If your partner unfriended you after an argument, what would you think and how would you feel?

[Anonymous]

Someone I know had an argument where she told her boyfriend, “Were you planning on replying?” after she thought he might be ignoring her. Her boyfriend was upset with her question and snapped by raising his voice at her. She wanted him to read her messages because she was in need of emotional support but it backfired after her question. She was hurt by his response and expressed it, saying she wished he would have responded more nicely even if he thought her question was rude. She ended up saying she asked the question to see if he was still there but really, she asked to see if he was ignoring her. She tried hiding this intent from her boyfriend who got more upset when he realized what she was doing. She needed up appologizing but her boyfriend didn’t apologize for being hurtful and it made her more hurt so she tried explaining it to her boyfriend how it made her feel and he unfriended her because he wanted to stop talking about it.

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Also, she asked her boyfriend this after maybe 30 sec passed because a second before he was calling her but she couldn’t take the call. She realizes that it was unreasonable to ask that but she was really upset over something in the moment and wanted him to reply quickly, expecting him to still be there after he called her.

[Madhatter920]

I'd feel bad that the relationship ended. I understand why she did what she did, but it was also the wrong thing to do. He could have been more understanding, so what he did was also wrong. Still, if the relationship could so easily be shattered, then it probably wasn't a good one to begin with. This was either the last straw in a long list of offenses or it truly was that fragile from the start. Either way, it's probably for the best that the relationship end so both parties can move on and find someone they are more compatible with. They both deserve to be happy and it would appear that neither of them were happy together.

[Rab1901]

Well I'd think that's really immature but it really depends on how bad the argument was. If it was really terrible and it was my fault I would accept that as a breakup but I don't ever see it actually becoming that bad with me. If the argument was tiny and unnecessary but my partner overreacted I'd probably try to talk it out one time but if she's not open to it, I'd be happy that I found out this girl is crazy sooner than later

[PinkHamster]

It means we’re done for the argument was very serious 💕✨

[Asker]

Do you mean you’d break up or just end the argument? @PinkHamster

[PinkHamster]

It depends

[Luckycharms12]

That they are childish and id think do really want be with someone like that

[Asker]

That’s easier to say when you don’t love the other person. I don't know which one was a bigger deal for you? @Luckycharms12

[Luckycharms12]

True harder when love some one always is. Guess few days space he might say his sorry

[Jjpayne]

I think while emotions are high, it's something you need to consider but hopefully when things cool down they will get back to feeling more normal

[jahaims]

Like they are five