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Are you against having kids before marriage? (Page 2)

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  • MajesticTwelve
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    Yes, but pregnant before marriage is fine, unless that's the only reason you're getting married.

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  • Neeceeb7
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    Marriage is a piece of paper people c as do what t hey want I have preference either way

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  • MsElizabeth96
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    I'm Against it as a think you should provide a stable environment for your children

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  • Avicenna
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    Not at all. If you are ready for it, I see no need to wait

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  • OrangeBoy2
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    It's indifferent for me.
    If I fell I want my partner to be the mummy of my babies, she will be, married or not is irrelevant.

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

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  • Joker8
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    There's a fucking reason that almost all religions prohibit that shit... because it doesn't end well and somebody gets hurt in the process most likely the children

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  • AynonOMouse
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    I am against marriage. I think people should live together for a year first before deciding if they are a good enough match to have kids together.

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  • Anonymous
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    Yes, I'm against it. That cause a lot of problems for the child and sets up a future of drama between the parents of the child.

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  • Ámayas_20
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    No, I think being in a long term committed relationship or marriage is desirable though.

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  • JP_Man
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    +1 y

    Marriage is just obsolete I just will never do something like that. Who wants to stay with the same other human forever. (Besides it almost never actually works even with 2 humans that think that it is what they want.).

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    • xkildy
      xkildy
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      Bad marriage or just bad experience. I have been with my lady for nearly 15 years and I will not say it's been happy ever after but she has been there for me. You just have not found the right girl that made your eyes flicker at this point you will not think twice about spending your life with her

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  • ariadneR
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    Not ideal but sometimes it happens. However to me children need both parents around

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  • TonyMetal_86
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    Yeah against it, marriage comes 1st, get the blessing of god, becoming a family than it will be time to get kids.

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  • HuskerCAR2567
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    Xper 4 Age: 48
    +1 y

    Not this guy! Shit happens and if your still feeling she is everything to you. That will show your child how to be in a relationship.

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    • HuskerCAR2567
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      +1 y

      You're still*

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  • Lman3000
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    Xper 6 Age: 29
    +1 y

    Who cares? I don't believe in marriage anyway you can start a family without marriage that's how my parent's had me, I mean no government says your forced to marry someone to reproduce

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  • IceCastles
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    Xper 4 Age: 52
    +1 y

    My brother waited until he was 40 to have his first and only kid. He said he didn't want a baby momma, he wanted a wife/mother.

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  • Vonspyder
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    +1 y

    I had both of mine after marriage but that's happenstance.

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  • outside_Toronto
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    I'm not for or against. Whatever works for the couple is good

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  • lovedejj_xo
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    470 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

    For me yes I want to be married first for others no.

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  • Bruce_VVayne_
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    Xper 6 Age: 32
    +1 y

    Yes, obviously. To me there has to be a marriage before kid. I just don't find it right

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  • bhavy24
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    Yes i am against it as there is no certainity about the relationship

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  • johnthicc
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    Xper 3 Age: 24
    +1 y

    If you are planning on getting married at all. If not sure but guys be ready to not get the kids funkin' Karen.

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  • legalboxers
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    Its 2019. Things happen. No unelected officials are going to tell me what to do. If you put money in my wallet, yes. Until then.. NOPE!

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  • Denniszen
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    Xper 5 Age: 51
    +1 y

    I never knew you were even interested in me muchless wanted to have my babies!

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    • mellsoll01
      mellsoll01
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      Yuck u old pervert

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  • pooper89
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    Guru Age: 35
    +1 y

    I’m against it. I’m also against premarital sex. I used to believe it was fine but I’ve made mistakes and I like to play it safe now. I’m old enough to realize that I doubt I’d be able to raise a child completely on my own. I dislike being alone

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    • mellsoll01
      mellsoll01
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      Thats so retarded

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  • clampfan101
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    I’m against sex before marriage. Adoption is just fine if you’re certain you’re ready.

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  • Babygirl_S
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    +1 y

    Yes as that's one of the things that make us different from animals~

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    • devilman666
      devilman666
      +1 y

      How does marriage make us different from animals? Many animals mate for life.

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    • Babygirl_S
      Babygirl_S
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      They don't have marriages though.

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  • pizzalovershouse
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    can't say cuz it up to the 2 of you to decide not 1

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  • curlyfritas
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    Xper 4 Age: 29
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    I’d rather us be married first. If not before the time of conception then he has 9 months.

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  • Anonymous
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    That douche will never stay around to put those kids through college or even buy diapers for that matter.

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  • Loser94
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    Xper 7 Age: 31
    +1 y

    Against it cause why throw your life away so young.

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  • Cowboy6666
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    +1 y

    After marriage I want my kids but lemme have a girlfriend first.

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  • CuriousMufuxka
    CuriousMufuxka Follow
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    +1 y

    Against it. Not on the kid side, but that whole marriage thing..

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  • MelvinMoons
    MelvinMoons Follow
    Xper 4 Age: 37
    +1 y

    I dont recall the kids ever turning blue before and after marriage

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  • Joseph45251
    Joseph45251 Follow
    Xper 3 Age: 60
    +1 y

    I did it. It makes your life difficult. You always have an attachment to that person you had children with.

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  • AlphaBob
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    Xper 3 Age: 30
    +1 y

    Im against having kids till you're in the best possible shape you can be in to have kids. Also im against having kids if you simply should not be having kids.

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    • lucasnabizada
      lucasnabizada
      +1 y

      I'm assuming that you personally know who should have kids and who shouldn't in all cases for everyone then... :)

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  • rocket696
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    Xper 3 Age: 50
    +1 y

    Don't matter one way or the other, its what you do after you have the kid that's what really shows what matters.

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  • abortivemoose
    abortivemoose Follow
    Xper 3 Age: 25
    +1 y

    Depends

    Are you against having kids before marriage?
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  • 7Roses
    7Roses Follow
    Xper 7 Age: 28
    +1 y

    Im against having kids in general. We dont need more people in the world

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  • Anonymous
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    +1 y

    As in generally or when it comes to myself? I don't really mind generally but I'm going to personally wait till I'm married in order to have kids

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  • Anonymous
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    (18-24)
    +1 y

    I mean I'm not doing it but why marry someone if your just going to get a divorce

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  • Anonymous
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    (45 Plus)
    +1 y

    I am against all pre-marital sex... unless there are other ways to have kids...

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    • MsElizabeth96
      MsElizabeth96
      +1 y

      Well, there are

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  • Jonad
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    Xper 2 Age: 32
    +1 y

    Marriage is a piece of paper you pay thousands of dollars for. Fuck it.

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  • markalan
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    Xper 3 Age: 67
    +1 y

    Seen too many who started together because they had kids.

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  • Slim57
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    Master Age: 33
    +1 y
    3K opinions shared on Relationships topic.

    Neither but it would seem a little better to have them when married

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  • Anonymous
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    (30-35)
    +1 y

    marriage of the state is stupid

    marriage of the bible I like

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  • mistixs
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    +1 y
    370 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

    I'm against it

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  • GhettoGirl
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    Yoda Age: 27 , mho 48%
    +1 y

    Seems a pretty dumb and selfish idea.

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  • fauchelevent
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    Master Age: 30 , mho 42%
    +1 y
    3.5K opinions shared on Relationships topic.

    No, I wouldn't be bothered by that.

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  • mermaidia_lol
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    Yoda Age: 25
    +1 y

    Sex before marriage is what I'm against.

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    • TJB1990
      TJB1990
      +1 y

      Me too

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  • Massageman
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    Master Age: 74
    +1 y
    2.1K opinions shared on Relationships topic.

    God's plan- marriage first, kids second/

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  • DDpsy
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    Yoda Age: 40
    +1 y

    That is how most single moms are made.

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  • MLGbreezy
    MLGbreezy Follow
    Yoda Age: 27
    +1 y

    No I don't even really believe in marriage tbh

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  • larry69
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    Guru Age: 56
    +1 y
    385 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

    I dont judge but if it happens then oh well.

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  • MsShyasf
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    Xper 2 Age: 21
    +1 y

    If it happens it happens 🤷🏽‍♀️😂

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  • NorthwestRider
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    +1 y
    316 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

    I do not want kids at all

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  • burningbull58
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    Xper 5 Age: 28
    +1 y

    I am aganist kids after marriage

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  • bush123
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    Xper 6 Age: 51
    +1 y

    its not right it should NOT be like that

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  • Twalli
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    Master Age: 35
    +1 y
    3.1K opinions shared on Relationships topic.

    I am also against it after marriage.

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  • Nayrr
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    Yoda Age: 25
    +1 y

    Not at all. I personally wouldn't do it tho.

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  • bklynbadboy1
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    Guru Age: 40
    +1 y
    1.6K opinions shared on Relationships topic.

    Yes I'm definitely against it but it happens

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