Why do guys lie about having girlfriends and do you think he’d leave her for me if I was closer to him? (Page 3)

candyflosssweets · 2020-10-27T09:05:00Z

This guy lied to me the whole year we were talking about being single. I’ve asked him twice about his relationship status he always confessed he had no girlfriend and was single. So we continued speaking. I stated to develop strong feelings for him. We met up twice he took me on a date and couldn’t stop touching me and kissing my hands and touching my hair and keep his eyes off me. He said I smelled nice and I was glowing. He also kept on checking me out all the time. It’s like he was staring right in my soul. We had sex and he always got distant after sex. Even though the sex was good. We sexted a lot and he use to say stuff how I make him bad and how he’s not like that with anyone else and how he wishes i lived closer so we can meet up more. He said he doesn’t want a ldr with me as ldr never works and he’s prefer seeing me everyday. Also he kept on asking me to hurry up and visit him in he’s town as he couldn’t wait to see me. I did go see him again and it was a disaster. Yeah we spent time and stuff but he fucked me over!! At the end it ended up with us unfollowing each other. Thing is I stayed for two days in his home town and he didn’t turn up the next day to see me as we planned he texted he was coming and then I never heard anything back. So then I found out he had a girlfriend all this time. She is someone I didn’t think he’d go for. I’m not being big headed but I thought I was more his type as he goes for dark tanned girls with dark hair. Why would he lie to me all this time he convinced me he’s always honest with me since we started talking. I’m so gutted and devastated he did this. Do you guys think he even likes his own girlfriend to be doing this to her?

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jakey70 Follow
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He's a cheater and a user. You deserve and can do much better.

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CubaPirate Follow
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Because unfortunately some of us are plain and simply assholes, but I'm glad I'm not one of them

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TheLeeyo Follow
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A lotta men can even sell their souls just for women lol
It's a matter of mindsets

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Sometimes you need a side piece to bust a nut up into.

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knight2468 Follow
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Maybe he still love her but want to play around that’s all

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- candyflosssweets
  
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  Nah if u love someone you wouldn’t think twice about cheating. He did it for the whole one year and he knew what he was doing.
  
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- knight2468
  
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  Guys don’t think like girls so your thoughts don’t apply on them
  
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- candyflosssweets
  
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  No it’s just common sense. You don’t love people u cheat on. End of!!! He kept on begging me to come see him even when he had a girlfriend. Why would anyone do that
  
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- knight2468
  
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  Why u give me dislike Am I rude to u?
  
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- candyflosssweets
  
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  You’re not rude I just disagree
  
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- knight2468
  
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  Sorry your disagreement doesn’t change the live facts
  
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- candyflosssweets
  
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  What facts? U love people u cheat on? Don’t even reply back cause you’re just stupid
  
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- knight2468
  
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  Ok don’t invite me to answer your questions because u don’t need a stupid one answer it
  
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This is why I have trust issues😶

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Snowman666 Follow
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He isn't worth the time of day.

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To use you for sex and unlikely.

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B2281 Follow
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I don't know why some guys do that.

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What a douche

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- candyflosssweets
  
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  I know ☹️ just sad what he’s done. He obviously panicked and played it safe 🙄
  
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- anon1903
  
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  I'd def punch him before breaking up
  
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joshtheman Follow
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Because they are players.

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kinna56 Follow
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Maybe he's the worst kinda guy. Leave him

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Bidensucks2020 Follow
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Another playa

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Anonymous
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he is a cheater. I lie as my success is 0

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Iamcoming Follow
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I never tell lie

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askaway99 Follow
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He prob wouldn't x

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- candyflosssweets
  
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  I saying why would he lie about having a girlfriend
  
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- askaway99
  
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  Maybe he justs likes the fun of the chase or got no intetion od leaving her
  
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- askaway99
  
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  Either way sorry he did that x
  
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alwaysdreaming16 Follow
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not sure

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