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My girlfriend has slept with over 20 guys. Should I break up with her? (Page 2)
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They were hookups. She needed sex, she got sex. Now she can get sex from you. Just be open and transparent in your relationship and this should not be an issue.
Sorry but I'm not just gonna bow down and forget about this. Maybe you think sex is meaningless but I don't want my future wife to. Sorry but there's no way I'm gonna be a cuck just to please the Feminist/Liberal agenda.
Sex is a fundamental human instinct. So long as you aren't a dickhead of a husband/boyfriend and she isn't a total asshole she'll never cheat on you. Ignoring her previous exploits, does her personality make you think she has the potential to cheat?
Having sex is normal. Sleeping with over 20 guys is not. I have every right to see a red flag, as most men would to. How dare you judge me.
Woah there. Not judging. I was asking, before you knew that she has hooked up with 20 guys before, did you find any inclination towards cheating in her personality?
Not really but I don't think any does, girls cheat all the time and their boyfriends think they're loyal. Sleeping around is a red flag and she is no longer clean or special, in my opinion.
You do you man. If I were a girl, I wouldn't though, I don't believe your lack of understanding is a very attractive concept. Sorry man.
Go work it out with your girlfriend as you see fit.
What is there to "understand"? She slept around and I don't want the love of my life to be like that. How is that "unattractive"? You know what's unattractive though? Defending women on the internet and acting like the protector of women. Girls like men, men with their own standards and opinion, not little guys who just agree with women to seem like a nicer guy. Maybe you should look in a mirror before you start insulting me.
Dude. Don't ask a question if all you want to do is defend the decision you have already apparently made.
Also, I don't try to be the "protector of women," why the fuck would they need protecting? I am just voicing my honest opinion that I don't think that her previous sexual endeavours should influence your commitment to her.
That brings up a good point though. Perhaps the right thing to do would be to break up with her; if I were her, I would find the ease that your trust in her broke very unsettling. I would likely break up with you myself in the belief that you are wasting my time haha.
Yes break up so she can find somebody better.
What’s that supposed to mean? So girls can just sleep with whoever and expect a good man to marry. Why do women feel so entitled? So going by you i have to be a cuck in order to be a good man even though women just cheat on the beta male “good guys” who follow the Feminist agenda. Normal girls slut shame each other - so get outta here with your fantasy Feminist agenda. Girls treat guys so badly that its normal for guys to be cautious, especially with a girl who sleeps around - by the way a girl that sleeps around doesn’t value sex and is •fact• more prone to cheating. Goodbye.
Tata, and wipe your face off, ain't no need for all that crying, I bet she's a good girl and you just like to cry for no reason.
Oh I love your ridiculous 6 year old insults. Just proves I won the argument with one comment.
How many girls have you had?
18. Why does it matter though?
Well, some folks try not to be hypocritical about things. "Don't throw stones in glass houses and all".
However, you seem to find it an issue and it doesn't align with your requirements for a woman, so you should probably break it off because you have the right to set your own standards.
Break up. That's a red flag
No, don't break up. Why would you do that?
Because she’ll probably cheat as she doesn’t value sex at all.
Wait until she cheats, and then break up.
That doesn't seem like a very good idea.
Because she slep around in her past there´s a higher chance of her cheating on you? Maybe she didn't really think about it in a deeper way back then or maybe she was single all that time and thought it wouldn't do anyone wrong? I personally think you shouldn't break up with her. I'm guessing to you she has an amazing personality and a nice physique and you're thinking about letting that go because of her actions from the past?
@AdorableLilo people don't change. She clearly doesn't value sex at all, so yes it is likely she'll cheat as she has no control over herself.
i've read lot's of your replies to other users. It seems as if you really want to break up with her. I haven't seen not even one reply from you that's positive about it. I changed my mind and think you should break up with her. There's no use when at least one in the relationship's doubt is so strong. You won't be waisting your time nor hers then
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I changed my mind, also. He really needs to break up with her. Then when he finds a new girl, maybe he won't wait 8 months to figure out what her number is.
I agree. i wouldn´t want to be with a guy who would doubt so much despite being with me for almost a year
Her number means nothing, don't worry
Yes it does it means she doesn't value sex.
Yeah man. What are you waiting for?
20 don't seem that bad
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So then why are fuckboys and guys that cheat labelled and girls don't wanna date them then?
Everyone has their own mind.
I won’t mind to date a guy who cheated,