I think you know what is best for you, but it hurts. You need to look within and ask why do you deserve any less? You look back thanking yourself that you did what was best for you.
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We make it difficult, its not that difficult. I got my sister and my father out of my life bcs of their toxicity. It was just difficult in the beginning. But when I realized that i am much more happy, it was easier
Distraction, and getting on with your life. You were never in a relationship with them (were you?), so it’s a hell of a lot easier.
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Accepting the fact that you can’t and move on. If you do date this person you’d basically be dating that basically doesn’t even want you, and why would you do that? when you can get someone that does want you. Plus it would be a giant waste of times because the relationship wouldn’t be good.
Best way to get over someone or anything is make yourself busy, do what makes you happy, start a hobby if you don't have. When you engage your self with something there is no room for unwanted stuff in your mind ☺☺☺
Hmmm, I did accept whatever chance I had to know her in person: was over; a dead end. I also accept that I did everything I could. That let me breakup in peace.
For me, she never cared anyway so it was easy. She was more invested in what she could get out of it than anything else, so, it wasn't hard. It was, however, easier than most.
For me works the best is meeting with new people til I find someone I like. I quickly forget then. I also delete them or at least avoid checking on them.
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I think you know what is best for you, but it hurts. You need to look within and ask why do you deserve any less? You look back thanking yourself that you did what was best for you.
We make it difficult, its not that difficult. I got my sister and my father out of my life bcs of their toxicity. It was just difficult in the beginning. But when I realized that i am much more happy, it was easier
Distraction, and getting on with your life. You were never in a relationship with them (were you?), so it’s a hell of a lot easier.
Accepting the fact that you can’t and move on. If you do date this person you’d basically be dating that basically doesn’t even want you, and why would you do that? when you can get someone that does want you. Plus it would be a giant waste of times because the relationship wouldn’t be good.
This question is perfect for me
First You accept it, & realize There’s nothing you can do.
Avoid them
Dont look at them
Try to forget they exist
Start looking at someone else
Replace them basically
Best way to get over someone or anything is make yourself busy, do what makes you happy, start a hobby if you don't have. When you engage your self with something there is no room for unwanted stuff in your mind ☺☺☺
If you truly love someone... you will never be over them.
exactly
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Hmmm, I did accept whatever chance I had to know her in person: was over; a dead end. I also accept that I did everything I could. That let me breakup in peace.
For me, she never cared anyway so it was easy. She was more invested in what she could get out of it than anything else, so, it wasn't hard. It was, however, easier than most.
Accepting the reality that you can't have them is probably the only way to get over them.
For me it’s a light switch sort of deal. Once it’s gone it’s gone. Poof.
Accepting it and “just” going about your day. It takes time
After I finish moving , I'll have to answer this question for myself.
I know how you feel but sometimes we have to make the hard decision and just walk away
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You just let them go and acknowledge it won’t be something and certainly know there’s better always, but with time and patience.
Accept the fact that I can't have them and time will heal.
Time, as time goes by, the feelings will fade. Finding someone new that you love will help.
For me works the best is meeting with new people til I find someone I like. I quickly forget then. I also delete them or at least avoid checking on them.
You suffer for a while. Some days you think about them other days you don't. Eventually they aren't the most important thing anymore.