And your story is a very fine example why it is a big mistake to move in with someone else while still studying.
This guy seems rather immature and childish and his reaction is obviously a red flag and a toxic behavior.
I would never tolerate that a guy (or a girls) behaves with such immaturity and if it was just me, he would have found himself on the street within 10 minutes of screaming at me.
He seems to lack the most basic education and I really wonder if he has ever grown out of childhood. You can expect such a reaction for a pre-teen but certainly not from an adult.
Your best option is to have a serious talk with him and make a printout of the exact chores each one has to do and when these chores have to be done. I can understand that a little flexibility is needed at times but such a behavior is absolutely not tolerable.
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I didn’t even read the whole thing but wtf, you aren’t his mother. He’s a whole ass adult just like you. What you have us a controlling bum boyfriend. What do you see in him?
You need to actually have this conversation about this with him - but based on how he's been acting, I don't hold out a lot of hope. He sounds like a jerk.
I get that it's awful to have to go to work in wet clothes - I'd be upset about that too - but I would handle it very differently. I also get that you're both under a ton of stress with financial pressures and other stuff, but, still, how he's handling it is NOT the right answer.
Wow I'd dump his ass. What a fucking baby. He's an adult, why does he expect you to make his food and do his laundry? Just... wow. Let him know you're his girlfriend, not his mother, and he needs to be responsible for himself. But honestly he just sounds like he sucks. Ripped up your note? What an asshole
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You aren't married and you aren't his mommy. Tell that mf to grow up and do his own laundry. Lowkey you're to blame for babying him.
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You have made yourself his servant in some regards so he expects stuff to get done is it right ofc not but thats somthing u have to talk to him about
He needs to stop treating you like you’re a piece of nothing. This is the crap that moms do for their little kids smh. If he can’t be thankful for what you do for him then you should just stop doing any of that and you should find someone that would be thankful. Mad cause you didn’t dry his clothes? He can buy a dryer. Mad cause you didn’t make him lunch? He has 2 jobs and he gets payed so he can buy his own lunch
Because you are him mom now. Blows my mind how women like these types of men... That isn't a real man, it's a huge baby in a man's body. How the F would he survive on his own? I wish a-holes would not get any women.
He wants himself to be dominant in aspects of relationship you both have. That's not a good behaviour. He should learn how to do laundry.
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Why are you still with him?
What a douche bag. I think your dating a mama's boy.
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he's lazy and now expects you to always do it
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