before that she met this guy or whatever started calling him her best friend and she sometimes posts chats between him and her mostly having heart emojis ( not sure if that is to make me jealous )
but, before she left we were on a small date and we were kinda messing around and checking each others phones i gave her mine with no problems and when i took hers i said "lets see which app should we check first" as a joke and i started checking her apps just like how she checked mine
Then when i came to their chat she got so paranoid and took the phone away and she asked me what i wanted to check and i asked her why she took it and she said that there is private information - well my phone has private chats too - and that got me curious i feel like she is hiding something because she never introduced me to this guy and never said where they met or whatever.
Then i just got over it. then a few days later I thought to myself... why does she still talk to this guy? I think part of it is boredom (a big part), but the idea hit me that this guy is sort of a "backup guy". She may not even consciously realize this is why she keeps talking to him, but on some level I bet that is one part of it.
What do you think? I got sort of pissed off thinking about it this morning.
Anyway... there is nothing I can do about it really. I don't believe in telling others what to do or not do. It just made me a tad less secure in our relationship. Sort of created a little emotional distance on my side.
Am I paranoid? Or is there some truth in my analysis of the situation?
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