Would you want to be told, if your partner ever cheated on you? (Page 2)

[maddog998]

Yes, I know I probably wouldn't be able to handle the truth and tell them not to tell me but in the long run, I'll be finding out one way or the other.. so would you rather tell me or for me to fuck you over in the long run

[I_make_me_anxious]

Yeah I’d wanna know so I could dump his ass and replace him with a guy who actually gives a shit about me. I refuse to avoid the truth, if you cheated I’d rather know and move onto someone better than pretend nothing ever happened

[virtue2332]

look I've been cheated on and have been the one thats cheated. At 43 my only concern is she is safe and not in jeopardy of embarrassing me or our kids. If it was a physical thing Im not going to pay for the hotel room but I could understand and get over it we have been together 20/years. If she had feeling for someone else itvwould bother me and I would wantvto know so we can not drag it out and make it difficult.

[LeoSawka]

To the hell with "handle the truth". He must tell you the whole truth in order to prevent sexual deseases

[Cupcakes101]

Yes, absolutely I would want to know about it. Then, I can decide about what I want to do. In a relationship, it's never ok to hide the truth. Just think if you weren't told and it happens numerous times, or a friend told you. That draws the line so you need to leave him. You would have trust issues and arguments. It's different cheating once than compared to 10 times.

[bonerdoner4u]

Yes I'd like to know cause it turns me on like crazy to see a chick I'm with get off by another guy and watching her cup get filled to the top. Its happend a couple times and they told me durring sex which was such a turn on for me hearing about it as they made me do naughty things to punish them for being bad girls. I'm just a freak like that

[DontFvckingAskMe]

Yes

In germany we say: "Lügen ist auch, wenn man die Wahrheit kennt und sie verschweigt"

Lying is still lying even if you know the truth but remains to stay silence.

[MissDawn7961]

yes I definitely would want to know , for if he did and we had sex then he could give me a sexually transmitted disease of which there is no cure for ! thanks

[Massxtinction1]

Yes I had searched for ways, it seemed like it was said just to piss me off. But then actions and behaviours matched. Always she denied and always I was accussed some how she was able to hack my account yet with out a doubt and sheering evidence she made it I was cheating? Weve been 2 years separated and we're together for four. It would be one of my dying wishes to know her secrets while clamaint to hold my ❤️. I still have not received what would be fair evidence

[spartan55]

100% yes. Had a buddy do that for me the one and only time I was cheated on (that I know of)
I seriously think the guy would take a bullet for any of his friends.

[jgokgotit]

Absolutely. I need to know when I'm not needed anymore so I do not waste their, or more importantly MY, time

[MecheD]

Yes. I’d truly respect them for the action because they wouldn’t have had me mentally exhausted had something suspicious came up.

[Reaperbot666]

since my last relationship ended after. I found out she was cheating on me. nearly the whole time we were together. yes I would want to find out ASAP.

once a cheater always a cheater.

[maluhiakoa]

Of course, to make sure I ended our relationship as soon as possible!

Why would someone want to live in a lie?

Kinda strange to me.

[Browneye57]

You sure ask a lot of questions about cheating? Are having fidelity issues in your relationship (s)?

Unless a person is just completely desperate, they want to know if their beloved is untrue. Wouldn't you?

[lucas262]

Yes, they always find out
Guy is often last to know is a bit true,

I'd be heartbroken if i was married, if its my girlfriend id be sad, and feel lied to but happy i dodged her and move on and learn from it.

[DizzyDesii]

Probably not cause i’ll have nonstop questions. Im better off not knowing. Just makeup another excuse as to why we’re breaking up

[bigmisssunshine]

Yes. I would appreciate it if someone told me that. I prefer to be hurt so I can find someone who actually deserves my time, affection and attention.

[ButtaGrey]

Ignorance is far from bliss and much more
dangerous. Yes, I would want to know, just
as I would want to know if a waiter poisoned
my meal or a sexual partner was HIV positive.

[alexsa]

Of course. I wouldn't like to live in a life full of lies.
That did happen to me. My ex admitted it. And that's why he's an ex rn.