I wouldn't be okay with my boyfriend calling another girl sexy and I know my boyfriend wouldn't like me calling another guy sexy. But everything else he said was just friendly.
Guys do this all the time when they see a pretty girl. Doesn't mean anything. Now if she had expressed interest back, that might have been a different story. But she didn't.
Tbh, he probly won't do it again, at least not for a while. I think you scared him straight.
Guys flirt out of reflex. Most of the time they don't really mean it. If the girl seems interested, which usually she isn't, one of two things happens. If he's a good guy and he's happy with his girlfriend (you), he just laughs it off and continues on with his day. If he isn't, he starts hitting on her for real. I don't know what would have happened if this girl had been into your boyfriend. She wasn't, so it's impossible to tell.
I'm sorry if this sounds complicated. Most of this is intuitive, and it's hard to put into words.
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ooooh shit, you're insecure, girl.
he was just complimenting her and you made them unfollow each other and unfriend each other?
you're insane.
But he said "you look stunning"
And
"Keep being sexy"
Thats flirting?
How the f am I insecure and insane when he's farkn flirting?
You over reacted. Yes, he flirted with her, but he was also saying HI to her and there was very little chance of this going anywhere.
yes he was flirting but you should not worry about her, you need no worry about her you need worry about other women that are not taken yet
Hmm... Tough one. I think he was flirting, but it didn't seem like there was any intent to it.
he's lowkey flirting but i mean as u said he instantly unfriended her so he does give a shit about u
I wouldn't be okay with my boyfriend calling another girl sexy and I know my boyfriend wouldn't like me calling another guy sexy. But everything else he said was just friendly.
It might have been innocent. I'm gonna guess it more then likely was. Sometimes us guys do or say things without realizing exactly how it's sounding
Come on you've been together for a year. Don't you have enough compliments from him?
He's just giving her a compliment, I wouldn't worry.
He was definitely being inappropriate.
Can we say insecure much
You are way too insecure.
No worries. This is harmless.
Why do u think its harmless?
isn't he flirting?
He wasn't REALLY flirting. And she was defo not into him. No harm done.
But he said "you look stunning"
And
"Keep being sexy"
Thats flirting?
Guys do this all the time when they see a pretty girl. Doesn't mean anything. Now if she had expressed interest back, that might have been a different story. But she didn't.
Tbh, he probly won't do it again, at least not for a while. I think you scared him straight.
Oh so he was interested in her...
Guys flirt out of reflex. Most of the time they don't really mean it. If the girl seems interested, which usually she isn't, one of two things happens. If he's a good guy and he's happy with his girlfriend (you), he just laughs it off and continues on with his day. If he isn't, he starts hitting on her for real. I don't know what would have happened if this girl had been into your boyfriend. She wasn't, so it's impossible to tell.
I'm sorry if this sounds complicated. Most of this is intuitive, and it's hard to put into words.
@queenofcups actually not all guys flirt out of reflex. just saying.
It was a compliment, calm down jeebus
How did that make u feel?
You sound needy babe
Literally all he was doing was being polite
He can still compliment other women
I think he was
you will lose him