Do you believe a person when he/she says “looks don't matter”?

Question

Im talking about relationships and their significant other.

Browneye57 · Accepted Answer

Of course looks matter. Love can't start 'till attraction does, and then there needs to be a conversation.

It's been said that while beauty may be skin deep, ugly is to the bone. :)

Get with someone you find physically attractive. Cuz if you stay with them you'll be waking up EVERY DAY for the rest of your life with them. Natural beauty is an absolute joy.

WeirdoWerdo · Accepted Answer

No... Looks do matter... Everyone fucking knows that or you shoud stop lying.

tbhiwannasleep · Accepted Answer

They matter. I hate when people lie and act perfect when E V E R Y B O D Y has their own idea of attraction so even if you don’t say it- you DO find some people attractive and you DO find some people ugly- just don’t call then ugly unless they’re some mean asshole lmao

witherwing · Accepted Answer

No. I cannot understand how someone could be in a romantic relationship with someone they don't find attractive.

Jackieboi · Answer

If i do its because i know theyre so little appealing that in their league looks probably doesn't matter anymore. Im talking way down as most people can pull of a decent look just by conforming to a lot of societal standards. For everyone else whos not in that league i dont believe them. Ofc as you get to know a person looks matters less and less and i do believe more or less anyone can make up for any looks-deficiancies with personality. But the more deficiancies you have (from the veiwpointof a potential partner) the more you're gonna have to make up for it with personality

Anonymous · Answer

Partially. While looks do matter, they don't matter nearly as much as personality, showering every day, having a life with goals and other things that are much more important. That is unless they're a really shallow person. I'd like to think most people aren't though.

Example: I have a crush who if I were to rate her looks would probably land at around 6.5/10, but she has an 11/10 personality and just my type of humor, and I'm really attracted to her. I wasn't very attracted to her at first, but as I got to know her, I realized how much I liked her. One of my friends are together with her though, so I've made sure to cement my place as a friend to not interfere. Still though, it's a good example that looks matter, but not nearly as much as people think.

Shogun48 · Answer

It does matter, because you're not going to approach them if you are not physically attracted to them. People say it's all about the personality, it's true but they only say that because they got to know them first. You wouldn't see a person say "oh I'm going to go and ask this person out because he seems like he has a good personality", no. It would be "oh I'm going to ask this person out because they look pretty/handsome".

GingerGuy · Answer

To some extent. Depends what exactly they mean.

Example, looks don't matter as in they don't have to be "perfect", yep, I agree.
Or, looks don't matter at all? No, I don't believe that because you must be attracted to the person. It's important. Those that don't think it is are fooling themselves. Eventually at some point, that will affect your relationship in one way or another.

Kurαȷ · Answer

Yes, I would believe them. Physical appearance is not the only thing that affects attraction, for some, it might not even be part of the consideration.

Jemini_Crocket · Answer

It's a foolish thing to say. Everyone needs to feel some sort of a attraction, that is usually the visual one. They say looks don't matter but it's the looks you took notice of.

hellacray · Answer

I use to think that way when I was younger and now realize I was full of crap. And anyone that thinks that is also full of crap.

You can't completely eliminate looks from the equation no matter how many times you tell yourself you don't care about their appearance.

Now how important it is may vary from person to person, but it's definitely something everyone would consider.

MlleCake · Answer

I think you can best tell by looking at who they have dated. Some people are telling the truth and some not.

DeaconPope · Answer

Are they blind? If not, looks matter. Though everyone has a different definition on what they find physically
attractive. Physical Attraction may not be as important as actual chemistry but it still is important to some extent

robertKugler · Answer

No cause they do matter it just at some point in maturity people become more forgiving .. for me I don't care how pretty u r if your a nasty person then u r ugly.. I find that curvy plus size girls have great personalities I have more fun. There more relaxed less damaged.. N over better quality women I'd take a 7 over a ten any day but a4. 5 or 6 is what I'm most happy with

Robert77 · Answer

No because you’re not going to want a physical sexual relationship with someone you’re not physically attracted to. The whole point of sex and mating is to pass on your genes to the next generation of offspring through someone you’re attracted to hence the mating game and mating rituals

Ceramic_bloke · Answer

Looks do matter.
People often say they don't, but what they mean is that looks are the be all and end all.

After all, an individual will look more attractive the more you look at them, and especially so if you love them.

Belgie · Answer

I do. Because I know it's true for me, so why wouldn't it be true for some other people?

Letitgoogoo · Answer

No. Depends on what they mean by that.  However it's not true , for most people looks do matter.

SjE78 · Answer

yes as I would expect those who I say it to to believe me as it's true...

Eryxx · Answer

Mostly no.. their behaviour contradicts what they say.

wgaca · Answer

If I say looks doesn't matter its in the sense of as long as you are not fat and uglier than death it's all about your personality.
You can have perfect body and be stupid as fuck and arrogant bitch, that's not what I like when we talk about relationships.

Dzokson00 · Answer

if looks didn't matter id have a girl and wouldn't be crying on internet hoping someone would hit my messages up and help me

Prakbio · Answer

To be true for me looks matters a lot for stranger i may talk to tgem or not depends on their look.. with passage of time it dont matter much..

BlueEvan · Answer

Looks matter in the beginning, you can catch a fish with anything but it's a lot better with a good looking lure. Same with people, but once they're hooked it doesn't really matter

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

I don't because it always matters. Even a bit still matters. Presentation and art matters. I say looks don't matter that much.

Anonymous · Answer

Of course looks matter. If you don't care about your partner enough to look your best for them, you don't really love them.

Mexicoman101 · Answer

Not entirely but I do think they probably do possess an understanding of how over-emphasized looks are by people and make an effort to look for positives in people from other sources and angles.

WillyD · Answer

It's been my experience that when women say that they mean exactly the opposite. And it's the lure they use for their trap.

heyyyyy69 · Answer

Lol those are artificial barriers that can be changed by the most awesome of people

DallyBear · Answer

I feel like for very rare amount of people it will be 100% true; however, most people will want to be attracted to their partner.

DirtyBabes111 · Answer

Looks kinda do matter slightly but there not the biggest thing personality is the main they could be a beautiful person with the personality of a brick wall

Lance1965 · Answer

I don't believe it but of course the importance of looks varies from person to person but everybody would like a good looking partner. It is common sense really.

Chaz269 · Answer

Nope, it's either gross ignorance or a flat out lie.

TacoFamine · Answer

A woman, yeah. With in reason. A man no, but I do believe him if he says it's not the only thing, because I know that there are some hot chicks that I won't date because they are toxic.

Giggletr0n · Answer

Never! I dont bring it up though like some insecure teen, I just dont believe it!

winterfox10 · Answer

Some of the cows I've seen women date... yeah... I believe them.

Andrew0478 · Answer

No, it's a lie. Unless you really like them as a person, then she can feel more attractive then any "hot" girl

Anonymous · Answer

Overall no. There are a few people where it does not matter.

Anymoose · Answer

Let's be honest everyone goes for someone they find attractive that's the natural response. With that being said everyone finds different people attractive.

anametouse · Answer

No I don't. Thankfully beauty is in the eye of the beholder

JuanDirtNacho · Answer

Looks are what allures at first, but after time it fades away and you don't care anymore, you just love them for who they are.

penguin1965 · Answer

No they always matter. Just because looks don't determine who they date, doesn't mean they don't matter

MariaTheGreek90 · Answer

I don’t think so cause I hear that a lot. But judge people based on looks.

9teen · Answer

No, looks matter to some degree.

TheFlak38 · Answer

Only women lie about this.

Anonymous · Answer

If its from a girl, then no.

JSmuve · Answer

Looks always matter

Rangers · Answer

I'd laugh for 2 months straight

ROCKS128 · Answer

I believe somewhat.

Northern_star · Answer

nope.

Storm_Soldier2377 · Answer

Hell no

CertifieldPimp · Answer

no...

CT_CD · Answer

No..

Chthou95 · Answer

If they're asexual, then sure i believe them.

dwvin · Answer

More often than most would believe yes

Som123 · Answer

Never they are all politically correct assholes

Anonymous · Answer

For guys, no I don’t believe them.

hammeronfire · Answer

no..

Anonymous · Answer

They matter somewhat.

Anonymous · Answer

Absolutely not, women are extremely visual.

sarahhcmarie · Answer

Mehh,

DashboardLight · Answer

Nope.

GayHowellMeme · Answer

Unsure

Anonymous · Answer

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