Of course.
Believe me or not i dont even notice skin color when interacting with people. I just see humans and race does not strike me as a front priority analysis.
Race is overhyped. People love to connect it with so many things and sometimes they try so hard to prove a point by scientific loopholes. But all of them are stupid. Race is the most overhyped useless subject i have ever seen in my 25 years of life so far. Race only works in terms of analyzing our fascinating physical appearances and how different notions of arts each background is. But in social terms, race does not indicate anything about the person's personality, value, intelligence and character nor culture as a human being.
Love is a free emotion. It will be restricted only when you restrict it with forceful socially constructed values and certain practices. Love is naturally free which can fly anywhere, connect and sparkle through anyone at any given time beyond limits.
We are all humans, each individual born with particular abilities, ideas, mentalities, talents, skills, and unique physical grace entitled to them, in their own way. Every person is special in their own way and have exceptional worth and purpose.
Therefore, when i truly connect with someone, nothing and no one can stop me from being with them, specially not small minding categorizations like race. Every race, shape, size and color is beautiful and uniuqe in their own way, period.
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Been in many. Actually you might characterize every single relationship I've been in this way since I'm biracial/mixed, and I never dated anyone who was biracial and mixed the same way as me. But I've dated white, black, Asian. I never dated Hispanic but not due to a lack of interest (just lack of opportunity). Maybe being biracial had something to do with finding all sorts of ethnicities attractive (also I grew up bouncing between different cultures and being exposed to multiple very different beauty standards).
I would, but the man must have the mindset that I am NOT a piece of property or a door mat.
I like white guys, I have been with several black men, a couple mexicans, and Asians.
I have only met 2 black guys that treated me like something more than arm candy, a door mat, and a place to put their penis.
As a guy, there are a ton, i mean a ton, of interracial women that want to be with a white man!
Im not racist, but I grew up in Decatur, GA and women were treated like crap by the ethnic guys I knew... just a fact of life.. also, most the white redneck jerks were just as bad.
Hell yes.
These kinds if relationships are a lot more rare to see where I'm from unfortunately. Due to a lot of out races here not really interested in mixing I suppose.
But that would be a dream for me.
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I am the product of a mixed race relationship. My spouse is the product of a mixed race relationship. There are more races than PEOPLE in my house!!!
I think our mixed identities have had a very positive impact on our relationship, the way we think, and the way we run our home. We have a wide range of cultural experiences to pull out personal influences and values from, so we can kind of choose the best of all our worlds for how we want to live our life!
Besides... more cultures = more holidays to celebrate!! More parties!! Woo!I had a black boyfriend. His grandfather was from Zimbabwe and grandmother from... I think Nigeria... his name was Kenya. It was a gr8 experience and fun to see different people react differently from thinking it was awesome to sheer horror. After the relationship ended I've come to find the white boys have different ways to relate to their girl having a black x. My current boyfriend loves it (not specifying details so don't ask) but small insecure boys can't handle it. Anyway... long story.. the answer is yes. Would I do it again? Probably
I would be and have been, however my longest and most fulfilling relationship was with a girl of my own race and from my personal experience, the only people outside of my race who ever really bother with me consistently are overweight white women (which I'm not really attracted to overweight people.) Not fat shaming, I just don't find their bodies physically attractive. I do like the idea of dating interracially though. There is something about it that excites me and its hard to explain. I also love the features of Asian women but again, the overwhelming majority seem to have no interest in black guys whatsoever. Stereotypes I guess.
I dated a Dominican girl for years. Her dad was a straight up racist and hated white people though. I always thought people who had issues with interracial dating were strange to me. I don't understand why it's upsetting in the slightest. When I was younger, culture showed me that we naturally segregate- and it was honestly the Marine Corps that opened me up to the fact that we aren't very different at all. Most of my NCO's were black and Mexican. Pretty much everyone who's 03 had the same personality as it is lol. We're all just Americans in my eyes. Race doesn't come into play in my mind.
Their race wouldn't be a decisive factor. If anything, cultural clashes would have more influence. She needs to come from a culture that promotes liberty and freedom of thought. Also not into ultra-conservative religious zealots. But skin colour/ethnicity in and of itself makes no difference to my decision to date her, as long as I find her aesthetically attractive of course.
I'm married. My husband is also white. Ideally we will stay together until we die when we're like 110 years old lol so... in that respect, no, I can't see myself with anyone else besides him, regardless of the color of their skin.
BUT if I were single, I wouldn't rule someone out just because their skin color was different than mine. In the alternate universe where I'm not with my husband, yes, I would be open to an interracial relationship.If I had the opportunity I would love to take it. I'd love to see the different race cultures and blurr the line and also just to try something I never have. But I wouldn't go looking for an interracial relationship ship as just a novelty, I'd want it to be a full fledged serious relarionship.
Current relationship status aside, I think it would be interesting to date someone outside of my race. Defining factors there would be the language barrier and cultural differences but if we could work around those then good. The ethnicity itself doesn't matter.
Genetic studies have proven that the first modern humans (H. sapiens) are the ! Kung San tribe of African bushmen. Everyone on the planet shares DNA with them and everyone has black ancestry. To me it's the human race of varying diversity we belong to not separate races because everyone has the same ancestors. That being stated I'd still be married to my wife if she was a purple alien because of who she is; not because of her skin tone. I'm like Captain Kirk, if she's female I'd tap dat no matter how alien she is to me, so dating within my own species I'm colorblind.
If I found a woman who could deal with my weirdness and uniqueness, and our personalities meshed, I wouldn't give a %%$#@%**^&& what race she was. I did my DNA, and I could hardly be racist if I tried. I'm sure there is some obscure people somewhere on earth I am NOT related to in some way, but with something like 36 different genetic markers, what's the point? The only other possible obstacle is social convention, and I've never cared a bit about that.
we are but one race, otherwise we could not breed. think about where each skin color originates, and the climate there. for thousands and thousands of years people did not travel. a white person that tans year after year will eventually have a permanently darker tone where they tan.
very dark skin people are from the topics, hot year around, became permanently darker
yellow skin from Asia where some of the deadliest diseases originated, sick people have a yellow gold tone
reddish skin originally from the artic area, before migrating south. get cold you turn red.
lighter skin comes from a climate of four seasons, thus became neutral. are whites smarter, no not at all, but they did have to learn to adapt causing them to think, most of the others only had one season not requiring them to adapt
i do not mean to step on anyones toes, forgive me if i haveI've been in a couple. Race has never been important to me - I've been with white, black, Hispanic, and Asian women - so for me it's all about HER, not her ancestry or the color of her skin.
For me, the biggest thing is that we are CULTURALLY similar.Its totally cool.
We are all just human, it doesn't matter
Our bodies are basically the same, with just superficial minor differences really.
I am white and I am head over heels in love with a filipino girl that I've been seeing for about a month.
The main thing is to be happy and find someone you care about and who cares about you.Honestly, interracial or not, I don't really care. If I like the girl for who she is and the feeling is mutual, why not date her?
I'm not too sure what sort of against arguments may be out there, but I can't think of any off the top of my head. My previous relationship was interracial and it never caused any issues racially speaking.To me being in an interracial relationship is not the question. Race is of no factor to me when it comes to relationships. The question is, does the person accept me and my values just like I would accept hers? If she doesn't, I can not be in a relationship with them. Simply because that is a very good sign they are not honest with themselves.
Yeah, I mean there is a certain type of skin tone that is just so appealing to me. Very exotic. Plus my coworkers (mainly Latinos) tell me I shouldn't go with a white girl, they say a little Spanish girl would be perfect. I'm white if you're wondering.
Not yet, but I often fantasize about being in a relationship with a beautiful girl of some other race.
Have only been in interracial relationships... and most comfortable with.
Its not the race or color. But the personaility, compatibiitly, understanding, integreity... other levels of being together.I'd definitely would. I'm from somewhere in Asia and I'm super curious about the different cultures, people and languages. So, dating people from different ethnicities give a clear idea about their culture. I love that. I'd greatly appreciate anyone who agrees with me!
Peace ✌😄The world today made it easy for a Spanish woman to interact with a Chinese man because of civilization.. Culture, language & racism should not stand in our way of having a casual or intimate relationship with someone from a different country or race. Just like I'm black, lots of white feels they're different and more superior than blacks. Interracial relationship is healthy, it gives one privilege to learn and acknowledge a different culture.
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