answer

he loves your inner beauty more than external looks

rach27 · Answer

He says your beautiful because he is looking at you from the inside.

CT_CD · Answer

Im a guy and I dont do this because I dont lie to my girlfriend

fenixx0083 · Answer

The same reason he calls you beautiful when you're all made up: he wants you to feel good

zb2010 · Answer

Its real love if you look a mess and he looks past all that into your eyes and says your beautiful. Because you are

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