Unfortunately, Yes. We need to feel secure. That he can handle responsibilities for himself and anyone else who might come along. However, if a girl is only with a guy for his money. She is a bitch. But, if she loves him for real. That is good.
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Its not about having money to support me if I need that type of lift I'd still live with my parents. What women say when the say money matters is for him to be able to support himself. To be able to split bills. To be financially compatible with her. I earn 600€ per month of course I could never expect my partner to earn 10k or some crazy number like that, money matters in that sense. yes.
It matters to an extent, but it's not the most important thing for me. I personally would pick a guy with a normal job who cares over a rich guy who doesn't.
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I would question if having a strong word ethic matters in a relationship? Yes it does, a person who has goals with whatever they decide to work and want to be great doing their work will be able to sweat towards the relationship as well. I'm pretty much a hard working person, & won't settle for a man who's waiting just for me to pay the bills. I want to have a family with a man with a good heart & responsable mindset.
No, you should like eachother for who you are. Im poor, my girlfriend is from a wealthy family. But we are basically the same person. Both highly intelligent, both attractive, both good people, both huge nerds etc. Money matters when you have a family, it alleviates stress, but is not the basis of a relationship.
Girls sometimes don’t care about him either. If she goes for the latter it means they’re perfect for each other, since she clearly doesn’t give a single crap either. The only thing she is after is his money
As long as he loves me a lot and treats me right it doesn’t matter to me how much money he makes. I have had a boyfriend who worked a lot and he never paid anything for me. I always had to pay my own food in restaurants etc. After him I dated a guy who didn’t even have a job, but he spend all the money his dad gave him on me. I
I’m not trying to say that money is all that matters. But the second guy didn’t have much money to give, but gave everything he had, trying to make me happy.
Think it depends. I think the ideal situation for chicks would be an open relationship with the guy that provides them with the financial stability whether he is a good guy or not but also has a sexy alpha male with a basic job she occasionally go have a good time with.
Guys don't have to be rich. Normal job is better than no job. I would only be be bothered if they had no motivation to save up and experience the world with me.
Yes. Because having a place to live is important. It can help if both people are employed. Even at minimum wage. But if it's the basis of a relationship. That's bad. Oh. And paying rent is not empathy. Anyone who thinks that is a psychopath.
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Unfortunately, Yes. We need to feel secure. That he can handle responsibilities for himself and anyone else who might come along. However, if a girl is only with a guy for his money. She is a bitch. But, if she loves him for real. That is good.
Its not about having money to support me if I need that type of lift I'd still live with my parents. What women say when the say money matters is for him to be able to support himself. To be able to split bills. To be financially compatible with her. I earn 600€ per month of course I could never expect my partner to earn 10k or some crazy number like that, money matters in that sense. yes.
It matters to an extent, but it's not the most important thing for me. I personally would pick a guy with a normal job who cares over a rich guy who doesn't.
I would question if having a strong word ethic matters in a relationship? Yes it does, a person who has goals with whatever they decide to work and want to be great doing their work will be able to sweat towards the relationship as well. I'm pretty much a hard working person, & won't settle for a man who's waiting just for me to pay the bills.
I want to have a family with a man with a good heart & responsable mindset.
I realy don't know why people are like this
@Seppelson Ok, so what's your view?
No, you should like eachother for who you are. Im poor, my girlfriend is from a wealthy family. But we are basically the same person. Both highly intelligent, both attractive, both good people, both huge nerds etc. Money matters when you have a family, it alleviates stress, but is not the basis of a relationship.
Girls sometimes don’t care about him either. If she goes for the latter it means they’re perfect for each other, since she clearly doesn’t give a single crap either. The only thing she is after is his money
As long as he loves me a lot and treats me right it doesn’t matter to me how much money he makes. I have had a boyfriend who worked a lot and he never paid anything for me. I always had to pay my own food in restaurants etc. After him I dated a guy who didn’t even have a job, but he spend all the money his dad gave him on me. I
I’m not trying to say that money is all that matters. But the second guy didn’t have much money to give, but gave everything he had, trying to make me happy.
Think it depends. I think the ideal situation for chicks would be an open relationship with the guy that provides them with the financial stability whether he is a good guy or not but also has a sexy alpha male with a basic job she occasionally go have a good time with.
Guys don't have to be rich. Normal job is better than no job. I would only be be bothered if they had no motivation to save up and experience the world with me.
the first guy is perfect because i would cherish a man who loves me deeply even if he doesn't have a penny
I care about how the guy treats me/makes me feel. Not how much money he has. As long as he has a job and can support himself, I'm satisfied
Money management matters. Is a person responsible with what they have. That matters. Not how much they have.
hands down - a guy with a normal job who loves her a lot and treats her just like the way she would want to be treated.
Ofcourse not, But for basic needs and fulfilling her dreams to survive u need things and for tht things to buy u need money
If you think matters then there's obviously no convincing otherwise, is there? Of course it matters, but I'd wager it matters in more sensible ways.
Do you really want to play childcare for a spoilt princess? Didn't think so.
I don't have a lot of money eyes, actually desperately low amount, I can't and wouldn't go o to a relationship with that
I’d likely settle for the guy that has a normal job that really loves me and treats me right. I find the 2nd option rather “artificial” ...
Unfortunately it does. Money isn’t the source of happiness, but it help you live a comfortable life which can equate to happiness.
I've been broke in my life and I've always said "I would have been a lot happier eating a ribeye steak than top ramen"
Yes. Because having a place to live is important. It can help if both people are employed. Even at minimum wage. But if it's the basis of a relationship. That's bad. Oh. And paying rent is not empathy. Anyone who thinks that is a psychopath.
For a lot of people yes, for me i don't care as long as we can survive