Here's what it sounds like to me...
Why would a man say he's on a family dinner? because he'd get 'shit tested' for just wanting to watch a football game or play a video game instead.
Why would a man lie to not hangout with a woman he sees everyday? Maybe because he'd get 'shit tested' for just not wanting to deal with you for the day. Yeah he should have the balls to tell you to "fuck off because I want some me time," but I'm guessing you'd hen peck him for that.
Why would a woman be checking his history on his PC? you tell me...
Why would that woman, knowing he's on his PC instead of not cheating or planning a bank heist, be interrogating him about it?
You recognize a pattern, he does this quite a bit..."an excuse/lie just to not meet me." -your words. So do I think it's a big deal?
Yes, but because he either needs to grow a pair, just be honest, and put you in your place if you have any problem with it... or... you need to stop being the kind of woman that would make a man lie just to avoid the bullshit you'll give him for not giving you what you want (in this case time), then snooping through his browsing history and interrogating him like a cop, and then going online to ask me if it's a big deal...
I mean seriously, you've busted him already, established a pattern of it even, and realize it's "an excuse/lie just to not meet you." Gee, what could a woman do that would make a man act like that? Who's wondering if it's a big deal instead of just thinking it's kind of pathetic, and kind of funny actually? Dating for more than a year, not even for 5 years and you're already making this man act like a child, lying to get mommy to leave him alone long enough that he can be left alone once and awhile. Sad. This was a long winded retort, but I think there is some very important points I had to make if you two are going to make it for more years to come.
Guy needs some time alone. It's worrying that he has to go to such lengths to get it? Why do you need to spend every single day together? Presumably, he has stuff he needs to organise on his own? If I do too much extroverting, I neglect a whole bunch of stuff and feel spent.
Are you clingy, just out of interest?
He should dump your ass since you are going behind his back and checking his computer you obviously have no trust in him he deserves a better girlfriend who won't do these things a girl who won't complain about how her boyfriend doesn't want to hang out all the time
He probably needs some alone time but doesn’t want to offend you
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I think it's a much bigger deal that you are looking at his history and tracking him. This is controlling behavior and will be the death of this and any future relationship you have. I recommend you see a therapist and talk about why you have this insecurity and learn some coping skills to manage it.
While that's possibly concerning on his part, the fact that you felt the need to snoop is far more concerning to me.
well you're a creep that looks at peoples browsing history... you're not in a position to complain.
Maybe he needs some me time, but he shouldn't have to lie to get it.
Why he needs to lie is the bigger question.
What was even on there?
I can see why he wouldn't want to meet with you
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