I was normally against having kids in general, but nowadays I’m open to it ONLY if I still have them with one particular Turkish girl. I won’t have kids with anyone else!
But no, I wouldn’t encourage the idea of having kids before marriage (for myself or anyone)
Marriage is a title that isn't required to say you've chosen who you'll be with, make kids with, and make a life with. But generally yes, I look down on her that gets pregnant with some guy she has barely known for a week and it's obvious it's not going to work out.
Mhhh... I would say "living together", not "marriage". People shouldn't have kids until they have economical stability and have been living together for long time enaugh to know if they work well together for real. Marriage doesn't mean anything, is living together and learning to work together in the relationship what means something.
Well my son is due in a couple of months, i'm not getting married that quick. Marriage is an antiquated concept, in hostory it was as much a financial agreement than for love, dosen't mean much these days. Divorce rates are sky high. New laws make divorce easier.
I’d rather have my own kids after marriage but I wouldn’t abort a child just because of timing (or for any reason honestly). I think it’s not ideal but it can work if the parents really try.
Personally I thinking bearing fruit before you have the infrastructure in place to maintain something like that is silly , if you have A home a job to support their needs, then go for it but in this day and age to get accidentally pregnant is inexcuseable.
I'm against having kids at all, but, yes, if you're going to have them, then in my opinion you should be married and committed to your family. Creating a life is a HUGE and sober responsibility, and not one that should be taken lightly.
Yes , of course. I would prefer to get married in order to have kids when I fell in love with someone What a nonsense and ugly thing. One always responsible themselves. Don't think these answers here and you do whatever you want.
I don't want kids anyway, but if I did, I'd say I wouldn't care, like I don't think everyone should necessarily get married before they have kids, like I don't think marriage is necessary for everyone.
There needs to be two parents who are committed to a stable household and raising kids. Marriage is a good way of declaring this intent but not the only way.
In a perfect world, you meet, then date, then marry, buy a house, have kids, and never worry about money. I don't live in that world. If your lucky enuf to fall in love and blessed with a child, then you are blessed...
Im against it. Marriage and Kids are a lifetime commitment, if your not willing to commit to me as a life partner, than im gonna question your commitment as a parent.
Marriage doesn't really mean anything in terms of your commitment to eachother or, even if you are separated, your commitment to the kid. It might be easier in some aspects to be married (ie legal reasons and school enrolment) but I can see plenty of reasons not to marry (ie costs and reduction of necessary benefits).
Nope. It happens. Marriage is a human concept... Life goes on with or without it, however our species/race will and cannot go on without reproduction. In other words, it's totally fine with me.
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I was normally against having kids in general, but nowadays I’m open to it ONLY if I still have them with one particular Turkish girl. I won’t have kids with anyone else!
But no, I wouldn’t encourage the idea of having kids before marriage (for myself or anyone)
Marriage is a title that isn't required to say you've chosen who you'll be with, make kids with, and make a life with. But generally yes, I look down on her that gets pregnant with some guy she has barely known for a week and it's obvious it's not going to work out.
Mhhh... I would say "living together", not "marriage". People shouldn't have kids until they have economical stability and have been living together for long time enaugh to know if they work well together for real. Marriage doesn't mean anything, is living together and learning to work together in the relationship what means something.
Well my son is due in a couple of months, i'm not getting married that quick.
Marriage is an antiquated concept, in hostory it was as much a financial agreement than for love, dosen't mean much these days. Divorce rates are sky high. New laws make divorce easier.
I’d rather have my own kids after marriage but I wouldn’t abort a child just because of timing (or for any reason honestly). I think it’s not ideal but it can work if the parents really try.
In general, yes. Marriage, again in general, creates a more stable environment for raising children as opposed to just living together.
Personally I thinking bearing fruit before you have the infrastructure in place to maintain something like that is silly , if you have A home a job to support their needs, then go for it but in this day and age to get accidentally pregnant is inexcuseable.
Strongly against it. It makes children more vulnerable to problems that they shouldn't be facing.
I'm against having kids at all, but, yes, if you're going to have them, then in my opinion you should be married and committed to your family. Creating a life is a HUGE and sober responsibility, and not one that should be taken lightly.
I do think it's better if people had kids after marriage. It makes raising a kid better and healthier.
Yes , of course.
I would prefer to get married in order to have kids when I fell in love with someone
What a nonsense and ugly thing.
One always responsible themselves.
Don't think these answers here and you do whatever you want.
I don't want kids anyway, but if I did, I'd say I wouldn't care, like I don't think everyone should necessarily get married before they have kids, like I don't think marriage is necessary for everyone.
There needs to be two parents who are committed to a stable household and raising kids. Marriage is a good way of declaring this intent but not the only way.
In a perfect world, you meet, then date, then marry, buy a house, have kids, and never worry about money. I don't live in that world. If your lucky enuf to fall in love and blessed with a child, then you are blessed...
I wouldn't want to have a kid before either at least being engaged or married.
Im against it. Marriage and Kids are a lifetime commitment, if your not willing to commit to me as a life partner, than im gonna question your commitment as a parent.
Marriage doesn't really mean anything in terms of your commitment to eachother or, even if you are separated, your commitment to the kid. It might be easier in some aspects to be married (ie legal reasons and school enrolment) but I can see plenty of reasons not to marry (ie costs and reduction of necessary benefits).
Yes, people should wait until they are married to have kids. But if people are happy with doing it, then that's their prerogative.
I think kids deserve an 100% "traditional" family, so yeah!
Nope. It happens. Marriage is a human concept... Life goes on with or without it, however our species/race will and cannot go on without reproduction. In other words, it's totally fine with me.