Would You Ever Be In A Interracial Relationship?

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Why Or Why Not? I have seen strong arguments for and against these types of relationships. What are your thoughts? Disclaimers: Question inspired by daily readings. Check references listed to see where my inspiration came from. ☝️

UnknownReflection · Accepted Answer

Of course.

Believe me or not i dont even notice skin color when interacting with people. I just see humans and race does not strike me as a front priority analysis.

Race is overhyped. People love to connect it with so many things and sometimes they try so hard to prove a point by scientific loopholes. But all of them are stupid. Race is the most overhyped useless subject i have ever seen in my 25 years of life so far. Race only works in terms of analyzing our fascinating physical appearances and how different notions of arts each background is. But in social terms, race does not indicate anything about the person's personality, value, intelligence and character nor culture as a human being.

Love is a free emotion. It will be restricted only when you restrict it with forceful socially constructed values and certain practices. Love is naturally free which can fly anywhere, connect and sparkle through anyone at any given time beyond limits.

We are all humans, each individual born with particular abilities, ideas, mentalities, talents, skills, and unique physical grace entitled to them, in their own way. Every person is special in their own way and have exceptional worth and purpose.

Therefore, when i truly connect with someone, nothing and no one can stop me from being with them, specially not small minding categorizations like race. Every race, shape, size and color is beautiful and uniuqe in their own way, period.

Obtuse · Accepted Answer

Been in many. Actually you might characterize every single relationship I've been in this way since I'm biracial/mixed, and I never dated anyone who was biracial and mixed the same way as me. But I've dated white, black, Asian. I never dated Hispanic but not due to a lack of interest (just lack of opportunity). Maybe being biracial had something to do with finding all sorts of ethnicities attractive (also I grew up bouncing between different cultures and being exposed to multiple very different beauty standards).

wingattebaby16 · Accepted Answer

I would, but the man must have the mindset that I am NOT a piece of property or a door mat.

I like white guys, I have been with several black men, a couple mexicans, and Asians.

I have only met 2 black guys that treated me like something more than arm candy, a door mat, and a place to put their penis.

As a guy, there are a ton, i mean a ton, of interracial women that want to be with a white man!

Im not racist, but I grew up in Decatur, GA and women were treated like crap by the ethnic guys I knew... just a fact of life.. also, most the white redneck jerks were just as bad.

rxm_bxl · Accepted Answer

Hell yes.
These kinds if relationships are a lot more rare to see where I'm from unfortunately. Due to a lot of out races here not really interested in mixing I suppose.
But that would be a dream for me.

MorticiAddams · Answer

I am the product of a mixed race relationship. My spouse is the product of a mixed race relationship. There are more races than PEOPLE in my house!!!
I think our mixed identities have had a very positive impact on our relationship, the way we think, and the way we run our home. We have a wide range of cultural experiences to pull out personal influences and values from, so we can kind of choose the best of all our worlds for how we want to live our life!
Besides... more cultures = more holidays to celebrate!! More parties!! Woo!

Bratsondanielle · Answer

I had a black boyfriend. His grandfather was from Zimbabwe and grandmother from... I think Nigeria... his name was Kenya. It was a gr8 experience and fun to see different people react differently from thinking it was awesome to sheer horror. After the relationship ended I've come to find the white boys have different ways to relate to their girl having a black x. My current boyfriend loves it (not specifying details so don't ask) but small insecure boys can't handle it. Anyway... long story.. the answer is yes. Would I do it again? Probably

jabariw18 · Answer

I would be and have been, however my longest and most fulfilling relationship was with a girl of my own race and from my personal experience, the only people outside of my race who ever really bother with me consistently are overweight white women (which I'm not really attracted to overweight people.) Not fat shaming, I just don't find their bodies physically attractive. I do like the idea of dating interracially though. There is something about it that excites me and its hard to explain. I also love the features of Asian women but again, the overwhelming majority seem to have no interest in black guys whatsoever. Stereotypes I guess.

Not_Average · Answer

I dated a Dominican girl for years. Her dad was a straight up racist and hated white people though. I always thought people who had issues with interracial dating were strange to me. I don't understand why it's upsetting in the slightest. When I was younger, culture showed me that we naturally segregate- and it was honestly the Marine Corps that opened me up to the fact that we aren't very different at all. Most of my NCO's were black and Mexican. Pretty much everyone who's 03 had the same personality as it is lol. We're all just Americans in my eyes. Race doesn't come into play in my mind.

SomeGuyCalledTom · Answer

Their race wouldn't be a decisive factor. If anything, cultural clashes would have more influence. She needs to come from a culture that promotes liberty and freedom of thought. Also not into ultra-conservative religious zealots. But skin colour/ethnicity in and of itself makes no difference to my decision to date her, as long as I find her aesthetically attractive of course.

Prettygurl12 · Answer

I'm married. My husband is also white. Ideally we will stay together until we die when we're like 110 years old lol so... in that respect, no, I can't see myself with anyone else besides him, regardless of the color of their skin.

BUT if I were single, I wouldn't rule someone out just because their skin color was different than mine. In the alternate universe where I'm not with my husband, yes, I would be open to an interracial relationship.

pajamasam · Answer

If I had the opportunity I would love to take it. I'd love to see the different race cultures and blurr the line and also just to try something I never have. But I wouldn't go looking for an interracial relationship ship as just a novelty, I'd want it to be a full fledged serious relarionship.

katjmj · Answer

Current relationship status aside, I think it would be interesting to date someone outside of my race. Defining factors there would be the language barrier and cultural differences but if we could work around those then good. The ethnicity itself doesn't matter.

Littlegreenmen · Answer

Genetic studies have proven that the first modern humans (H. sapiens) are the ! Kung San tribe of African bushmen. Everyone on the planet shares DNA with them and everyone has black ancestry. To me it's the human race of varying diversity we belong to not separate races because everyone has the same ancestors. That being stated I'd still be married to my wife if she was a purple alien because of who she is; not because of her skin tone. I'm like Captain Kirk, if she's female I'd tap dat no matter how alien she is to me, so dating within my own species I'm colorblind.

tonymitchell · Answer

If I found a woman who could deal with my weirdness and uniqueness, and our personalities meshed, I wouldn't give a %%$#@%**^&& what race she was. I did my DNA, and I could hardly be racist if I tried. I'm sure there is some obscure people somewhere on earth I am NOT related to in some way, but with something like 36 different genetic markers, what's the point? The only other possible obstacle is social convention, and I've never cared a bit about that.

gandolph3 · Answer

we are but one race, otherwise we could not breed. think about where each skin color originates, and the climate there. for thousands and thousands of years people did not travel. a white person that tans year after year will eventually have a permanently darker tone where they tan.
very dark skin people are from the topics, hot year around, became permanently darker
yellow skin from Asia where some of the deadliest diseases originated, sick people have a yellow gold tone
reddish skin originally from the artic area, before migrating south. get cold you turn red.
lighter skin comes from a climate of four seasons, thus became neutral. are whites smarter, no not at all, but they did have to learn to adapt causing them to think, most of the others only had one season not requiring them to adapt

i do not mean to step on anyones toes, forgive me if i have

MrOracle · Answer

I've been in a couple. Race has never been important to me - I've been with white, black, Hispanic, and Asian women - so for me it's all about HER, not her ancestry or the color of her skin.

For me, the biggest thing is that we are CULTURALLY similar.

Username_notsure · Answer

Its totally cool.
We are all just human, it doesn't matter
Our bodies are basically the same, with just superficial minor differences really.
I am white and I am head over heels in love with a filipino girl that I've been seeing for about a month.

The main thing is to be happy and find someone you care about and who cares about you.

MuffinBoi · Answer

Honestly, interracial or not, I don't really care. If I like the girl for who she is and the feeling is mutual, why not date her?

I'm not too sure what sort of against arguments may be out there, but I can't think of any off the top of my head. My previous relationship was interracial and it never caused any issues racially speaking.

Smoothing · Answer

To me being in an interracial relationship is not the question. Race is of no factor to me when it comes to relationships. The question is, does the person accept me and my values just like I would accept hers? If she doesn't, I can not be in a relationship with them. Simply because that is a very good sign they are not honest with themselves.

Guest25 · Answer

Yeah, I mean there is a certain type of skin tone that is just so appealing to me. Very exotic. Plus my coworkers (mainly Latinos) tell me I shouldn't go with a white girl, they say a little Spanish girl would be perfect. I'm white if you're wondering.

Anonymous · Answer

Not yet, but I often fantasize about being in a relationship with a beautiful girl of some other race.

midnightmoon05 · Answer

Have only been in interracial relationships... and most comfortable with. Its not the race or color. But the personaility, compatibiitly, understanding, integreity... other levels of being together.

jersos1 · Answer

I'd definitely would. I'm from somewhere in Asia and I'm super curious about the different cultures, people and languages. So, dating people from different ethnicities give a clear idea about their culture. I love that. I'd greatly appreciate anyone who agrees with me!

Peace ✌😄

movish · Answer

The world today made it easy for a Spanish woman to interact with a Chinese man because of civilization.. Culture, language & racism should not stand in our way of having a casual or intimate relationship with someone from a different country or race. Just like I'm black, lots of white feels they're different and more superior than blacks. Interracial relationship is healthy, it gives one privilege to learn and acknowledge a different culture.

Mikemarston30 · Answer

Definitely but I don't think women find us white guys sexually attractive

I mean have you seen twitter it's full of people particularly women , hating on white dudes , yes even white women

And I'm being kept on told that women naturally prefer black men

Since their masculine , have deeper voice , better bodies (according to them ) etc

Also they got a sexual advantage , not the big d but rather the skin colour contrast ( black on white skin )

I'm being told women date us to avoid pressure from society , her family and our money and status ( assuming we have any of those )

Besides all the women I have men that have high sex drive or love sex are only or primarily into black men or lesbians. Interracial BBC porn is the most viewed by women soo yea

yeah I would be happy to be in one but the thought that she's never really attracted to me just bugs me

I'm just you know worried

Exterminatore · Answer

I’m married but if I weren’t, sure. I’ve done it before. I don’t care about a persons race. There are attractive girls of all different races. Compatibility, looks, character... those are what are important to me.

Ebivion · Answer

Why not I don't see the problem it's like dating any other person with the same colour as you. What is the difference the tone? Then what about relationships from different ethnicities or from different countries?

i1T2daty · Answer

Not sure what you mean by partners. But as far as lovers, I've had Japanese, Korean, Black, Latina, Arabic, French, Irish & German lovers and white ;lovers and they were all poretty wonderful

GreyWolf9000 · Answer

Yes definitely... It's opens so many doors... To mentality, culture, traditions and much more. There is nothing bad or wrong with this type of relationship in fact in my previous relationship i learned so much.

nopedydoo · Answer

if i liked the guy i dont see why i wouldn't be in a relationship solely bc of his race? however, im not sure its likely that i will be in one bc i do prefer white guys (and im white as well)

AliyahMia · Answer

Yeah I'm mostly attracted to white guys (and sometimes asian) so probably all my relationships will be mixed. Now who tf knows why im attracted to what I am cuz I don't. 🤷

nodnol32 · Answer

I have been in one. It can be challenging but effort from both sides, compromises and adjustments make it work. Its a beautiful thing. You learn a lot about a different culture and if you like it maybe you can implemenet it in your life.

GemstoneCandy1810 · Answer

Yeah because I feel like it doesn't matter what color a person is. It only matters that they love you and treat you right. My boyfriend if Irish and I'm African American and Hispanic.

Jaximus-Lion · Answer

Am from the middle east and the wife is from sweden, if that is not interracial enough? Some need to understand the diffrence between porn and real life

NCgirlie · Answer

I'm currently in a interracial relationship and my boyfriend has shown me unconditional love ❤

naijagurl · Answer

I have in the past and I probably will again in the future. Race really isn’t a big deal to me.

fantabulousfemale · Answer

Being the product of an interracial relationship, I'm definitely Pro interracial

FatimaHodzic · Answer

We are in one and hopefully we will get married soon.

505error · Answer

I have dated a black guy in the past (I’m white). I don’t see a different race as a deal breaker.

Smccoy217 · Answer

I lost my virginity to someone not of my race, we dated for a few months. Lol in my opinion who cares?

just_a_potato · Answer

I've previously only dated in my own race, this is my first interracial relationship 😊

SjE78 · Answer

if we got on then yes, wouldn't be any different than dating a woman from my own culture in my opinion

sdrawkcabosmi · Answer

I'm a white guy that's never dated a white girl. All of the women I've been with have either been Latina, Asian, or Black. Not that I fetishize them, I'm just not attracted to white women.

baconninjadc · Answer

Absolutely. I'm not even attracted to white women. I have no idea why but that's just me and I think we ought to be able to indulge our preferences

DiegoO · Answer

All of us are human beings. My LD ex is from Spain, native from Iberia, I am a mix. In the US I would be called Hispanic but Hispanic has nothing to do with race or ethnicity, so... I am from everywhere.

Neko911 · Answer

Yeah. The dude I happen 2 b n love with is black. It's just a complicated relationship though with him

BCA6010 · Answer

It could happen. Has before. Wouldn't avoid it on the grounds of race being an issue.

laenna_2003 · Answer

I've been in two interracial relationships and honestly I don't mind because where I'm from if I date someone who's my colour we maybe cousins😅So yeah I wouldn't mind being in another interracial relationship.

Lemia · Answer

Currently I am happy with my current relationship but if in the near future someone with a different skin tone happens to be interested sure why not

Regmorus · Answer

Not any different from any not interracial realtionship for me. The world is our home...

Hannahm67 · Answer

This will sound bad.
In my day to day life, I don't think I am racist at all. I don't treat people any differently based on their skin color or anything. But when it comes to relationships I am really creeped out by interracial ones. I don't know why and it's not specific races just all of them. I think it might come from wanting kids that look like me which sounds bad but it's true. I am white and If I had kids with someone from a different race like black or Asian there would be little to no chance of them looking like me.

Meropatrick · Answer

I will keep comparing my skin color to theirs just out of curiosity. (Especially if she is lighter than me) Which have the potential to ruin the relationship

JCT666 · Answer

Yes and I have before. But what concerns me about being in one is the differences in cultural values, family and language.

dragoblack · Answer

Yes, i have no problem with it or any skin color. Just treat me with respect and dont treat me like shit because I'm white.

Anonymous · Answer

I wouldn’t rule it out but I have never been romantically attracted to someone of a different race before. Tons of friends but have never had a boyfriend of a different race. 🤷‍♀️

itsmeamy · Answer

I never have but i think i am open minded that if met the right guy it wouldn't matter to me

CrystalSnowflakes · Answer

Yes! I don't see any problem as long as I love my SO, everything is fine.

zagor · Answer

Definitely. I've met very attractive, interesting, intelligent women of various races.

SClassWizzard · Answer

All my 3 relationships were interracial lol Indian (Bengalian) Asian (Indo) Caucasian (Croatian)

chnapo · Answer

I wouldn´t have problem with that, as long as our persoanlities match, race is not a factor. I mean, it can be positive - I like black, latina and Asian girls potentially more than white...

solofapper · Answer

It would depend entirely on the person to be honest. If I met someone and we hit it off then absolutely I would

JayFromEngland · Answer

Sure I would be! There are so many beautiful non-caucasian women.

Barry88 · Answer

Of course. What could be a strong argument against such a relationship?

just_chubby_ · Answer

nope I never had the privilege to date someone of some other race but I'd love to try it out too

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