A woman I dated aborted my baby without telling me. When she did it was the most devastating news I have ever gotten and it still haunts me to this day. I failed to do what a man should do and protect my child. I repeat endlessly in my head what I could have said or done differently to change things.
When she told me I broke down in tears and the next two years were like a bad movie. I drank too much, crashed my car, slept with any woman who would sleep with me and then swing the opposite direction and want nothing to do with women. I put my career at risk and all I could think about was the little baby that I failed. To this day I just want to hold him/her - I don't even know which - and say I am sorry and how much I love him/her.
There have been other times when a woman has made me cry, sometimes because of a hurt, sometimes out of happiness as when my current girlfriend gave me the three little munchkins we now have. She and they are the center of my universe.
Yet nothing has ever hurt me so much - and still hurts to this day and still brings tears to my eyes - than that awful day when a woman I cared about aborted the baby I would have loved and should have protected. I sobbed that day - and still I shed a tear even all these years later.
Almost all girls Iâve dated have cried at some point. But I can remember the only time I cried in front of the âone who got awayâ. We had to meet up for business reasons. I kept it professional but at the end I said âI miss talking to youâ and my eyes watered up.
Her response âwith EXES I donât talk because itâs weird. My last ex tried do thatâ.
The accentuation and screeching emphasis of how she said âwith exesâ cut very deep. And women say itâs good that guys cry? Bullshit every time. At least guys learn to FAKE being concerned when women cry over much lesser issues.
To this day I will never forget that peak into the dismal black cold oblivion of female indifference. Hatred, angry and insults would have been more kind. That day impacted me permanently moving forward. Again that was only time I cried in front of her in a one year relationship. The very last bit of youthful love/innocence was destroyed when she said that. Just scar tissue now. But it cracks and bleeds sometimes.
Oh yes, my very first relationship. My ex would often make me cry because he was extremely possessive and verbally abusive.
In my current relationship, yes I cried when he was telling me he's gonna commit suicide. Funny thing is, I didn't cry when I dumped him for being unfaithful, I was happy that I got rid of an infidel. Long story short I believe he deserves a second chance, but before making that decision I once cried... I didn't cry earlier cuz in my mind he was totally gone from my life but the moment I thought he might not be gone yet, but then he cheated... it was Niagra Falls.
Yes, my first boyfriend made me cry by treating me like shit and standing me up for another girl, who happened to be a "friend". My tears were both of sadness and anger.
I'm not sure if I ever made either one of my exes cry. If I did, they didn't do it in front of me.
No, I meant the girlfriend of the OP. But I'd still dump a bitch if she cheated on me - I'm bi, so idgaf about what sex/gender someone is. But my current partner is a man.
... and this is when she stops trusting you 100 percent. If she wants to break up, this is where you tell her that she has every right to and to find a better man than you that she can fully trust. Ain't no repair here. Try not to cheat on your next girlfriend, heartbreaker.
Ex boyfriend made me cry when he wouldn't stop following ratchet instagram models for the respect of our relationship. I'm glad I dumped his ass, and I hope your girlfriend does, too, and you, take this as a life lesson to not cheat on your partner.
I never want her to cry, but sometimes I do little things, and just to make her smile, and remember how much I love and care, and she cries, feeling that! Good crying? A little note, in a pocket, or some place that she finds, and it just says how much I love her, and how precious she is to me. Her favorite yogurt, in the refrigerator, when I get groceries, or having her personal intimate things, when she is running low, and forgets. Seems that the little things, make her cry, sometimes, but maybe a 'good' crying?
I've cried before because of my ex, but I have also made her cry but neither was intentional. We just had toxic habits that caused the end of us. And plus I don't blame your girlfriend for crying. It's pretty heartbreaking to hear that someone you love cheated on you. It's creates insecurities for the girl if she didn't already have them. For example, she may start having an insecurity that you don't find her attractive, or that she's not good enough, or just really ugly. It feels terrible to be cheated on.
It usually happens when one loves the other more then they love you, everyone cries some more then others , if someone says they donât cry they are talking out their ass. So when getting into a relationship. You give your heart to someone and then they shit on it., so it hurts that someone you loved betrayed you So it can make you stronger or weaker , usually people that been betrayed to many times tend to hold walls up to not allowing someone new enter their hearts easy cuz they donât want to go through that. Misery again
She was my ex but she cried cause she heard that after I end the relationship I had sex with another girl. I didn't know about the "wait a moment before moving on" I mean, if I end a relationship, doesn't it mean that I moved on? Anw, she cried cause I told her that after that I definitely can't come back. And no, I didn't left her for the other girl. I'm single since I left her while I'm sure she got a boyfriend now. I don't know it, but she's a great girl so I won't be surprised if she found another man.
My boyfriend never fails to make me cry when he's trying to console me about something xD It must be some sort of a gift. I made him cry once, about three years ago, It was our only big fight and I was really mad at him so he got afraid that I'd be about to break up with him :/ I wasn't even thinking about doing that.
It happen to me in my twenties when I was frolicking about life, exploring myself, not career oriented, after which she just disconnected from me. She wanted a potential husband who was going to make good money. She didn't see that ambition in me. So she dropped me. It hurt. But I got over it because I wasn't ready to pursue that at that time. I wanted to be free of such obligations, including those to myself.
a fight honestly , my ex had a way of being really bitchy to emotional right after , also not ashamed to say that , the last fight my ex and i had was physical and it left me crying to the bustop and in the bus till i got home ( Fyi , i didn't hit her , she hit me )
Never cried but I don't know if the last guy I talked to cried or not (not exactly my ex since we were never official, we were just talking but he was real invested in me. I ended things with him so I don't know if he ever cried due to that or not)
My girlfriend usually cries when one of us is in a different state. This even happened when we both went to Florida, although it only happened after we got there, not on the way down. I think she just likes it better when we're close even if we can't see each other. The Florida thing was probably just nerves because going to Disney on someone else's dime is a big deal, especially if it's new to you.
I made my girlfriend cry when I reserved a 2 night lake view suite at the Bellagio w/ complementary limo service that picked her up from work for her 30th birthday. As a man I had epihanies out the ass turning 30 so I can imagine what it's like for a woman to turn 30 so I made sure her big "3""0" was special.
Yes to both. In ANY serious relationship you will get to each other, whether on purpose or not. Even the happiest married couples have made each other cry at some point. What matters is how you move forward, or don't.
Yes... I've cried for 10 years from my miserable marriage and the careless treatment I get from him.. And yes.. I made him cry when I told him that I don't love him.
Yeah well I hear crying is important and good for your mental health so I make my girlfriend cry all the time **joke** I haven't cried bit a few of my exs have I think with females a lot of them tend to get emotional
@theCure You know nothing about me. So how do you know what I can and can not? I have all it takes to have a healthy, wonderful and supportiv relationship, where none of us have to betray his/her partner in such a cheap way. Perhaps it no longer corresponds to today's moral concepts, where most people are selfish and heartless anyway, but for me, this behavior is simply reprehensible and wicked.
Wickedness in the eyes of humans is a very relative term. You need to forgive him and not condemn him. What he needs is help so he does not repeat his actions. You calling him wicked does not help in this situation. Because you are as wicked as what you claim others to be. I can claim this not because I know you but because I know people. We are all wicked. All that is needed here is what I said previous learn that cheating is a mistake that cannot be undone. But is a learning experience to never do again.
I just can not have compassion for a person who does such a thing to his/her partner. My compassion belongs solely to the poor ex girlfriend. Everyone who is in a relationship should be wise enough to know what he/she is doing to someone when he/she cheats on him/her. Cheating destroys so much inside the affected person. It's just unfaire and mean.
My wife and I have gone through so many fights I canât count them. She cries, I get sad (I donât really cry- except when my dog died). Itâs natural. I think we need to embrace emotions and then own up to mistakes.
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