True or false: If your partner cheats and you choose to leave, then you didn’t fight hard enough for your relationship? (Page 2)

[AllAmericanGirl99]

You can't fight for something that's already lost, cheaters will always cheat again, abusers will abuse again.

[FrenchyRomain]

my partner cheats on me? how is that my fault? it means i didn't do things she wanted me to do, as such she didn't tell me those things OR she's just a terrible person for cheating on me.
I'm not staying with a person like that, i fight when i have a desire to fix things.

[Bman4907]

If your partner cheats, it's not your fault, it's the person who cheats. Somebody gets robbed, you blame the robber, not the person who was robbed. If you feel the need to cheat, break up with your partner and move on.

[I-am-a-nobody]

I said false. I do think it IS possible to reconcile after unfaithfulness, but that is the (very rare) exception and not the rule.

[KingdomForAKiss]

False. But I think people cheat when problems come up and their relationship and the couple (or one part of the couple) seeks outward attention.

[MasRus]

depends on the person ya dating. if it's someone you weighed the ups and downs and realized they weren't worth fighting for and this was the wake-up call you needed.

[meesegoMoo]

Is any cheater really worth it? If they cheat that means they clearly don't value you.

[MasRus]

@meesegoMoo not true people make mistakes if it's a 1 off and they a good man and have been good to me they allowed a mistake. i feel people who don't think people can't have a moment of weakness is fooling theirselves.

it might not be cheating but nobody can say they never had a moment of weakness they ashamed of.

twice maybe worth fighting for but very slim chance but they're no coming back from 3.

[meesegoMoo]

You can avoid some mistakes. I've never killed a man after promising to spare him. I understand it's a moment of passion, but it should still count. Make your shame as small as you can.

[blkzmb777]

The second you chose to cheat is the second you stopped fighting hard. Its some of you dont wanna cheat dont put yourself in situations where cheating is possibility. The second you cheat the dynamics shift and hardly ever get better..

[jgracem]

No No No. A Cheater is a cheater and that is it. This isn't an up or a down situation it is an end.

[TacosRAwesome]

Or you fought enough and can't bother fighting anymore since it is a complete waste of energy.

[Crankor]

Saying fighting for a relationship to me just makes ot sound like your putting on an act. More appropriate to say putting effort into it

[tasos68]

Fight for what? If the bitch cheats on me what am I supposed to do get on my knees and kiss her ass? That's why I don't do relationships I only have sexbuddies

[Thatsamazing]

Somewhat true. And lol at all the girls voting no. How sad

[moonpie89]

False. There was nothing to fight for. The relationship was over when he decided to cheat.

[andy530]

That depends on how hard you fought for the relationship prior to leaving

[xichuwangwai]

It's not a relationship worth fighting for.

[serious]

It is absolutely false.

[Agape93]

False

[douride2]

Totally false.