What are some red flags you saw in a relationship but chose to ignore? (Page 2)

[Anonymous]

I dated a girl knowing she was a feminist, but she seemed pretty normal so I didn't let it bother me initially. Over time she began to show her true colors and her sexism and toxic mindset became increasingly obvious. I should have known better, but I will never make the mistake of dating a feminist again.

[LLYN-95]

all feminists aren't the same. I'm a feminist but I don't bash men like these radical ones do. Please stop lumping us all together.

[Opinion Owner]

@LLYN-95 Bullshit. Sorry but if you support modern feminism you are supporting the platform that is used to hate on men and divide the sexes. Feminism is not about equality. If you want to support equality, you should not be supporting feminism.

[Alyssa11]

A girl!!! Whenever there's a girl involved!!!

IDC if he says that's his sister, his cousin, his friend NAH he's FUCKING HER.

(sorry I think you can see this topic frustrates me lol)

[HowAwkwardToBeAlive]

Lies. I ignored it because he had borderline personality disorder and it makes you lie constantly out of fear. But. Surprise surprise, he cheated.

[Elsa143]

Yes I wanna kill my ugly ex. But I was damn sure that he was ugly that's why he was not able to cheat. Liar will always cheat no matter even if they have any disorder. I hate lies. That bastard still tries to force me to keep giving him endless chances.

[HowAwkwardToBeAlive]

@Elsa143 lol, 😂😂😂 I’m sorry but I’m laughing at the “ugly” part. Liars ain’t shit

[BCA6010]

For a time, it was always me initiating any kind of communication, dates, or interaction of any kind.

[Tonita91996]

Only wanting to spend time or talk to me when it is convenient for them and didn't care if I needed them or not.

[SphynxUK]

Subtleties in actions and comments regarding mental health that I chose to ignore or play down, because I only saw him some of the time.

[Dali-chan]

How ALL his exes were crazy psycho bitches, turned out that he was the psycho bitch

[gypsy_rose]

All the things his ex-wife complained about. - Ended up being true.

[TacosRAwesome]

In one relationship everyone thought he was gay including me but I hadn't had a relationship in ages so I said fuck it and wasted my best years on him.

[Hazelstar99]

Gaslighting, manipulation, on and off relationship.

[Luna1998]

Lies, sometime we knoew it, but we choose to ignore them fkr the better

[triff]

My case was not to ask if they were cheating although my head knew but my heart denyed

[wonderingaboutboys]

Do you think they would have told you the truth if you had asked?

[triff]

Probably not I've always met the cheaters unfortunately

[Anonymous]

He lied about his age and having a child. Two biggest red flags in the beginning. He was very manipulative. He also did not have me on any social media. At a time he did not even have my number saved. The first time he slightly put his hands on me.
Let’s just say now, I fucking hate that piece of shit. He broke me down, I am trying to rebuild myself now.

[bulletbob555]

The ones you notice at first and ignore are usually the ones that destroy the relationship in the end

[abc3643]

My wife's emotional volatility and her dysfunctional family circus.

[TheFlak38]

let's start with the biggest red flag in the world: does she have a vagina? if the answer is yes then I know that I'm standing with one foot in the mud

[NEONSNEK]

I think I was being gaslighted and I guess I trusted them so much I ignored it.

[itzmera]

lying excessively. and being inconsistent. also secrecy

[scooterman]

The age difference, that took a while to get over though, diffent choices, like alcohol and pot

[Silver158]

Constant mind games, playing hot and cold, lots of lying, distant etc etc