It's just that such a gift is completely inappropriate after a fight
You were gonna him a Naruto themed gift? Highest respect sis!
@AdithyaR yea tbh you know im not a fan of anime and gaming but i loved him so i was gonna buy him all the headbands and keychains and custom jackets, etc... I was also gonna get him a gaming chair and stuff. And he wanted all this stuff too but he didn't wanna feel like he owed me. I told him at first i was fine getting it regardless but then he said jacked up crap along with reminding me all i was getting was $20 so yea, no gifts for him
Girl be thankful he got you ANYTHING. I spent like $150 on 4 German MTG cards that he went on about wanting all the time for him for Valentine's day one year. Along with his favorite candies and some other stuff. You know what he got me? Nothing. Said he "forgot." Dude... You forgot Valentine's day? Tf? You couldn't have picked up a teddy bear or something? Smh.
I'm a little challenged, I'm talking about my ex and should have said that. 🤦🏻
@DizzyDessi that was actually really sweet and thoughtful of you, I'm sorry you had that kind of guy to deal with
@PettyBoop okay that guy is just stupid. That's so careless of him.
@AdithyaR That's what I said too. Didn't try to make it up to me either. He really was cheap af though. The last date we went on he ordered all this food and a whole bunch of drinks. Normally we would pay whatever each of us spent and I was cool with that so I didn't say anything about it. We get the bill and I shit you not he goes, "Damn. I'm not paying that. You get it" and WALKS OUTSIDE. Left me with a $80 bill. $15 of it was mine. I dumped him because fuck that.
@PettyBoop What the hell? Good that you got rid of him. I really appreciate that you wanted to split the bill, very few people show that kind of maturity.
@AdithyaR Yeah, I definitely dodged a bullet. I've always been willing to split the bill. My hubby lost his job while we were dating (not his fault) and for a while I paid for all our dates myself. Put his car in the shop while he was out of work then too because his brakes went out. 🤷🏻 I can take care of myself. I want someone around because I enjoy their company not for what they can do for me.
Yeah I understand that. I'm the same
@PettyBoop i agree i want their company too. Sorry your dude is like that. Yea i basically paid for all the dates and stuff when i was dating el cheapo. Sometimes if u want something nice, you gotta get it yourself
@DizzyDesii Oh he's not my dude anymore. Hasn't been for a long time thankfully. My husband definitely isn't cheap. He works his ass off and I'm honestly more spoiled than I've ever been. 😂
@DizzyDesii you are generous but that doesn't make him cheap maybe he couldn't afford it at that time but I appreciate the guy totally being honest to you he had self respect he told you not to buy for him there are very less people like that he was not a leech many people would have accepted a gift maybe given just flowers to you.The man was honest wouldn't you appreciate that?
@Aakash_Hangargi you didn't date him. He constantly spent hundreds on random video games and cruises. He stood me up when saving for our apartment rent. He’d put like $50 towards it while i was giving hundreds. He was trash at the end of the day
Ik I didn't date him yes if he could spend on games he could have done that lol😂may be he was trash but yet he Didnot expect from you as well he might be all sorts of moron but in gifting sense he wasn't all bad but yes not my place to speak Iknow thanks for reply 🙏😅
So you feel guilty? Well this is definitely more complicated than 1 simple gift.In any case, you have to ask yourself why you are not able to receive the gift. Maybe you do owe your partner something, and this is just a painful reminder. Why have you not been able to make amends?
Because I'm not capable of expressing things to her and my doubts.
Work on that
Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions