Is it ever okay to seduce someone who is married? Would you ever do it? (Page 2)

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To clarify, I mean they are still with their spouse, not separated. I'm married, but guys still hit on me when I'm out without my husband. Most of them are respectful when I tell them I'm married and back off, but quite a few still keep trying to get me to sleep with them. They're like "Come on, you know you want to," "it's just one night," and "he'll never find out." Maybe I'm being naive, but I used to think only scumbags seduced married women, but a few of these guys who tried to seduce me after I told them I was married seemed like really nice guys, and when I was talking to them (this is at parties, events, ect) I was just being friendly and not trying to flirt. I'm always taken by surprise when they suddenly try to kiss me and get me in bed. What do you think, is it okay to actively try to get someone who is married to have sex with you, even if it's just a one-night stand? Why or why not?

Anonymous · Answer

there are enough single guys available, no?  Why mess with two people's lives when you can only mess with one?

Anonymous · Answer

The word seduce indicates the person being subject to it is somehow not responsible for their own actions. Not saying it is a good thing to do, but I have done it.

LuWe22 · Answer

Marriage is a serious for me so I would not pay attention to guys that want to sleep to me. I would tell them to leave me alone and I would not be friendly to them.

buttcrackjoe · Answer

Live by the golden rule and you’ll have your answer

Anonymous · Answer

Whoever does that is a filthy piece of shit, I had one girl trying to seduce my ex once. I smacked her across the face and she runned off crying.

Evil_Chuck · Answer

I don't care if it's "okay" with anyone in particular. I would avoid it because I have no interest in getting dragged into their problems.

CURIOUShErE1 · Answer

I’ve had the opportunity a few time with chicks that I liked enough and who like me enough. It is a solid no!! Marriage is sacred.

paledude · Answer

About 2x/week I hook up with my married yoga instructor. She said I’m fulfilling her needs. Who am I to question it.

Shy_Steve · Answer

I think its just too desperate to do it so i wouldn't.

dexter234 · Answer

Just think about Are you gonna be okay if Ur partner did the same to you

Guanfei · Answer

It's never OK. Either that person is single, or he's untouchable.

ecfresh · Answer

Heck no, because they are married.

BlacklightShade · Answer

Go for it. And give him the BJ no other woman can.

PondyPand · Answer

Never okay. They're just scummy

SarahsSummer · Answer

no. Disgusting behavior!

Lliam · Answer

It's absolutely immoral and unacceptable.

douride2 · Answer

That is just wrong in so many ways.

manasalahiri · Answer

Never. A woman like that would get a slap from me.

Snakeyes7 · Answer

No I’d never do it if I knew she was married.

Kelly6 · Answer

I think it should be ok

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