*It's a retarded bsimps role
I did not like living in the U. S. because women were rude to me just because I am a masculine male. Apparently being protective is something called 'toxic masculinity' and me just trying to be helpful is sexist. I felt like people there hated me just because I was a guy. I honestly feel bad for guys with masculine and dominant personality traits because they seem to be demonized in that country.
I would really love to hear the other side of the story.
@navyrobin What do you mean?
OP, you are quite correct. Women have such easy lives in the U. S. they believe they do not need protection of any kind, which makes them pretty ballsy in their contempt for masculine men. The worst is how modern women treat boys in the U. S. Boys are shamed and ridiculed for simply being born male here in the U. S.
I think you're mistaken. I am a western woman, Asian American born and raised in US. I LOVE LOVE LOVE masculine protective men. Just because we western women are educated, successful, independent and can support ourselves well. It in no way means that we don't like men to protect us. Women will ALWAYS be women. We have a natural instinctive need to feel protected. Just the same way why you feel the need to protect women. It is purely biological. Same reason why women always prefer strong men rather than frail weak men.
@Smoke-n-Growlseven after I had a dialogue with the would-be attacker.Is the would be attacker a woman?
Nope, a dude. But we were in a somewhat populated downtown area, near a coffee shop. He was looking for an easy opportunity, and if my ex had been alone he'd have had one.Awareness and a sure step can solve a lot of problems. It wasn't my first time in that sort of scenario. Also, and I doubt this has any relevance to the politeness of possible assaulters, this happened in Canada. I doubt our criminals are "nicer", but maybe they are.
@Smoke-n-GrowlsI'm an American and I can tell you we do not have that "nice" attitude toward those that want to attack us. If someone wants to hurt me I'm going to confront them and I'm going to be very far from "nice" about it. That I can assure you.
How TF do you imagine a woman protecting a man? Women have absolute contempt for weak men. Hell, modern women will not even protect their OWN SONS. Modern women serve their sons up as cannon fodder. You idea that women somehow protect men is beyond laughable.
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Well sure. But what if they chase you lol. Or if a girl is getting raped and guy won't let her run. Or guy is abusive and manipulates her into living with him.
@Madmegalomaniac well what if the guy who's "supposed" to protect me gets his ass beat? How is that going to help me? There's no guarantee that a guy protecting me by fighting would actually work out, hence why I'd rather just run. Also, I'm just speaking about my own experiences, I've never been raped. If I was getting raped, I still don't think I'd wish for a *guy* to specifically be there to help, I'd be happy to have anyone help me. So of course we can sit here and think of hypothetical scenarios all day, but my point is that I've never actually felt the need to have a guy protect me. I've been able to solve pretty much all dangerous/potentially dangerous scenarios by removing myself from the situation/running away etc.
@lumos which country
Ok. Follow me
It's generally about maximizing your chances though. And then there's the fact that guys are more tolerant to physical pain due to the fact that they are physically stronger, generally speaking.
@Madmegalomaniac like I said, we can talk about hypothetical scenarios all day, but to this day I haven't faced a single situation where running wasn't the first and best option.
I think the world isn't as bad as it ised to be though tbh. That, and the fact that I'm living in Canada. So talking about this while living in relatively peaceful nations is probably pointless anyways.
Wow. That’s so sad. But I can see it happen.
Anyways, I still think you protected HER integrity during that time.
By, not why lmao
@Mystic_Nova"That's how you get hurt, is why underestimating your opponent."Graveyards are filled with men who foolishly underestimated women.
From a general standpoint, men are physically stronger and have higher capabilities in combative situations. That’s biology, not an outdated concept lol
And guess what, it foesnt take much to poke out an eye, kick in the nuts and so forth. Timing, and skills can make a big difference. And a lot of men dont have combat abilities. Strength is not everything
Sure, but men clearly have a strong physical advantage in a combative situation over women.
Not all the time. And once agian. A woman can still kick the guys butt.
@Mystic_Nova"Not all the time. And once agian. A woman can still kick the guys butt."Only if she is going to employ an unprovoked sneak attack or she uses deception to hurt the man or possibly kill him. In a straight-up attack where the man is prepared to go to war, the female doesn't stand a chance.
That culture is changing. Yes, we still see superheroes saving women. But there are less and less... Modern society is fighting the idea of saving women just because of being women.Though you may seem somebody save their partner.
@AmazingGuy008 That is something I am not sure why it has been made a problem because to see stories like that is missing the point. It's not like there were female superheroes, wonder woman has been around as long as superman as far as I am aware. Depending on the perspective you could see the man saving woman situation as the man sacrificing everything for the benefit of a woman because he values her more than his own life. To be fair, I do like the stories where the villain threatened the planet because it feels more threatening than putting a single person in danger so I think that was why the world accepted that kind of change.
Yep! I agree.
I don’t think you understand how weak women are physically compared to men. My girlfriend when I was a teenager took my offer to punch me as hard as she could in my stomach. She only managed to hurt her hand. She then clearly realized that women couldn’t hurt men. Life isn’t a superhero movie with Black Widow. Be careful.
@Jersey2 That's not true!!! Women can be just as strong as men. Example: The winner for most trees chopped down 2019 IS A WOMEN!!!
I know women can be strong. I have seen girls beat up guys both in a fight and in the weight room. Still, on average, we are stronger.
@Jersey2 She is probably just playing around with you. Ever spar with your male friends? If so ever notice they are relaxed and comfortable sparring even getting a few laughs in the conversation? Would they act the same way in a real fight with a real enemy? Also, there are cultural differences between Africa and North America.
@ThisIsMyOpinion I know that most of the time men can be stronger but I just feel there is no right to label ALL women and girls as weaker.
I agree. Also if a girl is strong that doesn't make her any less feminine. Don't listen to anyone who says otherwise.
@joeblow123 Oh i would defiantly fight. (Pinned my brother to the ground in 10 seconds flat) I know little karate but still I am very rough with opponents. And I DON'T play.
"And I DON'T play."Neither do I. Graveyards are filled with men who underestimated women. I don't plan on joining their ranks.
I think I know who you are.
@ThisIsMyOpinion um DOUBTFUL! 3 words: NOT MY REAL AGE! oof thats 4!
Wasn't going to say it even if I did. Not here for that.
ActuallyA man isn't obliged to protect anyone
@TheLeeyo I think a man should protect his family and his country. I think a man has no obligation to protect random women or others.
IF he has a family and if his country valzex him as a man
*values him as a man...
@TheLeeyo Yes, I quite agree. A man should protect those who are worthy of his protection.
ExactlyInfact it's not even his duty to protect anyone
NopeIt's SocietalNOT NaturalEven if it's a NaTuRaL iNsTinCtYou can control and redirect thatProtect yourself
If someone doesn't like it its you for sure.
The hell is that supposed to mean?😠
You talked to me a while back and said that you liked submissive guys. Someone who likes submissive guys wouldn't like the kind of guy who like to be a protector. A "savior complex" like you put it.
My recent questions portray me to be a trainwreck so I got a little off there
I went to see your last questions. It surely seems like you had better days.
Only WITH ME
Then that's on you to let someone fight for you if you don't want to fight with them.
Only with you, eh?
@whatdoyouwantt. You probably have a shitty entitled attitude.