Attractive women don't like me and friends and family don't want to help me be more attractive to attractive women. Please help me?

[HeyImSteve]

I'm miserable about how attractive women don't want me and I'm miserable that I'm broke and poor living with my father. I'm 26 never a girlfriend or kissed still a virgin. I'm fat ugly short and poor. I'm frustrated and miserable and stressed. Nobody loves me.
My best friend is about to become a pharmacist and his girlfriend is unreal hot and my other close friend has just gotten in with a very big firm and it's going to make a hundred grand a year and his girlfriend is ridiculous hot and I'm 26 and I'm just now halfway towards my bachelor's and I'm on academic probation so it feels like I've ruined my life already cuz I'm so far behind compared to everybody else. Hot girls don't date fat dudes who live with their dad. I also work for my dad as a salesman because I don't want to push carts at a grocery store. And attractive women don't date cart pushers.

Where I grew up in Colorado all the girls thought I was a loser and when I hung out with my friends my friends girlfriends think I'm a loser and it is because I'm ugly looking and fat.
I now live in Massachusetts and I'm practically invisible to good looking women and I also don't have any friends here and I've lived here for 7 years I only have friends because I keep tabs and visit my once in Colorado.

26M Never a girlfriend or kissed still a virgin never a date I'm fat ugly short and poor. No decent women (20sF) like me. Nobody cares that I am miserable and no one wants to help me and no one cares about me. Can I get advice?

[BlessedDaddy]

Hey my man. It's going to be okay. And you should watch out what you ask for, you just might get it. That means that sometimes when you get what you think you want, it's worse than where you were... a lot of Hot woman are crazy brother.

Getting what you want comes down to one thing: Confidence. Not cocky, confident.

But how do you get there?

I can tell you where to start: You have to stop putting yourself down immediately. It takes 10 positive self affirmations to cancel out just one negitive. And that is because we can easily dwell on the negitives. Just stop doing to. Catch yourself because you will do it without knowing.

After you get that negitive thinking out of your head, then you can start working on you.

My friend Tina is a big girl. She's a little loud, big smile and for the last two years she's done a nude calendar and gives it to friends. She thinks she's sexy so she becomes sexy.

[immure]

This one is fairly simple. Get off your ass and get back to school. Get the degree that pays so you can move out of daddy's house. While you are in school work in your confidence and learn to lower your standards a little. If all else fails... you can always hire a hot chick.

[HeyImSteve]

You telling me to lower my standards as you telling me to voluntarily be a loser on purpose

[immure]

It's sounds to me like you already a loser. You lack confidence, you live with your dad, and you call yourself unattractive. Now I know some really ugly guys that have got women. They are super smart, they have great jobs, and own their own homes. They are high in self confidence which is sexy to women. If you are not willing to change the way you think about yourself and others, by all means, stay a loser. I'm telling you that you have a choice.

[Anoniemus]

You’ve already stated what’s wrong with you. What woman (even an ugly one) would want a man who isn’t stable or has his shit together? No woman does not even a user because she can’t use you in anyway. Unless if the woman is in the same predicament as you.

Lose weight.
Stop being broke which is a huge risk to any woman who doesn’t want to have to take care of you.
You can’t help being short but ugly? There are things you can do to improve yourself (haircut that compliments your face and shirts which bring out your eyes).

I see some of the grossest men getting women so you can get one.

[HeyImSteve]

What is so ugly looking about me anyways

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[DorkVader]

Nice pity party. You were really motivated to post all this on here, use that same motivation to contact your profs and figure out how you can bring your grades around. Put in the work. Lose weight if you think it's a factor, but I think your personality needs more of a makeover than your looks. You have got to set goals for yourself, realistic goals, and start working towards them. Focus on being the best you, because if YOU find yourself unacceptable as is, you definitely don't want the type of girl who would accept you this way either. And quit being so hard on yourself. You're a work in progress.

[ciitruskiwi]

Trust me all this guy has the motivation to do is spam his sob story, he actually has no motivation to fix his problems. He's just going to tell you that your advice isn't helpful like he does to everyone else.

[kaylaS91]

I’d say it’s time to go see a counselor as the common denominator in all the ‘problems’ you listed above is you. Or rather.. your self perception, so it sounds like you’re in a downward cycle.

You’re already shifting the blame for why you won’t reach some of your goals, which is deterring you from even trying.

[MackToday]

You need to take the initiative, do what your friends have done. lose the weight, carnivore diet works or just cut carbs and exorcise. Every time you don't work out, don't study you are causing your self to be in this situation. You must do the work to get the reward.

[Shiv__007]

First step go to gym and lose fat, follow diet and get in shape.
Step two develop a fuck the world, devil may cry attitude.
Step three read, learn, research about kamasutra, erotic massage and sensual feelings.

DO NOT BREAK THE CRONOLOGY EVER!

[Liam_Hayden]

Make the best of what you have.

1. Get fit. You can't do anything about your height, but you can about your obesity. Especially in the current lock down you will have time.

2. Groom and dress better.

3. Get educated career-wise. Or become an apprentice at something.

It might take a couple of years, but if you do nothing then in a couple of years you will still be lamenting your life.

[caveman88]

I kind of know how you feel other than the Virgin single never girlfriend but I've never I just had an extremely attractive girlfriend but yeah I know the miserable I know the heartache I know the pain wish I could give you some advice. That is actually worth a damn but I just try to focus on the positive and try to change my way of thinking when I start getting depressed and miserable

[TacocaT6969]

Lower your fucking standards or fucking improve yourself.

Nobody can help you but you, but instead of helping yourself you’re wallowing in your own self pity.

Man the fuck up and make a change or else things with never change.

[Anonymous]

Just loose weight, think positive, get a job and stop winging.

Baby steps, not loose all weight tomorrow, but go to gym and exercise 3 times a week and eat healthy.

In your case you need to see counsler or shrink...

And main think you will never get to date model movie star or whatever you in too, they only date their own most of time.

Studies, just get up and do it!

[Secret6620]

Feel better soon. 💜☪️☮️

[omgrey]

💜💜

[Miristheiss]

Maybe rhey are out of your league... go after less attractive girls.

[omgrey]

This guy again