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I hooked up with my best friend's son. The guilt is eating me alive. Should I tell her? (Page 2)
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Wish I could bang my mom's best friend.
Don't tell her and keep the hookup going. Sounds like a lot of fun and I'm jealous. We need more women like you 😃
Keep it NSA, friends with benefits, FB, Its not as though he didn't know what was going to happen.
Keep quiet about it and have fun.
Enjoy the moments while you can
Good luck to you
Honesty is important in friendship. And if she’s a true friend she won’t abandon you after telling her.
You do you, you're both adults and can make your own choices
Agreed
Keep your mouth shut if you still want to be his moms friend.
If you still want to be friends with his mom then keep your mouth shut.
Why the he’ll would you feel guilty? Lol you are two adults
The important thing is you didn’t do anything wrong it was his choice. You both simply pursued your desires and fantasies nothing wrong with that
Besides the fact that this guy had a girlfriend... You know, you shouldn't do what you think is right.
Don’t tell her
Telling will make things more worse
So just keep banging him. He's legal. You need feel no guilt.
Do you have no shred of decency?
@Cocacolaaddict, why would you ask? Let's face it, he's a horndog, she's a MILF.
Yeah that's true still dosent make it she should tell his mum at least his girlfriend should probably be told and if not come clean to his mum at least
@Cocacolaaddict, not her mother, his mother, so HE can tell mummy.
Yeah that's what I ment the boys mother
@Cocacolaaddict, no, the woman should do nothing. It's up to the young guy to tell or not.
Whatever man
No, don't say anything to anyone. there's nothing to feel guilty about. You both got a little sumthin sumthin. Leave it at that.
I agree dont say nothing that's gone end y'all friendship he old enough.
If it's really bothering you that bad then talk to her about it... besides it don't sound anyone's making you keep anything quite anyways
Well what you want the outcome to be? You want him for your self. Or do you want him happy. I'd just mind my business unless asked about it. Dont lie
He is not happy with his current girlfriend but he feels stuck with her at least at the moment. He will have to hurt her and that is what he hasn't been able to do yet. I think ultimately he wishes she would break up with him so he could feel no guilt but he knows she will never do that. His friends and family do not like her, including his mom.
I know it sounds devious, but why he's a big boy, make it your little secret...
You shouldn't talk to anyone about this. If you feel it was wrong, avoid doing it again
No, you didn't do anything wrong. He isn't your relative and you aren't his mom. You are innocent.
Having sex with someone who you know is in a relationship is wrong
But he doesn't love his girlfriend. They should have Broke up. That's still his fault not hers. Stop hating on the woman you're making things worse for her
Ffs lol dont be a simp.
How am I attacking someone for pointing out that it is wrong to knowingly engage with someone who is in a relationship. She KNEW this guy was a cheater and she still allowed him to cheat. She could have said, "break up with your girlfriend, then we'll talk", but no, she knowingly decided to have sex with a man who she KNEW had a girlfriend waiting at home for him who loved him.
Don't give me that shit about her being innocent just because you want to glorify women.
Both of them did wrong. Him more so. But she still did wrong.
But she was in love with him + he and his girlfriend are about to break up. Don't be so rude to her
Alright. So when you have a girlfriend and some man knows she's with you and he still has sex with her. I expect you to defend him and be nice to him. Yeah.. Didn't think so.
If I don't love her and was about to break up with her anyways I wouldn't be that bothered since she almost isn't my girlfriend anymore. But don't compare me to the girl she loved him
Nah thats not what Im getting at. If you are in relationship and your girlfriend went and had sex with another man and that man knew your girlfriend was with you. You would be angry at that man.
Its the exact same here. This woman knew this guy had a girlfriend and she didn't wait till he was single. she still did it with him. That is wrong. An older woman helping a young man break his young girlfriends heart.
@Nadim171
Oh Nadim, you are so young and naive. What makes you so sure that the guy does not love his gf?
If he really loved this older lady, he would have approached her after he broke up with his girlfriend. He should have been a good friend to the older lady first, given her time to heal from her previous relationship, let her get her priorities straight first. He knew his mum would never support this relationship so if he really loved her, he would never have put her in this situation where the friendship between his mom and her would be jeopardized, where she feels guilty all the time.
And now, the guy is still with his girlfriend happily, with no intentions of splitting up. Also, to add further insult to injury, he is now avoiding this older lady, trying to pretend nothing ever happened between the 2 of them. So now, she feels extremely guilty and has frequent nightmares.
And who allowed this unfortunate string of events to happen? She herself.
There were so many tell-tale signs that the guy was just leading her on, with no intentions of breaking up with his girlfriend. She allowed herself to be bought into his empty promises. She, being the older and matured person, should have known better.
Hold on a second, why would his mom and her stop being friends? She's just his mom's friend not his mom. It's fine if they have a relationship together I can't see the issue
How in any way can you even start to think nothing is wrong here she knowingly not only slept with a guy that has a gd already but also her friends child you may say it's fine they are both legal age but it's not that simple that not something friends just do and don't say she loves the boy she said it herself she did it because she was feeling low and he validated her calling out shit behaviour is not just attacking a women
@yucychan In this particular case he felt like his mom would support us. I was the one hesitant and he did not want to do anything that would affect my relationship with her because he knew how important it was to me. He does still have intentions of splitting up with his girlfriend he just can't pull the trigger so he wanted time to think about how to get out of his relationship with the least amount of pain to everyone involved. In an ideal world he wants his girlfriend to break up with him so he is not the "bad guy" but that will never happen. He will have to do it. And yes, I did know this could potentially be the outcome and I went into it knowing it may end up like this. What I didn't expect was for the two of us to develop as strong of feelings as what we did for one another.
I'm intrigued.
So when is Prince Charming going to break up with his gf? One month, 2 months, a decade?
For his gf's sake, the sooner the better. She deserves someone better than this lowlife who cheated on her. You deserve someone better.
What the fuck? Are you insane>>
I said the girl didn't do anything wrong. The guy hoever did
@yucychan Agreed
alright just keep me out of this conversation I take everything back
You are right in that he doesn't love his girlfriend and yes they should have broken up. That is his fault and not mine and I just took his word for it that he was in the process. I think if his mom found out I slept with him while he was with his girlfriend his mom would be very upset. If he broke up with his girlfriend and after some time he and I decided to have a relationship I think his mom would eventually understand and be accepting of it, but I think it would take a long time for her to wrap her brain around the fact that he and I were together.
"Hey girl"
"Hey babe"
"I fucked your son"
I'd pay to see that conversation
“I still want to fuck him”
", I'm sad he chose his girlfriend over my old ass"
''You know everybody makes mistakes, I just gotta make sure I don't creep on college kids next time around''
Damn that's some Brazzers type shit right there.
So, you're the other woman
You helped him cheat!
True 😂
If it wasn't me it would have been another. But yes, I own up to my own decision which is why I feel guilty.
Remind me not to meet you in real life
Hell do what ever you feel needs to be done and I see ya lol
Tell your friend what you did over a bottle of wine then invite him over and have a 3sum
Keep your mouth shut.
There was nothing wrong done.
Seriously though was it hot in the beginning?
Yes, it was always hot
I Don't mind reading all this shit.
Typical but that's the way it goes. Blame it on him you know that's what is gonna happen. You are already acting like the victim in all this. Hey say this he has a girl friend and he knows ur his mother's best friend you had nothing to do with it you are not responsible for what he did. What if he would have left his girlfriend and told his mom and picked you to be his woman what would you have told his mother and what would you say to his girlfriend if you ran in to her with him? I'm not joking it's all really all on him he is a man he has to act like one.
I know it comes across as I am the victim, but I know I am not. I chose to get into this knowing the situation and I was very hesitant for a couple of weeks before I finally let my emotions dictate the outcome. At the time it started he had two months before his lease expired. We both talked about it and we both thought we wouldn't catch feelings for each other in that short amount of time, but we both did. He is the one who first said he was catching feelings for me and was getting confused. We have are very similar in personality and interests and his mom would make comments that he and I were soul mates. Of course, I know she was more referring to how well we got along and our interests but was not thinking in an intimate way. He always said if it came to it he would sit down with his mom and explain the situation as well as his feelings towards me. He felt confident she would understand but of course I was always skeptical that she would.
You are getting a lot of advice on here. My take is if he does something like hide from his mom or girl friend he is not yet a man. A real man would not play a game like this one. Step back next time and look at everything really good and look at the actions that he makes v the words that he says. Next time If you feel that he is holding a Red flag question it right away. Kids love to runaround and play.
I agree completely!
Mothers will defend their son and call you whore preying on young boys. So STFU
@Badballie I did not prey on him. I did not go after him, I submitted during a vulnerable state.
Good for you, its happened, move on. No need to confess to his mother. Mothers and wonderful sons can do no wrong, our one son an a hole can do no wrong in his mother's eyes. Do not go there, an older woman had a few goes at me when I was 16. The husband was a big man, I was terrified he would find out so twice I fled from her bed before anything could happen. At 16 you cannot get enough sex this is true for all men. In hindsight it was the best thing I did, It could have carried on for years.
How old is your friend?
She is 40
Should I be honest it's up to both of you not her.
Jeez, humanity is fucked up.
I'd keep it a secrete.
This is a whole new level of fuked up.
What a slut. Your ex is better off without you.
Nope, he cheated on me multiple times with multiple women. I never cheated on him the whole relationship.
Well then i guess y'all were perfect for each other.
He played you like a symphony
Yes and go too therapy as well
You shouldn't tell her
women at it again smh...
Men do it too.
@br33zyyx0x0 no men dont do shit like this, only women do it and most women on gag always prove my point.
@PrinceOfAljazeera umm you're so ignorant mate. There's so many men out there that does this as well. I've heard so many stories from the news, from social media, from my friends.
I have a lot of girl friends and their former MALE partners did similar things.
@PrinceOfAljazeera don't put this to just ONLY women doing it. You must so naive and stupid to even believe that
@PrinceOfAljazeera guys like you disgust me. Putting shit on women to make you feel better lol. TWAT
@br33zyyx0x0 only women do this kind of stuff and this girl right here proved it, end of story , now go and kiss your pillow.
YOUUUUU
AREEEEEEEEEEEEE SOOOOOOOOOOOO
FKNNNNN
DISGUSTINGGGGGGGGGGGG
YOUR MUM SHOULD HAVE SWALLOWED YOU
DISGUSTINGGG DUMB CUNTTT
To say that she's disgusting for being INDIAN?
You're messed up in the fkn head OR a dumb low life troll
She's disgusting for being an Indian?
you're MESSED UP OR A DUMB LOW LIFE TROLL
Wow Nikki your really a hoe aren't you. Rob
You should show him what he is missing,
You did right thing.🙂
Tell her
Porn
Hahah.. smart
You need to tell her
Damn cradle robber
There where , so many Red flags from the start. I'm surprised that she didn't say he lives in a house with a Big Red Flag outside.😂
@Chuck21 it was the fact that I knew him for so long and knew all his family that made me trust him.
good job.
I wish I was the guy
ew..
No ,
Think you if this way , if you were a mother would you want your son sleeping with your friend. That's your real answer ,
I think you should
Naughty
How was the sex?
HAHAHAHAH lol