There are moments you and your partner understand each other without words?

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

Sometimes it happens with my girlfriend - just a couple of gazes, a smile and we understand each other.
What about you?

[Aysen]

That's quite romantic from what you said; having that bond with her to understand one another through each other's eyes and factual expression <3

Whenever I hug my girlfriend from behind, gently rubbing my hands on her soft tummy/hips and she's ok with it, she knows that I'm having a moment of strong affection towards her in which she responds with either holding her hands over mine, rubs her head against mine or turns around and kisses my lips! She knows that if I hugging her or cuddling with her, it's because I feel very comfortable around her; that I enjoy her company and have nothing conflicting in the relationship to worry about!

Another moment would be if we got into an argument and needed a moment to cool off. She knows that if I slowly approach her and attempt to flirt with her, she'll respond accordingly. If she was still angry at me or the problem didn't get resolved, she'll slowly back away from me in which I respond by going in the opposite direction too until she either calmed down or the problem was fixed. If on the other hand, if she felt ready to be comfortable with me again, she'll let me flirt with her to show I'm not holding a grudge, just wanting the argument to end and to get the relationship back to normal!

It's quite amazing what body language and expressions can say about a person! Sometimes, words aren't enough to express about yourself; body language can say a lot! There's a few other occasions I can think of where we understand each other without words but I'd be afraid of typing way too much on here! You know you have a close connection with your significant other to understand each other like this on a deeper level than normal.

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

Exactly, exactly!
I completely agree with everything you said and your answer it's one of the most thoughtful and complete.
I have had similar situations with my girlfriend

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

* to those you described.
Words and verbal communication are important, but gazes and touch are the most intimate and deep way of connection in my opinion.

[Aysen]

Thank you so much! I'd definitely agree with touching and gazing to be the most intimate as opposed to body language and words! The touch to feel closer to them; the gaze to feel the passion and intimacy with them. I just can't imagine having a relationship with someone without those things since that's how emotional connections build up over time in a relationship. You have quite the healthy relationship with your girlfriend to feel those moments from time to time <3

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

👍
You too have a really healthy and close relationship with your girlfriend it seems!
My girlfriend and I are both people who need to touch and be touched, especially my girlfriend.
One of the things that's most important for us is the physical contact.
And like words, maybe even more than words, physical contacts can be of a lot of different types and communicate different things.
There's affectionate touching, friendly touching, sexual touching, touching aimed to ask for attention, etc.

[Aysen]

We've known each other for 17 years now so it's like we can read one another like a book! Sounds like if you stopped touching her, she would go crazy xD Physical touching feels so nice and there's so many different occasions for it. It's what brings a couple closer together; what makes you feel so close to them! I never understood people in relationships who wouldn't want this kind of affection honestly :/

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

17 years it's sure a lot of time! 👍
You are perfectly right. My girlfriend and I aren't big on PDA (we are both quite shy) but in private we aren't shy about hugging, caressing and snuggling!

[Aysen]

For intimacy like that, it does feel uncomfortable to show it in public! Thankfully you don't have to show it off like celebrities do xD As long as you two continue to love each other unconditionally and are comfortable with one another, that's what really matters here <3

Much appreciated for MHO ☺️

[hindril]

@thisbutterfly36
Of course! She can tell when I'm in thought by just like how I react or the silence. We are like connected in a way that we know almost exactly what each other is thinking.

[thisbutterfly36]

Since Day 1, You're my heart babe! <3

[hindril]

@thisbutterfly36 Of course. It was an instant connection my dear!!

[Izumiblu]

Yah it happens

[PrincessGrail]

Definitely

[PrincessGrail]

Thanks!

[OlderAndWiser]

As you spend more time with your partner, it happens more often.

[DECENTSCOTTISHLAD999]

Well l would like to think so

[SarahsSummer]

all the time

[Mondaygirl]

all the time