Are you kidding? Why do you think men seek out trophy wives? So they can hide them behind frumpy clothes and put a bag over their face? No, they want to be seen having a hot girl as their wife. And dressing sexy is part of that persona.
These styles are not tasteful at all. I can see why men would never want their partner to wear something like that. I am talking about classy type of sexy.
Like I said, it depends on the man. Some men would love that, but of course in public they would not wear this stuff. Still, string bikinis and tight revealing tops, along with short skirts would be typical wear for some women.
Because they don’t want their girlfriends advertising themselves as single and inviting other men to come chat them up by showing off so much of their bodies.
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No, it's not hypocritical at all. That's like saying it's hypocritical of him to expect you not to sleep with other men because he likes to sleep with you. Think about that for a moment.
Women who dress provocatively in public do so to draw male attention. Continuing to do so when you are in a committed relationship is saying you still want to draw attention from other men, which is disrespectful to your boyfriend. If my girlfriend did that and used the logic you did here, I would dump her in a heartbeat because it tells me all I need to know about her character to be sure she is not a good person and not someone I want to be in a committed relationship with.
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By the way, if a significant portion of a woman's wardrobe is "revealing" clothes, she is not someone I would ever take seriously anyway. I might do the casual sex thing with her (since that is essentially what she is asking for by dressing like that anyway) but I would never consider her for a serious relationship. I don't respect women like hat..
Because they're possessive and jealous, i. e. "real men". The same sense of entitlement and poor understanding of boundaries that allows them to think they can tell women how to dress is what attracts women to them in the first place, because being a controlling dick might be really annoying, but it's also really manly.
Meh. I dont care what my girlfriend wears. She is free to do what she likes. But ill be the first to call her out for trying to shit test me on it. Just because i dont care what you wear doesn't mean i dont care about you. Freedom equality feminism and all that noise.
U want man to give you the same space as you give them? And why dress revealing anyway if your man doesn't want it in a relationship. If you love him adjust. If you believe it's invading ur space let him go. But if next guy asks you the same, you'll be in same boat again. If you dress up revealing just to date or make people jealous you will only attract those kind of people who won't want u to continue afterwards.
Then the question should be asked would you be ok with your boyfriend dressing to impress/attract not you necessarily but the opposite sex in general be ok with you, even though he's with you?
I get wanting to look good and all that, I think everyone does, but you don't have to wear revealing, clothing to do that.
The way you choose to dress doesn't decide your personality, men as a sex like being dominant and knowing that they have someone who belongs to them so they like to control certain things within their partners life to see the boundary of how submissive they are to them. But there is also the fact that by wearing revealing clothes they feel that you feel that others like him should approach you, frankly he's jealous that you would dress up nice for anybody including him kinda makes him feel like he's not important to you?
It's not being possessive. When he met you, you were in single mode, which means you can dress however you want. Now you should be in an "in relationship" mode, which means not dressing to attract other guys. If that's your mentality on it, then maybe you're just not ready for a relationship if you want to show your proportions to the world.
Girls still get approached even if they are not wearing revealing clothes so it doesn’t make a difference. Getting jealous or possessive over that is a waste of time because you will still be checked out no matter what clothes you wear. The face doesn’t hide the beauty
Well if he asked you to wear something modest is because he knows what others guys been thinking for his love and he would hate that. Plus you're in a relationship and if you're boyfriend doesn't like something you should try to collaborate with him rather than telling all guys have same type of minds. Well how will you feel if you're boyfriend is being approached by some chick who wore revealing clothes to attract your man.
I don't care because I fuck my current in her ass so I couldn't possibly cheat with you because everyone is inferior to her in my opinion. I said IF but If I won the lottery same shit so no need to be thankful
@bigcuband So do I not have a boyfriend, or is he cheating on me? You seem very confused.. sad little man:( It'll get better, there's a light at the end of the tunnel!
@bigcuband You’re so mad because I called you an INCEL. I see I hit the nail right on the head. You seem confused. Am I so hot you’d want to fuck me, or am I ugly? Do I have no boyfriend, or is he cheating on me? You obviously care enough to go through my post history. Sad little guy :(
I never said you were hot at all I said id fuck you in your ass, you don't have a face on here so nobody really knows what you look like @Valiant my face was on here when I started my profile, now my car so we know me, we know you hiding because your afraid for us to all know your face, call me an incel all you want I'm not hurt by it, I laugh every time, so go ahead and feel good about yourself
You replied 8 or more times so you clearly like this exchange, who knows maybe I'll take you out for popcorn and shame, but you seem to have enough shame already hiding your grill and all @Valiant
@bigcuband None of that made any sense.. I've used my face numerous times on this site. Popcorn, shame, grill, what? I can see by YOUR post history that you have no class, status, or education. And yes, this exchange amuses me. Thats why I keep replying. Never said it didn't.
No status? 😂😂😂🤣 And for someone who can't understand you sure seem to understand well and respond to everything, must be your internal mental retardation @Valiant your such a dork, status hahaha how pathetic, we won't even adress education, I relax for a living and get paid, you likely take care of tricks all day and are a student or some other below me job
@bigcuband Nothing of what you said made sense. Luckily for me, what you say doesn’t really mean much. And yes, Ivy League. Undergrad, to be precise. You have literally no class. The only excuse for this is if you’ve never spoken English before in your life, and even then you just shouldn’t be talking. If you can’t tell by this point that I’ve been trolling you and enjoying it all the while, you’re even more retarded then I thought.
Yes, never have a chance with me. I’m way out of your league- high school educated men only. You obviously are not, given your shitty excuses for insults.
Typically Male ego lol you're "theirs" now this "off limits" and incapable of telling men that yourself. If a man is telling me I'm dressing to provocative I take it as insecurity and move on.
because some men seen to feel like they own their girlfriends and can tell them what to wear or not to wear. I am married but if a guy ever told me what I couldn't wear I would have dumped his ass so fast.
My question is why continue to dress like that when you know you have a man at home? It's fine to do that if you're single sure, but in a relationship, no. In his mind that's putting a for sale sign around your neck when you're already taken, and that is just flat out disrespectful.
Do you know this is a touchy subject but translate okay I'm going to try to answer this the best that I can okay now it depends on how provocative she's being now if she's just trying to show off a little cleavage that's not much but if she's going all out and up Kutner tops all the way down to where you can practically see everything and wearing you know things that just is very revealing then in my opinion she's just trying to get men's attention and if she's with somebody I don't believe she should do that that way that's my opinion I mean because all she's going to do is cause problems because in the way I see it if she's going to wear that kind of provocative clothing all she's trying to do is get attention from other men
It might imply that she is looking for attention from other men and let me be clear, there are girls that do this, they like to play the field, it happens
a girl came up to me and a friend and closely and sexually slow danced with us in front of her boyfriend with a smile. Maybe making him jealous or just wanting to have fun
To the guys; What was your current girlfriend wearing when you first met her? Was it revealing? Or did her wardrobe become revealing after you started dating?
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Are you kidding? Why do you think men seek out trophy wives? So they can hide them behind frumpy clothes and put a bag over their face? No, they want to be seen having a hot girl as their wife. And dressing sexy is part of that persona.
These styles are not tasteful at all. I can see why men would never want their partner to wear something like that. I am talking about classy type of sexy.
Like I said, it depends on the man. Some men would love that, but of course in public they would not wear this stuff. Still, string bikinis and tight revealing tops, along with short skirts would be typical wear for some women.
Because they don’t want their girlfriends advertising themselves as single and inviting other men to come chat them up by showing off so much of their bodies.
No, it's not hypocritical at all. That's like saying it's hypocritical of him to expect you not to sleep with other men because he likes to sleep with you. Think about that for a moment.
Women who dress provocatively in public do so to draw male attention. Continuing to do so when you are in a committed relationship is saying you still want to draw attention from other men, which is disrespectful to your boyfriend. If my girlfriend did that and used the logic you did here, I would dump her in a heartbeat because it tells me all I need to know about her character to be sure she is not a good person and not someone I want to be in a committed relationship with.
By the way, if a significant portion of a woman's wardrobe is "revealing" clothes, she is not someone I would ever take seriously anyway. I might do the casual sex thing with her (since that is essentially what she is asking for by dressing like that anyway) but I would never consider her for a serious relationship. I don't respect women like hat..
Because they're possessive and jealous, i. e. "real men". The same sense of entitlement and poor understanding of boundaries that allows them to think they can tell women how to dress is what attracts women to them in the first place, because being a controlling dick might be really annoying, but it's also really manly.
Meh. I dont care what my girlfriend wears. She is free to do what she likes. But ill be the first to call her out for trying to shit test me on it. Just because i dont care what you wear doesn't mean i dont care about you. Freedom equality feminism and all that noise.
U want man to give you the same space as you give them? And why dress revealing anyway if your man doesn't want it in a relationship. If you love him adjust. If you believe it's invading ur space let him go. But if next guy asks you the same, you'll be in same boat again. If you dress up revealing just to date or make people jealous you will only attract those kind of people who won't want u to continue afterwards.
Why approach this type of woman at the first place? There are many women who dress modestly.
That you have to ask the man who approached as to why he approached you. I'll have no clue about it.:)
Then the question should be asked would you be ok with your boyfriend dressing to impress/attract not you necessarily but the opposite sex in general be ok with you, even though he's with you?
I get wanting to look good and all that, I think everyone does, but you don't have to wear revealing, clothing to do that.
The way you choose to dress doesn't decide your personality, men as a sex like being dominant and knowing that they have someone who belongs to them so they like to control certain things within their partners life to see the boundary of how submissive they are to them. But there is also the fact that by wearing revealing clothes they feel that you feel that others like him should approach you, frankly he's jealous that you would dress up nice for anybody including him kinda makes him feel like he's not important to you?
It's not being possessive. When he met you, you were in single mode, which means you can dress however you want. Now you should be in an "in relationship" mode, which means not dressing to attract other guys. If that's your mentality on it, then maybe you're just not ready for a relationship if you want to show your proportions to the world.
Girls still get approached even if they are not wearing revealing clothes so it doesn’t make a difference. Getting jealous or possessive over that is a waste of time because you will still be checked out no matter what clothes you wear. The face doesn’t hide the beauty
Well if he asked you to wear something modest is because he knows what others guys been thinking for his love and he would hate that. Plus you're in a relationship and if you're boyfriend doesn't like something you should try to collaborate with him rather than telling all guys have same type of minds. Well how will you feel if you're boyfriend is being approached by some chick who wore revealing clothes to attract your man.
Wouldn't know. I only wear provocative clothing while going out, and when I go out, its with my boyfriend, who gives 0 fucks and just compliments me.
Ya if I were him I'd ass fuck you nightly and wouldn't say shit about what you wear either,
@Valiant
@bigcuband Thankfully for me, you're not him and will never have a chance.
I don't care because I fuck my current in her ass so I couldn't possibly cheat with you because everyone is inferior to her in my opinion. I said IF but If I won the lottery same shit so no need to be thankful
@bigcuband Somehow I doubt you have a “current”, INCEL.
Just like I don't think you have a boyfriend @ valiant but I'm not mad prostitutes need money too,
@bigcuband Haha, sure.
@bigcuband I mean, you obviously feel bad, considering how triggered you are. Sad INCEL.
Can't wait til you catch your boyfriend cheating on you and he's definitely cheating Because your annoying as fuck @Valiant hahahhahha
@bigcuband So do I not have a boyfriend, or is he cheating on me? You seem very confused.. sad little man:( It'll get better, there's a light at the end of the tunnel!
@bigcuband You’re so mad because I called you an INCEL. I see I hit the nail right on the head.
You seem confused. Am I so hot you’d want to fuck me, or am I ugly? Do I have no boyfriend, or is he cheating on me?
You obviously care enough to go through my post history. Sad little guy :(
I never said you were hot at all I said id fuck you in your ass, you don't have a face on here so nobody really knows what you look like @Valiant my face was on here when I started my profile, now my car so we know me, we know you hiding because your afraid for us to all know your face, call me an incel all you want I'm not hurt by it, I laugh every time, so go ahead and feel good about yourself
You replied 8 or more times so you clearly like this exchange, who knows maybe I'll take you out for popcorn and shame, but you seem to have enough shame already hiding your grill and all @Valiant
@bigcuband None of that made any sense.. I've used my face numerous times on this site. Popcorn, shame, grill, what? I can see by YOUR post history that you have no class, status, or education. And yes, this exchange amuses me. Thats why I keep replying. Never said it didn't.
No status? 😂😂😂🤣 And for someone who can't understand you sure seem to understand well and respond to everything, must be your internal mental retardation @Valiant your such a dork, status hahaha how pathetic, we won't even adress education, I relax for a living and get paid, you likely take care of tricks all day and are a student or some other below me job
@Valiant all you got is those cakes, your bitchy attitude and hidden face, nothing else going for you, a pin cushion at best
@Valiant cleary won here :D
@bigcuband Nothing of what you said made sense. Luckily for me, what you say doesn’t really mean much. And yes, Ivy League. Undergrad, to be precise.
You have literally no class. The only excuse for this is if you’ve never spoken English before in your life, and even then you just shouldn’t be talking. If you can’t tell by this point that I’ve been trolling you and enjoying it all the while, you’re even more retarded then I thought.
Yes, never have a chance with me. I’m way out of your league- high school educated men only. You obviously are not, given your shitty excuses for insults.
If I'm wearing revealing clothing and in a relationship, it's because I want to look attractive for my boyfriend lol
Me too.
Typically Male ego lol you're "theirs" now this "off limits" and incapable of telling men that yourself. If a man is telling me I'm dressing to provocative I take it as insecurity and move on.
Proof in the likes vs dislikes lol men
Why would a woman desire "attention" from other men while in a relationship?
But you are right, if you pick up a skank, don't expect her to turn into a lady.
because some men seen to feel like they own their girlfriends and can tell them what to wear or not to wear. I am married but if a guy ever told me what I couldn't wear I would have dumped his ass so fast.
My question is why continue to dress like that when you know you have a man at home? It's fine to do that if you're single sure, but in a relationship, no. In his mind that's putting a for sale sign around your neck when you're already taken, and that is just flat out disrespectful.
Do you know this is a touchy subject but translate okay I'm going to try to answer this the best that I can okay now it depends on how provocative she's being now if she's just trying to show off a little cleavage that's not much but if she's going all out and up Kutner tops all the way down to where you can practically see everything and wearing you know things that just is very revealing then in my opinion she's just trying to get men's attention and if she's with somebody I don't believe she should do that that way that's my opinion I mean because all she's going to do is cause problems because in the way I see it if she's going to wear that kind of provocative clothing all she's trying to do is get attention from other men
It might imply that she is looking for attention from other men and let me be clear, there are girls that do this, they like to play the field, it happens
a girl came up to me and a friend and closely and sexually slow danced with us in front of her boyfriend with a smile. Maybe making him jealous or just wanting to have fun
To the guys;
What was your current girlfriend wearing when you first met her?
Was it revealing?
Or did her wardrobe become revealing after you started dating?