I tried telling him around 6 months because I thought I felt it and he kind of freaked out! ha ha I can laugh about it now but when it happened it sucked. I told him I might be starting to fall in love...just to test the waters and he was definitely caught off guard and I think he thought it was far too soon. I know there is nothing "typical" and all relationships are different. What are some things to maybe look for in his actions that show me he loves me. He is a very "macho" guy. Goes to the gym all the time has lots of dude friends he drinks with...i'm the same way with my girlfriends. He tells me that he likes me so much and he always misses me. I suspect that maybe the girl that cheated on him (it was about 1.5 years ago) really messed him up...Thoughts!? I don't want to put a time limit on things but I also don't want to pressure him into saying something he will regret or doesn't mean. I don't want to continue in a relationship if it's just "fun for now" for him. I'm dating him and I'm starting to kind of see a future with him. Not HEY LET'S GET MARRIED future but planning a trip in like 6 months future. Someone who can't commit scares me. He is a very joking around not serious person so it's hard for me to even bring this up...and I don't want him to freak out if I tell him I love you like last time...
No I love you after 9 months!
I tried telling him around 6 months because I thought I felt it and he kind of freaked out! ha ha I can laugh about it now but when it happened it sucked. I told him I might be starting to fall in love...just to test the waters and he was definitely caught off guard and I think he thought it was far too soon. I know there is nothing "typical" and all relationships are different. What are some things to maybe look for in his actions that show me he loves me. He is a very "macho" guy. Goes to the gym all the time has lots of dude friends he drinks with...i'm the same way with my girlfriends. He tells me that he likes me so much and he always misses me. I suspect that maybe the girl that cheated on him (it was about 1.5 years ago) really messed him up...Thoughts!? I don't want to put a time limit on things but I also don't want to pressure him into saying something he will regret or doesn't mean. I don't want to continue in a relationship if it's just "fun for now" for him. I'm dating him and I'm starting to kind of see a future with him. Not HEY LET'S GET MARRIED future but planning a trip in like 6 months future. Someone who can't commit scares me. He is a very joking around not serious person so it's hard for me to even bring this up...and I don't want him to freak out if I tell him I love you like last time...
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