Should I cheat on useless BF?

[Anonymous]

Well we’re sort of having a lot of misunderstandings and neither of us is texting the other right now because of it. It’s all my fault because I told him I want to fuck someone else and that I can get someone better than him and a bunch of other insults. He’s a shy and sensitive person so he didn’t say much but he looked hurt. Now he doesn’t text me and I won’t because he’s the one that is trying to persuade me to stay together so it’s HIS turn to initiate contact or lose me. He hasn’t texted me in 5 days. Should I cheat on him out of revenge?

[Apope16]

Holy shit. Wow. You are super cruel and mean. A girl said that to me and it crushed my ego to the point that I set out to prove her wrong by eventually fucking another chic.. thats a long story. it wasn't cheating it was after the relationship.

Anyway, you are soo mean. Like you are destroying a man's confidence when you do that and this dude is still in love with you. Yeah you are fighting and shit but that is so mean you need to apologize to him right now. Cause just reading that shit is making me cry. Like immediately after reading this you need to apologize and tell him how much you care about him. Tell him you can get other guys but these are the reason why you chose him...

It is your turn to contact him. Not his. He is being a man and drawing a line in the sand with no contact so that you are aware that you have crossed a line of disrespect that he isn't even going to put up with. You need to contact him right away. Aplogize and either break up with him officially or fight to have your relationship back. Because at this point you dont deserve him.

The other thing.. you need to be mature about conflict. You need to communicate struggles in a way that really empowers people and lifts them up to be with you. Not puts them down. Message me and I can give you advice on that. But you need to start out in any argument by saying, "you really mean a lot to me. I care about you and want this to work out. One thing I dont like is when you do this... I just want you to know that because I see a lot of things that I like about you and I want us to be stronger together... how do you feel about what I am saying?" then "okay... lets go on a date baby.."

[Apope16]

And for the record. judging by your question.. which is dumb.. and by your paragraph. you have a very abusive personality. What you did was emotionally abusive to this guy. Realize that.

[Apope16]

THanks for the MHO. Did you apologize to the guy though? I wasn't trying to be mean. I actually did care.

[dillion12]

Now i understand you dear, you are a very open kind of girl with lots of adventural mind, the man who really understands you will live happily ever after, if it's your desire to fuck another guy like its something you wanna try, if you make him understand by talking and he refuses i suggest if you don't wanna loose him, then you would have to fulfill your desire secretly as long as you not hurting your relationship... You should fulfill your fantacy or else one day you will cheat satisfying your fantasy

[bbycakes101]

No don't cheat just leave him. But honestly you sound pretty rude... why would you say stuff like that to him? Like wth bruh... he doesn't sound like he deserves the shit you said and did.

[Asker]

He has been rubbing me the wrong way lately

[AmandaYVR]

You sound insane. No wonder you anon'd this.
Do him a favour and break up with your "useless boyfriend." You guys are just biding time, screwing each other up even more.

[Truthatanycost]

No one needs such toxicity in their life. You've forgotten that you are supposed to compliment, raise the vibrations of, nourish, cherish and encourage your partner. Instead you want to cheat. This tells me that you are lost, have forgotten what you are, and are driven by ego. My suggestion is that you start looking to your dormant higher self, and reawaken it before it's too late. Why are we so easily manipulated by our own ego?

[F-eight]

Who tf says that to their boyfriend, and then when he doesn't talk, think about cheating on him like wtf? Don't you even have courtesy to understand that it's your mistake because of everything that you said to him? It's you who should initiate the contact and apologize. Instead you need validations from other people who you want to agree to you for cheating. And what revenge are you even talking about? You're the one who should be taken the revenge from and not vice versa...

[cereal_muncher]

This. Straight up brotha.

[jayden888]

You've already hurt him with the texts, and now why do you want everyone's permission here to cheat on him?

Relationships shouldn't be about revenge. The very fact that you want to hurt him means you aren't worthy of him. Go find someone else. I sincerely hope he find better. And I sincerely hope you find yourself.

[coffeewithcream]

There's toxic and then there is super toxic and then, apparently, there is you.
In just a few words you're able to give females a bad name, all on your own.
A friend should pull this guy aside and tell him to drop you like a white-hot ember. You'll do him no good or, it seems, anyone else you breathe on.
I think he's given you a message. Hopefully, his silence says, "It's over and you're not worth a discussion. Good luck."

[boggboss]

At This point you have to be trolling because there is no way you are genuinely this retarded

[Asker]

It’s a serious question!

[boggboss]

It can't be serious normal people can't be as retarded as what u are asking

[Asker]

Whatever!

[boggboss]

Lol yet you will cry that u can't find s long term partner you need a good long look in the mirror as you are the one that causes drama in your life

[Asker]

I never said I can’t find a long term partner thanks

[boggboss]

If this is how u act with this guy you don't need to say if u can or can't it's evadent that u can't because you are not ready to be in a relationship

[Asker]

I am

[boggboss]

Yet you are acting like a immature child everything you said you did screams give me attention or I'll will make drama like a child how are u ready for a relationship when u act like this

[Asker]

I really do need attention though. It’s a human need.

[boggboss]

Yes but if u have no control over your impulses you will go it of your way to destroy any and every relationship u will be in yes wanting attetion is normal but when u don't get it and u respond like a toddler throwing a tantrum that's is what's bad relationships work and last on communication not on playing games

[Asker]

Yes but I need what I need and if my needs are not being met then I’ll get them met somewhere else? It’s logic really

[boggboss]

Lol and again you are showing your selfish nature if your needs are not getting met you who is adress that before acting immature what your saying is that he is in the right with cheating on you because u are ignoring him and verbly abusive to him

[Asker]

I didn’t understand that last part. He never cheated on me. I will though

[boggboss]

By your logic he is justified in cheating on you

[Asker]

He didn’t cheat on me you dumbass lol read the question! I THREATENED to cheat on him.

[boggboss]

Please read what I am writing by your logic he is justified to cheat on you what about that sentence do u not understand

[Asker]

Whatever!!

[boggboss]

Lol if you where simply going to act like a impulsive child why even respond

[Barbaric]

You just need to leave him, it's as simple as that. If you're thinking of cheating and you're so unhappy with him the relationship is done anyway. What's the point? He's probably thinking about leaving himself anyway.

[Laozi]

Are you an idiot or mentally retarded? If you don't want to be in a relationship then just leave. You don't have to be an asshole. Just breakup and fuck off. Is that too hard for you people? Smh.

[VIVANT]

😅👌🤎🤎

[slatyb]

No, you shouldn't cheat. You can end the relationship or agree to have an open relationship. It sounds to me like this one is over. I have zero patience for people who play games like that. Be an adult and get it resolved or be done with it.

[worldscolide]

Are you really that stupid.. Just break up with him. Cheating is wrong, and honestly makes you less than human, it makes you garbage. No wonder groups like MGTOW exist.. women like you give men everywhere a bad name.. Grow up child.

[Unit1]

This is even more toxic than radioactive waste!

I hope he finds his balls to cut you off from his life altogether and blocks you everywhere.

[jayden888]

Far too many damaged people out there in "relationships", aren't there?

[Unit1]

@jayden888 And then people wonder why so many stay single seemingly indefinitely.

People like her are the reason why.

[jayden888]

But there is even a reason she turned this way. Is it pampering? Abuse? Bad experiences with men? What's the resolution? Now that would make a good discussion.

[Unit1]

@jayden888 Of course we won't know the full story (besides her miraculously admitting, that it's her fault) but considering that and given the lack of prior details it can be almost safely assumed, that everything went OK but her inner demon surfaced now. Better now than when the ring is on already and the papers of marriage were signed. Oh boy, divorce is financial and emotional rape.

[jayden888]

Yes, better now than later.

[Dchrls78104]

Well done. After he ceases to speak to you because your abuse of him has hurt his sensitive nature, go ahead and cheat; and prove that you're no better than a toxic vat of nuclear waste.

[ZELLxoxo]

'it. It’s all my fault because...'

Your fault. Apologize to him

[V12NI]

From this I can say that you are useless, not him. Now you want revenge because he didn't text you for 5 days after you insulted him on purpose? How dumb are you? He deserves better than you.

[Asker]

Fuck you!

[igoforoldergirls]

Thats super lame and you're just taking advantage of his personality

[Meatunnel69]

[Dummy23]

What's the point of cheating. Just leave him please

[JosyJosy]

if you cheat, you'll make yourself a useless girlfriend. Just break up and then go fuck around

[malik_yashvardhan]

Wow good piece of advice.

[Asker]

@malik_yashvardhan it really is

[malik_yashvardhan]

Don't cheat just break up. And the thing of fucking around, How you will find a guy to fuck?

[JosyJosy]

@malik_yashvardhan haha idd with the virus going around, this could be a bit troublesome

[Asker]

I’d postpone it but I’ll start planning it

[JosyJosy]

Remember that you don't have to wait for the breakup. That you can already do

[JosyJosy]

@malik_yashvardhan No. Fuck snapchat

[bente2]

Uh, no? Wtf girl, that’s hella toxic. Get your shit together and act your age. Just break it off.

[Danahghani]

You both should either grow up and communicate and try to fix it or just break up already!

[cereal_muncher]

Do him a huge favor and apologize and let him know that he can go get himself a new girl light years better than him. Break up and then go sleep around, you don't deserve your "useless boyfriend."

[slicwhenwet]

The moment you decided to tell him you wanted another man to sleep with is cheating. Really you should just text him it's over and it's no longer cheating. Sounds like you two just don't belong together but we also only have this piece.

[chriscdi]

this relationship is so childish y'all make a toddler look more responsible and mature, just break up with him and fuck who you want 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Anonymous]

You're toxic af. Leave him so he can find a decent person to be with.

[wouterv]

Dont cheat on him take back the insults because u probs didn't mean them and break up with him 2 are not gonna work

[mirou21]

You should try a very easy think, broke up.
Don't give him the opportunity to degrade you and call you cheater.

[Asker]

Let him

[mirou21]

Exactly what I said

[Asker]

Let him call me a cheater

[mirou21]

Look, cheating is a very bad thing to do, and it's a stupid think too, do something mature, something that make him want you even more and cry that he didn't take care of you, speak to him, and say you're done with his immature behavior, and you want to try something new and better, and just leave him.

[Anonymous]

Any good girl will catch that guy , you seems retarded. Good luck being single and unmarried till 40 ...

[Asker]

Be more original with your shitty response

[ItsTheNephilim]

Lol give him a better life. Break up ASAP.

[JustJen]

Break up with him first. Be the better person.

[RLovesD7792forever]

You're a piece of shit

[Gedaria]

If he is useless why is he your boyfriend...

[askawayski]

Stop being a bitch and break up with him for him.

[Anonymous]

The fuck? Just break up with him.

[reptocarl2]

Nope

[outside_Toronto]

Just break up ffs.

[CuriousMufuxka]

Oh dear.

[Anonymous]

Break up instead