Should I ghost her or continue to chase her?

[vesrergaard]

I've known this girl for over 2 years now. We started getting close in January. She's been to my place a couple of times but she recently told me she has a boyfriend. I felt frustrated and didn't know what to to. I love her but I want to make the right choice. Please help. Here's a text she sent

" I know that you are a good guy, a dream of every woman l know you are hurt, so many time you have proven your love for me it hurts me also to hurt someone who has always been there for me,, l currently also need sometime to think straight what l really need what in life, am not also in an easy situation "

[OlderAndWiser]

1. "I've known this girl for over 2 years now." You should have moved on a long time ago.

2. "I felt frustrated and didn't know what to to." You can sit around waiting for something that will probably never happen or you can move forward with your life. Your choice!

3. "I love her but I want to make the right choice." How can you be in love with someone you have never dated? Perhaps you are in love with the idea of being in love with her.

4. If you have any feelings other than anger, why would you consider ghosting her? That is an extremely cruel thing to do.

[Tara016]

I think you should tell her that it's better you stop talking at all and just move on from her. Just make sure you tell her what you think first.
Ghosting never fixes anything, it's like running cowardly from problems.
Waiting for her while she is taken is just a waste of your time.
Live your life and see someone else, don't let her treat you like plan B.

[vesrergaard]

Interesting

[SandandWaves]

she needs time

[vesrergaard]

My time may get wasted