Should I cheat on useless BF?

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Well we’re sort of having a lot of misunderstandings and neither of us is texting the other right now because of it. It’s all my fault because I told him I want to fuck someone else and that I can get someone better than him and a bunch of other insults. He’s a shy and sensitive person so he didn’t say much but he looked hurt. Now he doesn’t text me and I won’t because he’s the one that is trying to persuade me to stay together so it’s HIS turn to initiate contact or lose me. He hasn’t texted me in 5 days. Should I cheat on him out of revenge?

Apope16 · Accepted Answer

Holy shit. Wow. You are super cruel and mean. A girl said that to me and it crushed my ego to the point that I set out to prove her wrong by eventually fucking another chic.. thats a long story. it wasn't cheating it was after the relationship.

Anyway, you are soo mean. Like you are destroying a man's confidence when you do that and this dude is still in love with you. Yeah you are fighting and shit but that is so mean you need to apologize to him right now. Cause just reading that shit is making me cry. Like immediately after reading this you need to apologize and tell him how much you care about him. Tell him you can get other guys but these are the reason why you chose him...

It is your turn to contact him. Not his. He is being a man and drawing a line in the sand with no contact so that you are aware that you have crossed a line of disrespect that he isn't even going to put up with. You need to contact him right away. Aplogize and either break up with him officially or fight to have your relationship back. Because at this point you dont deserve him.

The other thing.. you need to be mature about conflict. You need to communicate struggles in a way that really empowers people and lifts them up to be with you. Not puts them down. Message me and I can give you advice on that. But you need to start out in any argument by saying, "you really mean a lot to me. I care about you and want this to work out. One thing I dont like is when you do this... I just want you to know that because I see a lot of things that I like about you and I want us to be stronger together... how do you feel about what I am saying?" then "okay... lets go on a date baby.."

dillion12 · Accepted Answer

Now i understand you dear, you are a very open kind of girl with lots of adventural mind, the man who really understands you will live happily ever after, if it's your desire to fuck another guy like its something you wanna try, if you make him understand by talking and he refuses i suggest if you don't wanna loose him, then you would have to fulfill your desire secretly as long as you not hurting your relationship... You should fulfill your fantacy or else one day you will cheat satisfying your fantasy

bbycakes101 · Accepted Answer

No don't cheat just leave him. But honestly you sound pretty rude... why would you say stuff like that to him? Like wth bruh... he doesn't sound like he deserves the shit you said and did.

AmandaYVR · Accepted Answer

You sound insane. No wonder you anon'd this. Do him a favour and break up with your "useless boyfriend." You guys are just biding time, screwing each other up even more.

Truthatanycost · Answer

No one needs such toxicity in their life. You've forgotten that you are supposed to compliment, raise the vibrations of, nourish, cherish and encourage your partner. Instead you want to cheat. This tells me that you are lost, have forgotten what you are, and are driven by ego. My suggestion is that you start looking to your dormant higher self, and reawaken it before it's too late. Why are we so easily manipulated by our own ego?

F-eight · Answer

Who tf says that to their boyfriend, and then when he doesn't talk, think about cheating on him like wtf? Don't you even have courtesy to understand that it's your mistake because of everything that you said to him? It's you who should initiate the contact and apologize. Instead you need validations from other people who you want to agree to you for cheating. And what revenge are you even talking about? You're the one who should be taken the revenge from and not vice versa...

jayden888 · Answer

You've already hurt him with the texts, and now why do you want everyone's permission here to cheat on him?

Relationships shouldn't be about revenge. The very fact that you want to hurt him means you aren't worthy of him. Go find someone else. I sincerely hope he find better. And I sincerely hope you find yourself.

coffeewithcream · Answer

There's toxic and then there is super toxic and then, apparently, there is you.
In just a few words you're able to give females a bad name, all on your own.
A friend should pull this guy aside and tell him to drop you like a white-hot ember. You'll do him no good or, it seems, anyone else you breathe on.
I think he's given you a message. Hopefully, his silence says, "It's over and you're not worth a discussion. Good luck."

Barbaric · Answer

You just need to leave him, it's as simple as that. If you're thinking of cheating and you're so unhappy with him the relationship is done anyway. What's the point? He's probably thinking about leaving himself anyway.

slatyb · Answer

No, you shouldn't cheat. You can end the relationship or agree to have an open relationship. It sounds to me like this one is over. I have zero patience for people who play games like that. Be an adult and get it resolved or be done with it.

boggboss · Answer

At This point you have to be trolling because there is no way you are genuinely this retarded

worldscolide · Answer

Are you really that stupid.. Just break up with him. Cheating is wrong, and honestly makes you less than human, it makes you garbage. No wonder groups like MGTOW exist.. women like you give men everywhere a bad name.. Grow up child.

Laozi · Answer

Are you an idiot or mentally retarded? If you don't want to be in a relationship then just leave. You don't have to be an asshole. Just breakup and fuck off. Is that too hard for you people? Smh.

Unit1 · Answer

This is even more toxic than radioactive waste! I hope he finds his balls to cut you off from his life altogether and blocks you everywhere.

Dchrls78104 · Answer

Well done. After he ceases to speak to you because your abuse of him has hurt his sensitive nature, go ahead and cheat; and prove that you're no better than a toxic vat of nuclear waste.

ZELLxoxo · Answer

'it. It’s all my fault because...' Your fault. Apologize to him

V12NI · Answer

From this I can say that you are useless, not him. Now you want revenge because he didn't text you for 5 days after you insulted him on purpose? How dumb are you? He deserves better than you.

igoforoldergirls · Answer

Thats super lame and you're just taking advantage of his personality

Dummy23 · Answer

What's the point of cheating. Just leave him please

JosyJosy · Answer

if you cheat, you'll make yourself a useless girlfriend. Just break up and then go fuck around

bente2 · Answer

Uh, no? Wtf girl, that’s hella toxic. Get your shit together and act your age. Just break it off.

Danahghani · Answer

You both should either grow up and communicate and try to fix it or just break up already!

cereal_muncher · Answer

Do him a huge favor and apologize and let him know that he can go get himself a new girl light years better than him. Break up and then go sleep around, you don't deserve your "useless boyfriend."

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