Does being single ever make you depressed? (Page 2)

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I'll be 29 at the end of February, and I've been single for a year and a half. I don't get dates very easily. Normally I have to pursue the guy and then it doesn't lead anywhere, not even a first date. I haven't had a second date with the same guy since I left my last boyfriend (who was abusive and a cheater). The idea of being 29 with no relationship and no kids is really depressing. Dating in general has always been hard for me. I didn't get the full dating experience in high school or college and I'm definitely not getting it now because I seem completely invisible to the opposite gender whereas everyone on my timeline is getting engaged, married, or having kids. I have all the basics to take care of myself like an education and career and stuff, but I do wish I had a partner. I don't think I've been physically touched in any way (like, not even a hand on the shoulder) at least since the end of May. Not by anyone. Well, except my dog. I've gone several days without physically speaking just because I don't have anyone around and no one calls or texts me.  I tried dating apps and sites and MeetUp and stuff but that stuff truly doesn't work, and I see now why everyone advises against it. Guys don't respond when you message them. Well, my rant is over. Does being single depress anyone else at all, even a little bit, or am I really just that weird?

crazysassypaws21 · Answer

yes it does me i miss have someone to turn to or when have a nightmare someone to talk to about it, mostly miss have someone share my thoughts, u okay?

thechesseman · Answer

No that's normal. Been on a bit of a dry spell myself. It's more about not abandoning my career path than availability though. Never really had a problem talking to strangers.

Gavyn · Answer

Not really. You have much more freedom when you're single. (I'm not talking about sex-related freedom. I don't believe in casual sex and hook-up culture.)

CaptainSmartass · Answer

I've pretty much got used to it. I had a few crushes in school, and I tried talking to women on the internet, but nothing really came of it.  Simples...

Giggletr0n · Answer

No never, I really enjoy being single (when I am), you don't have to answer to anybody else and porn exists

Surely · Answer

Maybe you are projecting your depressed feelings to your potential dates. Try to find something you like to do and cheer up and be happy. Happiness would catch my attention faster than depression.

TheFlak38 · Answer

"I seem completely invisible to the opposite gender." Meanwhile...

scotty01 · Answer

I don’t get dates either anymore as I’m always used big time by woman so if it happens and I like them great if not I’ll get the shits and I’ll just go back to not talking to anyone

Dylio21 · Answer

It can get depressing for sure. I find staying busy with hobbies and friends helps. Just stay positive and know that if you keep trying you will find someone.

seth900 · Answer

If you feel depressed then you should here my story. I am 28 never had girlfriend... have few degree and don't know where to work , living at grandmothers home.

winterfox10 · Answer

I've been single for my whole life... it get's old.

red_knight · Answer

Being single I depressing mostly after midnight when over thinking and loneliness kicks in for me... I understand very well how you feel...

Liam_Hayden · Answer

No, I love life. Someone to share it with might enhance it, but is not instrumental to that happiness.

dannyjett · Answer

I don't get depressed when alone, i am very content with being single. I learned how to enjoy life on my own and make myself happy first.

bhavy24 · Answer

I have been single for most of my life but i always keep myself engaged in some work, so i dont think about my relationship status at all

Dark93 · Answer

I've been single my whole life. Not having a special someone for that long has contributed to my severe depression

Armourdillo · Answer

Lol when I asked the same thing you trold me to go appraoch. You didn't give a fuck about my loneliness and depression, I'm kinda glad you suffering too.

FýrdracaDócincel · Answer

I don't NEED single-ness to be depressed. It just happens.

LaCeleste · Answer

yessss i feel that way too sometimes. I get tired of not having anyone special in my life

Sixgun77 · Answer

Yep. Being single and alone sucks when you don't want to be single and alone. Been there a few times.

intjgamer · Answer

A year and a half huh? I've been single for 5 years and I feel fine. Must be your biology telling you something.

PrettyRegular · Answer

It's fine to be single and you have time to start a family (if you want). You haven't even hit the 30s yet.

LifeAHailStorm · Answer

I have been single pretty much my entire life so far. I am 24. Never had an actual girlfriend. I have never been able to get over a woman's romantic past, so I may be single for life.

ryryryan · Answer

Being single is fun cuz u can imagine any moment u can have a new romance.

Lizalogan · Answer

Have a boyfriend but i know if i didn't that is the way i would feel depressed

ChiPaPa · Answer

Yes, I've been single my whole life and have felt that way from time to time. I gave up.

MrPickles13 · Answer

No your not weird or at least I don't think so as I feel the same way quite often.

Blueeyes81 · Answer

Being single, no. Getting my hopes up when I meet an amazing woman only to get shot down, yes.

juan101 · Answer

yes because we are designed to be together but women are a huge issue so the risk is not worth it

grashopper · Answer

No. I'm happy with being alone. I'm also happy when my girlfriend is around

Raven_76 · Answer

The main reason why i am so miserable  @tonicandgin

megaman242 · Answer

I been single over a year now and I'm not depressed because I'm single

Halucinator · Answer

It never depressed me. I feel bad for you. I’m sorry. You sound like a nice lady tbh

SwoleCook · Answer

It’s really not that difficult finding someone. If you can’t there is something wrong with you.

bklynbadboy1 · Answer

I've been single a while now but it doesn't bother me. I don't need a relationship to define me

Mynamejef696 · Answer

I go through phases of depression iv been single for 4 years now

Guanfei · Answer

Yep. You think you'd get used to it at some point. But no. It's eating me from inside.

anononon123 · Answer

I'm 28, and I have been single for 6 years, kind of got used to it

Greendog · Answer

Why do you need to have partner? Im happy being single and never felt sad about it

Euphoric · Answer

Hahaha I’m 28 and I feel the same as you, maybe we should get together 😭

PopiCup · Answer

I feel lonely sometimes more than depressed.

Eryxx · Answer

I wouldn't know. I have been single ever since.

NeglectedChild · Answer

Oh yeah yeah ... yeah

Eleni91 · Answer

No I enjoy being single.

Waffles731 · Answer

It certainly doesn't help my mental health

AmourHoney · Answer

Nope, I’m happy being single currently

Dchrls78104 · Answer

Try being 41 and a dateless, kissless virgin.

douride2 · Answer

For the most part I'm good with being single.

AlexEfron · Answer

Nope. Been single for 19 years and I'm happy 😂

bannacookies · Answer

Nope, I'm single and ain't ready to mingle.

Iamagoodguy · Answer

Not as much as being in a relationship

constant_freeflow · Answer

You are going to find someone don’t worry

Demetra89 · Answer

Don’t Worry about don’t try to hard.

EDWINDUNDEE999 · Answer

l would like to date you

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Depressed? No. But I do get a bit lonely at times.

Evan94 · Answer

It always makes me depressed

Jobage123 · Answer

You need to be more open and sexy with the guys

Koreantransgender · Answer

Girl,,,,,,,, work it!

Shydude91 · Answer

Not having kids is great but you need a boyfriend.

warrior0345 · Answer

Yes it does cause I have been single my whole life

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