My boyfriend wouldn’t let me wear what I want. Is he being reasonable? (Page 3)
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Give him a choice - either you wear it or he wears it.
Does he also try to control other areas of your life?
He's being controlling. There's nothing reasonable about him making you change your clothes to suit him, and cater to his insecurities.
Yes. Even you thought it was teasing. Which is a 100% that (depending on your figure) means you're going to get looks. He doesn't want that.
Lol if u dress up like a anyway do whatever you want ok he is not reasonable ok
I am sick of people telling that he's "controlling" , " insecure " or " jelous".
No he is not.
People , try to understand why he's saying it rather than just bashing him for what he feels.
If my SO is wearing revealing clothes
She has two options
1) cover up
2) no sex. I won't be nice with her anymore. I won't talk with her
3) before she dumps me, I will dump her
A crop top with anything high waisted is fine as long as the bottom is knee length or longer
"I wanted to dress up for him"
somehow becomes...
"crop top that showed a little cleavage and a high waisted mini skirt" your issue is lack of English
This is a matter which will have a lot of biase thrown at it. On my end, I am against such clothing.
Wearing teasing clothing when it isn't necessarily just for him is offensive.
No he is being controlling and if he can't accept you for yourself in the end he will lose u
Why the fuck is your boyfriend policing what you wear like he's a school dress code? That's not normal or healthy
In all honesty... the outfits as described don't seem too provocstive.
Yes, he is right. If you and him are an item, then show your asset to HIM ONLY and NOT the public!
Women aren't fucking property
She’s the one who gets to decide who gets to see what of her. Not him. It isn’t his body just because she decides to show it to him.
@AishaTabby If she wants him happy, she will
Yeah mens happiness doesn't mean much when he's a controlling douchebag.
@ashleyb93 He is not a controlling douchebag as you have referred to him. He told her what bothered him and it is now her choice to weight it out and see if she wants to let him go and continue showing her assets to the public or she wants to only show her assets to him and stay with him. It is a decision she has to make.
No he is a controlling douchebag.
@ashleyb93 Okay if calling him names make you happy, get it off your chest. that's fine
It's true so I don't know what you expect.
@ashleyb93 Okay
If he is trying to tell you what to wear you need to leave him... That is just the beginning of it is his way or no way...
No. Men who try to control women never have really control over them
You should be allowed to wear what you want when you want
he is just afraid you will be glimpsed by another man
I would never accept any controlling behavior but if you accept that...
No your boyfriend seems to have issues
If he does it again, drop him
Seems a little insecure in my opinion. I would be flattered if a girl thought about how I would want them to look for a date.