If my boyfriend thinks I'm not marriage material yet, why is he still with me? (Page 2)

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We been together for 2 years now Im 23 and he's 28 So ofcourse we have our arguments here and there But he does treat me good And takes care of me and supports me But whenever we argue, he always tells me this: "I love you but you're so immature, you need to grow up seriously, you're no where near marriage material, I dont see you as wife material yet" If he thinks im not marriage material, then why is he still with me? doesn't that mean he doesn't see a future with me? He can get any other hotter girls than me since he's an attractive fit guy Why doesn't he just leave? He tells me he loves me everyday and calls me everyday before bed, etc But how can he love me and not want to marry me in the future? Im confused

nathanp97 · Answer

He likely wants to marry you, but is weighting tell you become more mature

Jan_Classic · Answer

The guy doesn't marry to avoid the responsibility. Period. And they call you immature haha.

SongBird3 · Answer

Well like he said, he loves you but you are immature. Fix the problem and hell marry you

Drener · Answer

Because he is giving u chances he wants u to make yourself right

Bluedream13 · Answer

He wants to see u mature, asking why he doesn't just leave you is an immature childish reaction, start becoming wife material

TennisFlo · Answer

It’s only been two years and you’re only 23 I say chillax a little

mohamed_hammad · Answer

Well looks like he loves u  And he said "yet" so iam pretty sure that he wants a future with u

Kayla45 · Answer

he must still like you but wants you to mature a little

Vesuvius87 · Answer

Why are you still with him? Don't you feel insulted because I would?

adolescentswede · Answer

Well the prefrontal cortex matures up to age 25. You should be aware that age increase risk for birth complications

Joelcleaneye · Answer

Just cause you are not current marriage material dosnt mean you won't ever be marriage material. He does see marrying you in the future but he dosnt feel like you're mature enough in his head. At least thats what im gathering here

Chanel1981 · Answer

I would leave and let him find someone who he considers "wife material"

Deydey12345 · Answer

For sex. Duh.. Guys like to keep one girl at home for the noghts he has no one else to sex..

foxsquirrell · Answer

He did not say that he does not want to marry you. He does not want to marry you defore you are mature and know what you are doing.

FrenchyRomain · Answer

Maybe because he doesn't see you as his wife in the future unless maybe you change some parts that make him believe you aren't wifr material (habits or personality wise)

addham · Answer

Because isn't easy for someone to leave his couple and he maybe finds you a kind of entertainment for him or maybe waiting for you to change your doing

Real_princes · Answer

You have to be Ray Charles not to see what he really wants

AnggieGirl · Answer

The question isn't why is he still with you, its more, why are you still with him? Good luck! :)

Smegskull · Answer

Marriage is a huge risk for guys. If you come across as fickle or indecisive in any way then marrying looks like in X years (when you get bored) you will take everything I have worked for.

Wifflesnoofer63 · Answer

No woman is marriage material, but a lot of you are pretty good in the sack. That's worth keeping you around for awhile

Clarke498 · Answer

Maybe he is trying to make you to become marriage material

TheDetatchedObserver · Answer

He said 'yet'. He told you why. Why are you asking? Are you not paying attention? You're being immature.

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

Lets just say he want's to be with you but don't want to admit he want's to get married. I marriage can be a nightmare...

clampfan101 · Answer

Has he said anything about possibilities for the future?

Blueeyes81 · Answer

Sounds like he loves so he is holding out hope that you'll mature.

WildGoat · Answer

Maybe he's just being careful. He wouldn't be with you if he didn't love you.

Philyouup · Answer

i loves you, and he's waiting on your to "grow up" and mature. He may just be waiting for you..

Iron_Man · Answer

Because he's probably enjoying the free action he gets

randomgir890 · Answer

Because he doesn’t want to let you go but he’s scared to get tied down commitment is scary

Derrick_hovic · Answer

Marriage is for adults not children, 23 is too young, true you are not marriage material.

janna_jcb · Answer

Maybe secretly he think HE isn’t marriage material yet

Anonymous · Answer

Sentimental reasons? I didn't consider my ex marriage material but I stayed with her, despite her cheating.

blueeyesboy · Answer

You are marringe. Material and you are a very sexy woman

Menno19 · Answer

Maybe you solve the arguments in a sort of way that kids do

6ftallady · Answer

I think he wants you wait until your both older and make sure that’s what you really want.

Anonymous · Answer

Obviously, he's using you for other reasons... sex, companionship or other reasons...

Anonymous · Answer

Lmao he doesn't love you he just loves your blow jobs and doggy style

Anonymous · Answer

marriage is stupid so why would he even want to be married

Papi_Trey · Answer

He sees potential in you.

gowtham12 · Answer

He believes you that you will change

Anonymous · Answer

dance too much booty in the pants dance too much booty in the pants

Demised · Answer

He loves you but hates the drama and shit.

lemmingj · Answer

There's no reason to get married any more.

Anonymous · Answer

Just in it to smash tm.

PM_ME_PUPPIES · Answer

Key word yet

Anonymous · Answer

Honestly I would be the one leaving him

anilvatas · Answer

May be he wants you to be mature and do not argue

Anonymous · Answer

Because it’s still nice to have a girlfriend

gaurav_G · Answer

Just to get his dark desires fullfilled

Seppelson · Answer

Maybe he doesn't want to marry

es20490446e · Answer

"How should I be?"

NYCQuestions1976 · Answer

Sex.

rad___lad · Answer

to have fun

RajSax · Answer

He is not ready yet.

Dudi1234 · Answer

is he ur fuckbuddy?

vishmeluck11 · Answer

Leave it n move on

Anonymous · Answer

You are putting out.

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