I'm not so sure of the context of the statement. Does it mean that the relationship lasts when partners keep secrets from each other?
I agree that the relationship will last longer if secrets remain hidden between partners. But such a relationship will always be fake (in my opinion). It is inherently unhealthy.
This is because one or both partners may be hiding something that would normally be a deal breaker to the other e. g. kids, infidelity, addiction, body count, etc. There is always a chance that such information might eventually come out, destroying the relationship after it had progressed far.
I believe that if a couple can't be completely open with each other, the relationship has an expiry date.
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yes my mother is like a wrecking ball destroyed 2 marriages and a relationship so i wish my mom never gotten involved in my life I would of had a happy life and the reason my mother did that she wanted me all to herself she is like the movie monster in law with Jennifer Lopez
It can. Especially if you're being abused and no one knows, so no one can help and they're stuck with them. Worse case scenario I thought of lmao.
But it ultimately depends on what you're doing with your business. Are you taking care of business within the relationship?
Generally yes. It allows for less people to know meddle or influence your relationship in a negative way.
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I don't think so. I think if people knew you were struggling they would try to help you. When i had marriage problems my friend helped me find a marriage counselor and other friends helped baby sit so we could go.
TRUTH... it's a bad habit to have. Somethings are better left private.
My partner and I dated for a whole year before we told our families.
Secret relationships have their specific charm, but the reason why people keep them secret don't speak for mutual loyalty, stability and will to improvement.
It can.. but a relationship where some people know some of 'your business' can last as long. I know several examples of this.
Y’all aren’t understanding that phrase very much I see... it just means everybody shouldn’t be in yalls business but it should be clear that y’all aren’t hiding yalls relationship either
When you display you relationship... people will. tend to chime in and give you their own two cents... when it is just you and her or vice versa it is easier :)
Only at first. When you get more and more vulnerable, it’s inevitable that friends and family should become a part of the mix. They are a part of you, and they should become a part of your relationship as well.
No... I've always keep everything open , exposed and transparent amonst us both including others or outsiders. Never a reason even for outsiders to say anything to the contrary.
Yes maybe few people help just in case anything happens.
Especially when parents are involved.
Yes.
No I don’t agree because secrets come back on you
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