I assume every woman that shows any interest is playing a game. And until i'm given a reason to think different that will be my mindset.
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Afraid of getting hurt, yes. It gets really tiring. Please do not get someones hopes up a lot if you're not sure about your feelings. A couple months ago I let myself fall for a guy who said he really wanted to be with me etc. then suddenly one day he said he had never actually been very into me so we should stop dating, that he's just been so romantic to convince himself to feel anything for me... You can't trust anyone nowadays.
Yes, I definitely had that happen. I have had moments where I feared falling in love with a “fuckboy” or “player” and that I would wake up in a cold reality where I would be left behind as a used towel. Many guys nowadays sadly do that to girls.
Not really. I’ve turned someone down once though because things were already really intense between us, and we would be going to college thousands of miles away from each other. I don’t want to fall in love and then be forced to leave.
No, I'm a man who likes to take risks when it come to falling in love, whether the woman ends up loving me or not.
In other words, better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.
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yes being vulnerable just liking someone to the point where you care about how they feel is a lot of control I don't want someone else to have also that gives them the power to hurt you
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Very to be honest. That is maybe why I have such a bad luck in dating? I think it's connected for sure.
I'm afraid to fall in love for fear they won't love me in return or fall
out of love with me for no apparent reasons.
I assume every woman that shows any interest is playing a game. And until i'm given a reason to think different that will be my mindset.
Afraid of getting hurt, yes. It gets really tiring. Please do not get someones hopes up a lot if you're not sure about your feelings. A couple months ago I let myself fall for a guy who said he really wanted to be with me etc. then suddenly one day he said he had never actually been very into me so we should stop dating, that he's just been so romantic to convince himself to feel anything for me... You can't trust anyone nowadays.
Ummm yes, if I get a vibe that other person doesn’t really want me
No, I'm not afraid of falling in love, I'm afraid of entering into a relationship for that vert reason
Yes, I definitely had that happen. I have had moments where I feared falling in love with a “fuckboy” or “player” and that I would wake up in a cold reality where I would be left behind as a used towel. Many guys nowadays sadly do that to girls.
No, I have never given that sort of thought my time of day, it's a simple matter of if they don't like you then you move on
Not really. I’ve turned someone down once though because things were already really intense between us, and we would be going to college thousands of miles away from each other. I don’t want to fall in love and then be forced to leave.
No, I'm a man who likes to take risks when it come to falling in love, whether the woman ends up loving me or not.
In other words, better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.
yes being vulnerable just liking someone to the point where you care about how they feel is a lot of control I don't want someone else to have also that gives them the power to hurt you
Yes, I'm afraid of falling in love because there are lots of reasons to consider including that one.
I've only been afraid of falling in love for fear that they won't dominate me in return.
I'm good at putting a front on, but geez I've felt that so many times in the past.
I've never felt like that but if I did it wouldn't matter I have no control over my emotions when I fall I fall hard and I can't stop it
Nope, but then I have never fallen in love. I choose to love, but that is different.
My ultimate fear about love is divorce and breaking promises...
Yes. I fear that they won’t love me in return or that they won’t love me enough (if that makes sense)
Nah i always do this cause if they can't and won't love me i cannot help how i feel about them. So i alwayd get hurt since no one wants me but fuck it
If he is good enough for me, I will not choose to leave him.