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you seem like you really cared about her. if she says she already loves this new guy, then she is a naive girl. no one can love another in such short time if they just came out of a recent relationship. some do realize they made a mistake but others really dont. seems like she did make a mistake though. she'll figure it out soon enough. don't worry<3 find yourself a good girl to care for and that cares for you also.
Well I can say that I have moved on and well I realized that it's her loss not mine ^_^ thanks for the comments anyways
Honestly,I don't blame her for moving on.Through this post you sound pathetic and whiny,complete turn off.Move on and get over it.Life has to go on.You aren't punishing anybody but yourself.So shut up and move on
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It sounds like she's on a rebound.. you still can work things out with her.. but the truth is tht she didn't just move on quickly, emotionally she was broken up with you weeks or even months before you even realized it.. check this out ==> link
I was going to comment basically the same. She might have been lining up the next guy before breaking it off with you.
I did this :(. Feel bad but can't help it. I think I just want the feeling back of someone caring for me. He's also my best friend and there's being something between us always (although I never cheated) so I guess that didn't help.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts I just wish there wouldn't be any chance that she runs into me because I might tell her a few painful things... Thanks
Its not the case with all. My ex took ages... ages!
Sometimes its a bit of a rebound/revenge type thing...
Mmmm...
Well I can say that I have moved on now though the occasional imulse of thoughts of our good times go over my head but I try to refocus so as not to remember us
Its only natural. If you shared good times, there's no harm in that. Maybe she values different things in life...
Dumpers are usually over you, by the time they leave you. And it sounds like she was probably cheating
so its good to go for the no contact rule?
No way! She's probably thinking about you non stop. Cause for me it takes months to really move on from a guy.
But she is with a new boyfriend and she seems so happy and forgot about me so quick
Yeah and he probably doesn't compare to you for her.
yeah I think she doesn't do that because she is very well focused on loving him
Why she loves the new guy so much now how come that happened?
Some girls haven't moved on. I put on a fake smile just to seem happier without thout looking alone. Some girls have new boyfriends in a few days because they need someone to hold and love. Without it they might feel the need to date again.
If they moved on quickly, then they weren't that attached in the first place.
Well we've been together for two years and she seemed like she doesn't care about my feelings at all...
I don't think that's true for all women. Like, It takes me a long time to get over someone, depending on how long and what kinda of relationship it was.
our relationship was good and often we are having fights then she dumped me for someone new and this guy was nice I'm thinking she is on a rebound but at the same time she cheated on me
Well if she walked away out of nowhere, then, I hate to say it, but there is a large possibility that she was probably cheating. Most girls will have a legit reason to break up. Unless, maybe she just lost feeling for you or stopped loving you. Fights can also be stressful, maybe she needed a break. But then again, her dating another guy right away doesn't match up. Were you controlling or over protective?
Over protective but at the right place, I just caught her calling this new guy "babe" and she was like that to her male friends and I tolerated that however this guy seems to have made her fall in love with him idk
How did you "catch" her? like, did you read her phone or email? Cause she might feel like she has to prove a point. After breaking up, she wants to prove, that you don't have control over her anymore and that she can do whatever she wants. Sadly, I've done that before too. It might just be the girl showing you that she doesn't need you to be happy? And maybe she does, she just might not want you to know that.
I caught her through email and I confronted her but she denied and told me that she was just teasing the guy. then a week after she sent me a wrong sms with the word "baby" and she denied again, I think she just cheated and left me how I wish karma hits bigtime
And does she every call you Babe or Baby? And the whole "teasing" thing. Yeah something is definitely up with that. The only answer I could think of is her cheating. But it may be something else.
no she doesn't call me "baby" and when they became a couple it officially became their term of endearment...
What do you think is up mam?
Well. Sir(:
I honestly just think she was cheating, felt bad, broke up with you because she didn't wanna feel guilty, and got with this other guy. What you should probably do, is, if you have any way to contact this new guy, just start up a normal conversation. Nothing Hostile. And just see how long they have been dating, if its longer than you two have been apart. Then you have your answer. She was cheating. And then you should probably fill him in on the fact that she was cheating on him too.
Thanks Y_Y I thought so too... then she wants us to be friends to keep tabs on me I felt sh*tty and then I thought its better to forget her...
NO. Usually, being friends after a serious relationship is hard! Sometimes its easy but the fact that she has a new boyfriend already. I would strongly advise you to totally forget about her. If she starts asking how you have been or bringing up common questions... then you say your doing fine. Ask her how her and (whoever he is) are doing. And even if its killing you, pretend like your happy for her. And that's gonna drive her mad. Then you just move on.
Thanks I will I will, can I just ignore her totally because of what she has become? I think its just right
Yepp.
hey buddy as the 5 finger in your palm are not alike jst like that all girls are not same...some girls are very practical and they use a guy and move forward but some girls are loving and caring so its on you where you find a right girl or not...and buudy dnt judge a book by its cover so dnt confine to outer beauty of girl try o see her feeling and nature also ...
There are people like this on both gender sides. She probably knew things weren't going to work out so she moved on. Be happy and find someone better, and you will. And be happy that they're engaged or else you're going to be stuck in the past. Good luck-unless you already found someone- then I wish you more luck =)
They don't!
Basically they are feeling the same way but they have there mates telling them what an A hole you where and this is supportive, yet we have our mates saying other things ;)
That's all it is
And believe me you can change it, just be honest and if you want her back be cool, let things be and maybe... Just maybe she will come back on her own accord. DO NOT contact her!
what goes around comes around I'd leave it alone... Go out with other girls, look good, smile and be happy even if you have to fake it. Don't focus on her at all, don't mention her or ask about her, call her... NOTHING & she'll be like, wtf
And if she moved on quickly she was probably just using you for something, now she'll use the next. Sick B's
if theman is SUCK..n not worth it...then move on is the best idea...u don't wan a g crying and begging for a man even man is suck and cheating on her?
...another reason is..she never love that man b4...so move on is easy for her
They might have never loved the first guy...
They could be desperate to be in a relationship, & don't feel complete unless they have a man. It's sad, but a lot girls have this problem, they settle for bad relationships over being alone.
Moving on quickly helps us get over the break up. So the rebound dude may not be a serious thing at all but just a way to get back in the swing of dating and what not.
In regards to your update:
"When will our consciences grow so tender that we will act to prevent human misery rather than avenge it?" Eleanor Roosevelt
Because women have a vagina and men are always horny. Go to a bar any night of the week, even an ugly woman will score a man that is much better looking than she. It's called the power of the pussy.
The only men with similar powers are naturally great looking ladies men.
Tough one! I'd say a reason why most girls move on quickly is because very few guys put up a resistance when it comes to dating. It is much easier for a girl to get a guy because many guys aren't picky... where as women are more selective! Guard your emotions next time... make sure the next girl is worth it