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True or false. By age 35 women have subconsciously started giving up finding true love and marriage?
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It depends on the woman, however it has been my experience that most women give up because they equate age with desirability. In some cultures of the world it is normal to be considered undesirable past a certain age if you are not at least in a serious relationship. Most of these social constructs are fading away due to advancements in technology and an easier way to survive. They may have made sense way back when, because of things of stability and survival or peace between nations/tribes and what not. But in this day and age, most people are getting together much later, usually between the ages of 30 and 40. For example, in some parts of the world, someone (not just the women) is considered undesirable at age 27 (Japan according to a friend who is married over there) or age 35 (according to a friend over in Malaysia) if they are not at least engaged to be married. Granted, some people do not age well in terms of looks, so it does have merit in certain contexts. The truth is that is the culture and/or society that a woman grows up in that majorly, though not solely, determines if she thinks that she is undesirable and gives up. Though there are women and men out there with horrible experiences that give up right away simply because they don't have the strength to try and/or get hurt again.
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Women give up on love at any age... it just takes the right man OR woman to get them to believe in love again.
Taking my dating coach hat off. Most women either try too hard with the wrong men or do not give the right men a chance and they are left being hurt, disappointed & alone. When defenses are lowered she will forget about giving up.
Love is hard but once you are able to understand that "Everything happens for a reason" the easier love will be. "Just have relax, have fun & hookup"
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I gave up at 30! Haha.
Kidding aside, and I know this isn't real answer, but it really does depend on the woman.
Factors such as the woman, her reason (s) for being single, her self esteem, peer pressure from family and friends, society, her needs and wants... just to name a few.
Some women 30, 35, 40 years old... don't even give marriage or love a second thought.
For example, I'm 35 years old. I've never been interested in, or wanted to get married! Even when I was younger. I have no "biological clock." Nor am I stressing myself to find a relationship.
And I'm okay with that, and yes, genuinely happy.
The only women that stress over that are typically insecure- mostly out of fear that they'll be alone the rest of their lives, instead of focusing on being happy without depending on a relationship or being tied to another person to define who they are.
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It depends on the woman. For some women, this is true and for others, this is false. Some women rather remain single or the rest of their lives and/or still enjoy casual sex by 35. Some women are always looking for a long-term relationship well before 35, but simply didn't have much luck in their relationships then. Women exist that want to get married in their 20s. Others might have lived of a life of having casual sex, but choose to settle down at 35 and seek marriage. Some women might have chosen to settle down before 35 or even older. You also have many women that still keep seeking a lover well after 35. I have known plenty of elderly women that re-married after losing their husbands. Love isn't something that people typically give up on, no matter what age they are. As I said, it depends on the woman. Not every woman is the same
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Some women unfortunately have, but they shouldn’t.
They absolutely shouldn't give up.
Do you know how many people get together after 35? Tons.
When you’re 75 you’re going to look back on 35 and kick yourself for thinking 35 was too old for finding love. -
I'd say there's no definite answer, for some it's true and for others it's false.
I've met women who gave up as early as 24, and others who keep looking and don't give up even after 50! - 8.3K opinions shared on Relationships topic. u
There is reality, and then there is the perception of reality!
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By 35 they become desperate. Women have ridden the cock carousel through their 20's and even early 30:s, than they begin to hear the biological clock ticking. So what do they do? Marry a Simp they secretly detest, have a baby or two, and punish the Simp for putting up with her bullshit. She will never respect the Simp who endures her insanity.
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My two cousins was abused, raped etc. by her ex husband. One of them has had depression but now she is ok. My two cousins are in their 30s now and you think women like her do not deserve love anymore if they are single in their 30s? Life happens. There are many reasons why women after 35s still single. Nobody questions men if they are single in their 30s but it is a scandal if a woman is unmarried/single after her 30s
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I personally never completely gave up, but I did become very discouraged by about 34-ish. I had gone through many boyfriends and a husband at that time but nothing really worked out. I still had hope it could work out, but it wasn't as strong.
Fortunately, I eventually did find the love of my life at about 40, but he was the initiator and he had to do a decent amount of pulling me in to get me to seriously consider going into a relationship with him.
I can't speak for all women, but I can say that was kind of true for me (but not totally) -
Yes, it’s ridiculous. In my family women are expected to marry by 18 or something?
If marriage isn’t what a women wants to pursue personally than she should just focus on what she does want to pursue rather than pursue something because her family pressures her to, or societal standards/norms -
35 and over is when your chances of having a baby with Down Syndrome is super high and infertility in general.
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Why... would they? My mother married my father as she was 39 and had me with 40.
My father passed away 6 years ago, now she's 70 and in a happy relationship with an 80 years old. 🤷♀️
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No but... their perceptions of what love was at 20 25-year-old is completely different. Just like everything your perception of what matures with age. It starts becoming more about endurance instead of sexual attraction.
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I don't think that is true. These days a lot of women concentrate on their careers and don't have time for a relationship. People have extended adolescences and that just pushes everything else further off.
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It depends on the individual woman. I've been there for a few years now tho. Looking into options to have a baby on my own.
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I'd say that's probably true. Most men I know stopped at 30 so I would assume women would do the same.
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Some do, hence why a growing number of women are becoming single mothers by choice (very popular in Australia I think). But that's not the only reason.
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False. Each one is different, and have a different live. If your friend found true love and got married at (for example) 25, it doesn't mean you have to too.
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no.. I think subconsciously there will always be a hope.
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I am 21 and I seriously gave up.
No one can handle me. So I'm better with being independent. - 1.3K opinions shared on Relationships topic.
Women, and people in general, aren't as homogeneous as you often make them out to be.
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I mean if I’m not in a relationship or on my way to one by 30 i’ll have given up
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Marriage is a noble a relationship that's the nature we are not created to be career oriented.
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