My boyfriend gets angry in the morning when I forgot to dry his work clothes the night before. Why doesn’t he do it himself?

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I do most of the laundry because I’m more particular about it (hanging certain things up, separating loads, etc). The company my boyfriend works for only gave him 3 pairs. I’m working full time to pay half the rent and am a full time college student. He works 12 hrs every day with 2 jobs. Before the semester started, I would make his lunch, wash his work clothes, do dishes, clean our apartment, and make dinner each night. Now that I’m back in school, all my free time=schoolwork (except on weekends, our only time together) This morning, and 5ish other mornings after school started, he saw that I forgot to put his work clothes in the dryer the night before. He hit the bedroom door open to wake me up and said “get the fuck up”. I didn’t even realize what the issue was until 10 mins later. I have too much on my mind, and I honestly forget to do it. Also last night he got frustrated with me saying I don’t care about him because I stopped making his lunch and I don’t get up early to eat breakfast with him. I’m failing a class because I haven’t put the time into it that in need to so I can spend time with him on weekends. I still make dinner each night. I still felt bad, so I made his lunch and put a nice little note on it saying that I’ve been having trouble finding work/school/life balance, but I’m working on it. My mind was distracted so I completely forgot about laundry. He read it this morning, laughed, and ripped it up. All that being said, if I struggle so much to do his laundry and it’s causing problems in our relationship... why doesn’t he do it himself? He says it’s because I don’t care about him, but it’s seriously just that I forget. In my opinion, I’m doing something to help you but it’s ultimately your responsibility to make sure you have everything ready for the next day. I understand the frustration of waking up to wet clothes, but he never actually asked me to take care of his laundry last night (or any of these nights). UGH.
My boyfriend gets angry in the morning when I forgot to dry his work clothes the night before. Why doesn’t he do it himself?
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