@AdorableLilo who knows. But the way I look at it is if you have 2 people, 1 has X number of people they could potentially cheat with and the other has a larger number, let's call it X¹ of people they can cheat with. I would estimate based on the numbers X and X¹ that the person with X¹ would be more likely to cheat given they have more opportunity. Of course there could be other factors which could flip the probability. However, those would be the exceptions which confirm the rule.
A bigger tell as to how faithful they will be is how vocal they are about being bisexual. People I've known, who constantly run their mouths about being bi, have tended to be less faithful.
Why would they? it‘s a normal thing to be attracted to other people even when you‘re in a relationship, but a trustworthy partner won‘t act on this attraction. so it has nothing to do with sexuality in my opinion
Let's put it this way. Ex: Leah is bisexual, her husband, Craig, is heterosexual. Although Leah is faithful, despite having the oportunity to have a wider range of sexual partners, she decided to stay with Craig. Unfortunately, Craig doesn't seem to care about been faithful. He have being cheating on Leah for years.
Now tell me, what possible relation there is between faithfulness and sexual orientation?
Good point. Leah might be faithful while Craig is a scumbag.
But cheating requires opportunities. It requires a 3rd person to be involved.
Craig is going to have far fewer opportunities to cheat than Leah. First he’s a man and men generally don’t get approached for sex as often as women do. Two Leah has both attractive men and attractive women who can tempt her. If she was hetero and just going on girls night out he probably could care less. But since swings the other way there is now that added complication.
I once dated a bi curious girl. I told her I actually wouldn’t mind if she fooled around with another girl just as long:
1) she asked for my permission ahead of time
2) she was absolutely sure the other girl didn’t have any STDs
3) there was absolutely no risk of her falling in love with this other girl. Given she was mostly hetero that didn’t worry me.
This is one of the very few places I differ from other guys. I totally get how they see cheating is cheating. Totally. But for me the thought of my partner messing around with another women just doesn’t make me jealous. The other women might be able to satisfy her in a way I can’t.
However if it’s another guy that’s a completely different story. Game over if the bullshit happens.
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Probably because they have a larger pool of potential people to cheat with.
But that doesn't mean they'll actually do it. They most likely turn down the twice amount of temptations
@AdorableLilo who knows. But the way I look at it is if you have 2 people, 1 has X number of people they could potentially cheat with and the other has a larger number, let's call it X¹ of people they can cheat with. I would estimate based on the numbers X and X¹ that the person with X¹ would be more likely to cheat given they have more opportunity. Of course there could be other factors which could flip the probability. However, those would be the exceptions which confirm the rule.
In my case, no. I dont have any interest in another girl if my wife doesn't.
Mathematically yes since they have greater opportunities
Probably not. Intuitively you might think so, but in reality, I have not found it to be true.
No, because sexuality and faithfulness have NOTHING to do with the other
A bigger tell as to how faithful they will be is how vocal they are about being bisexual. People I've known, who constantly run their mouths about being bi, have tended to be less faithful.
Double danger
But capable of not acting upon the double danger
I'd be insecure all the time though
Why would they? it‘s a normal thing to be attracted to other people even when you‘re in a relationship, but a trustworthy partner won‘t act on this attraction. so it has nothing to do with sexuality in my opinion
Only have anecdotal hearsay. Some have anxiety disorders causing high sex drive.
Yes... been there done that... an ex-gf cheated on me with a woman.
Because my girlfriend of 4 years claims to be bisexual but she didn't cheat
I have had a wife and GFS who are. It can go with the territory. For mi it was always with another woman.
They are actually more loyal. Just because they like 2 different sexual orientations. Don't mean they are going to cheat.
Someone who will cheat on you, will cheat on you, regardless of.
Let's put it this way. Ex: Leah is bisexual, her husband, Craig, is heterosexual. Although Leah is faithful, despite having the oportunity to have a wider range of sexual partners, she decided to stay with Craig. Unfortunately, Craig doesn't seem to care about been faithful. He have being cheating on Leah for years.
Now tell me, what possible relation there is between faithfulness and sexual orientation?
Good point. Leah might be faithful while Craig is a scumbag.
But cheating requires opportunities. It requires a 3rd person to be involved.
Craig is going to have far fewer opportunities to cheat than Leah. First he’s a man and men generally don’t get approached for sex as often as women do. Two Leah has both attractive men and attractive women who can tempt her. If she was hetero and just going on girls night out he probably could care less. But since swings the other way there is now that added complication.
I once dated a bi curious girl. I told her I actually wouldn’t mind if she fooled around with another girl just as long:
1) she asked for my permission ahead of time
2) she was absolutely sure the other girl didn’t have any STDs
3) there was absolutely no risk of her falling in love with this other girl. Given she was mostly hetero that didn’t worry me.
This is one of the very few places I differ from other guys. I totally get how they see cheating is cheating. Totally. But for me the thought of my partner messing around with another women just doesn’t make me jealous. The other women might be able to satisfy her in a way I can’t.
However if it’s another guy that’s a completely different story. Game over if the bullshit happens.
@guesswhoseback Cheating is a decision and a decision can not be blamed on sexuality, circumstance, time, people or individual.
Yes I agree that there are loyal bi people and cheating hetero people. But bi people just have many more options. More temptations.
no i doubt that's true. cheating is a character flaw nothing to do with your choices
No most are for the person their into. If person cheater they more likely to cheat.
Well, they have more options.
But if one is not a cheater, that person won't cheat
The few bi girls I know will stay with me for a while and then see a girl.
But they always come back.
I mean.. it's not wrong to think that. There is statistical basis for this claim :D
I wouldn’t date someone bisexual. The only ones around here are gross.