Definitely not coming from a household were my dad believes what he says goes just because he's a man has made me have a the strong opinion but bouth parents to be held responsible when it comes to making decisions in the house hold. I've met to many people my age with useless dads (and mums) with self-destructive behaviours and i think it be better if the house hold decision would be made by both parents or the most responsible parent
Yes without a doubt. I'm speaking from experience and what I have seen so far. Women are manipulative, controlling and they posses zero empathy. When they're handed too much power or leadership to something they become psychopaths. I'm certain a few women are going to attack me for this but I don't care. It's just the truth so deal with it!
Having one head of household can be a partial decision for the other partner... The husband and wife should both be the head... Neither one of them should be given permission to take any decisions ont heir own... Any decisions should be discussed first and then must be acted on...
And yes, I think there should be a head. Flat hierarchies don't work particulary well. Not to mention that flat hierarches have some other issues with human sexual dimorphism.
Personally like to see a partnership as a Pilot/Co-Pilot thing. The Co-Pilot is as competent to handle things, but if there is a final decision it is on the Pilot having the fully responsibility.
If I'm married and have kids, I wouldn't want to teach my children (especially daughters) that I am the head of the house because I am a man. A marriage is a partnership. My wife and I have an equal responsibility when it comes to running the house. We are the heads of the household.
We have kids to look after. That's motherhood. A woman is always the head of the house. The man is the head of the family. Woman may have to quit her job to look after her kids but a man won't het pregnant and do that, but he will be a strong pillar , a protective one to support his family.
I don't think there is a head of the household. despite the word. Any functional household I've seen has a functioning & real partnership with each deferring to the other in most decisions - or maybe that's only the way I think it's supposed to be & I'm wrong.
Regardless of what the person's actual gender is, I think that whichever partner is "masculine" partner, tends to be the one in charge. I know plenty of women who take charge in their relationships, but the men they are with tend to be submissive guys
Well the husband and wife should work together, but the husband (unless he’s a deadbeat) gets the final say. It maybe to sexist but let’s be real: a man’s self-esteem is deeply tied into respect. If he lets himself feel emasculated then he will lower confidence and she will lose respect for him. The man has to at least FEEL like he’s in control.
Yes the man always has to be in charge otherwise both the man and the woman will be miserable. I think men should only marry women they can lead rather than women they have to look up to. Most men are doing that I guess since professional women have such a small pool of eligible men.
The man should always the head of the house but there are time where a woman should be if her man ain't a real man and he just couldn't a head but can barely be a tail and that's where a woman takes his place, very similar to our current world where women wants to lead and are always glorified that they are better than men!
In reality they are bettee than males and not men because a real man always leads and the woman is very happy to follow...
That depends entirely on whos wearing the pants in the relationship... these little woke fuckers couldn't qualify for head of their safe space... if we hear glass break in the middle of the night.. Im not sending you down the hall to check it out... and im not gonna hide in the closet hoping the cops save us either... but what exactly is head of the house... im not trying to keep a hostage right... and anything that involves her is her choice right
Well in times of panic or hell breaking loose what do 90% of girls do? Either scream and wave their hands in the air like a mgic wand will save them or they go to the man and say "What do we do". So seems to me in the heat of the moment when instinct is the only thing there the woman herself says the man.
@VIVANT Oh I do actually never counted but at least 5000 and of those 5000 90% followed that pattern. Not 3 billion silly you see in science that's how we do that we get a drug test 100 people then 1000 people then 100,000 people etc etc and if 90% come back with the same result we then know for the 8 billion population that is the estimate we use guess you never did any math or science in school.
I’ve no interest in being head. As long as he respects me and doesn’t control and is loyal me I don’t care about the rest. I was raised by a woman single handedly so that’s pretty dysfunctional anyway.
All depends what the household is naturally comfortably with. In some the guys are, in some the gals are. With the wife and me, I make any major decisions with her input. Day-to-day stuff I give her the options and she decides which one to go with unless she comes up with a better option.
I think it depends on the couple and what works best for them but there should always be a balance of responsibility and respect for each other. I personally like the idea of looking to my husband as a leader.
In what I know of as traditional the man is the one to actually make the decisions for the household but only after discussing it with his wife and coming to agreement with her.
What Girls & Guys Said
Opinion
101Opinion
Definitely not coming from a household were my dad believes what he says goes just because he's a man has made me have a the strong opinion but bouth parents to be held responsible when it comes to making decisions in the house hold. I've met to many people my age with useless dads (and mums) with self-destructive behaviours and i think it be better if the house hold decision would be made by both parents or the most responsible parent
Yes without a doubt. I'm speaking from experience and what I have seen so far. Women are manipulative, controlling and they posses zero empathy. When they're handed too much power or leadership to something they become psychopaths. I'm certain a few women are going to attack me for this but I don't care. It's just the truth so deal with it!
Having one head of household can be a partial decision for the other partner... The husband and wife should both be the head... Neither one of them should be given permission to take any decisions ont heir own... Any decisions should be discussed first and then must be acted on...
Always? No. But in many cases? Yes.
And yes, I think there should be a head. Flat hierarchies don't work particulary well. Not to mention that flat hierarches have some other issues with human sexual dimorphism.
Personally like to see a partnership as a Pilot/Co-Pilot thing. The Co-Pilot is as competent to handle things, but if there is a final decision it is on the Pilot having the fully responsibility.
If I'm married and have kids, I wouldn't want to teach my children (especially daughters) that I am the head of the house because I am a man. A marriage is a partnership. My wife and I have an equal responsibility when it comes to running the house. We are the heads of the household.
In other words your wife will wear the pants.
We're equal in a relationship. Its a partnership...
"Equal partnership" almost always = she wears the pants.
No sir. That is not always the case. She'll be better suited in some matters and I'll be better suited in some. We both are in this together...
We have kids to look after. That's motherhood. A woman is always the head of the house. The man is the head of the family. Woman may have to quit her job to look after her kids but a man won't het pregnant and do that, but he will be a strong pillar , a protective one to support his family.
I don't think there is a head of the household. despite the word. Any functional household I've seen has a functioning & real partnership with each deferring to the other in most decisions - or maybe that's only the way I think it's supposed to be & I'm wrong.
I wanted to see what the girls had to say about this. They all disagree. All want a equal partner. I am not surprised.
You didn't ask my answer
@ThisIsMyOpinion you just sad to your core or something? U ok?
Yes I am why?
Becaues of the Women's replys about wanting a. Equal partner.
I am not surprised that many want that.
Regardless of what the person's actual gender is, I think that whichever partner is "masculine" partner, tends to be the one in charge. I know plenty of women who take charge in their relationships, but the men they are with tend to be submissive guys
Well the husband and wife should work together, but the husband (unless he’s a deadbeat) gets the final say. It maybe to sexist but let’s be real: a man’s self-esteem is deeply tied into respect. If he lets himself feel emasculated then he will lower confidence and she will lose respect for him. The man has to at least FEEL like he’s in control.
Yes the man always has to be in charge otherwise both the man and the woman will be miserable. I think men should only marry women they can lead rather than women they have to look up to. Most men are doing that I guess since professional women have such a small pool of eligible men.
The man should always the head of the house but there are time where a woman should be if her man ain't a real man and he just couldn't a head but can barely be a tail and that's where a woman takes his place, very similar to our current world where women wants to lead and are always glorified that they are better than men!
In reality they are bettee than males and not men because a real man always leads and the woman is very happy to follow...
No.
The moment a marriage has a "ruler" is the moment the marriage will die in bits and pieces.
That depends entirely on whos wearing the pants in the relationship... these little woke fuckers couldn't qualify for head of their safe space... if we hear glass break in the middle of the night.. Im not sending you down the hall to check it out... and im not gonna hide in the closet hoping the cops save us either... but what exactly is head of the house... im not trying to keep a hostage right... and anything that involves her is her choice right
I don't think it depends
Well by depends I was thinking of those poor girls of the world stuck with woke guys
Well in times of panic or hell breaking loose what do 90% of girls do? Either scream and wave their hands in the air like a mgic wand will save them or they go to the man and say "What do we do". So seems to me in the heat of the moment when instinct is the only thing there the woman herself says the man.
Wow you must know a lot of women. 90% that’s like 3 billion 😳😳😳
@VIVANT Oh I do actually never counted but at least 5000 and of those 5000 90% followed that pattern. Not 3 billion silly you see in science that's how we do that we get a drug test 100 people then 1000 people then 100,000 people etc etc and if 90% come back with the same result we then know for the 8 billion population that is the estimate we use guess you never did any math or science in school.
I’ve no interest in being head. As long as he respects me and doesn’t control and is loyal me I don’t care about the rest. I was raised by a woman single handedly so that’s pretty dysfunctional anyway.
Whoever is the smartest in the realtionship is head of house
Nice answer
All depends what the household is naturally comfortably with. In some the guys are, in some the gals are. With the wife and me, I make any major decisions with her input. Day-to-day stuff I give her the options and she decides which one to go with unless she comes up with a better option.
I think it depends on the couple and what works best for them but there should always be a balance of responsibility and respect for each other. I personally like the idea of looking to my husband as a leader.
In what I know of as traditional the man is the one to actually make the decisions for the household but only after discussing it with his wife and coming to agreement with her.