I only exit a relationship when it's one sided. are you able to make me feel wanted? desired? loved? it doesn't matter if depression keeps you from appeasing me. I'll try to help you with whatever the root cause is. if helping you is like picking you up, but you won't let go of the ground, yeah... you're only thinking of yourself.
If I felt like they were pulling me down with them, I probably would. I might have feeling for the person, but if their depression weren't subsiding with my best effort, I wouldn't ruin my whole existence for one person.
If I had a partner, I assume I Love that person, I would "Stand by them" and support them until they got well, I would Not abandon them while they were sick.
Thank you, that’s very sweet. My ex left me when I became low during the pandemic. He couldn’t take it anymore and left which has made me feel heartbroken and that it’s my fault
I would stay and try and be supportive through their healing process. However, if she begins to become toxic, refuses to seek help and uses it to dismantle her life, I might be forced to leave as it could ruin my own mental health.
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I’m depressed myself, but if i had a partner who is also depressed, i’d try to do my best for them i swear. But if it already reached the point where it boils my sanity, for example, they do the ‘emotional dumping’ often that it become a habit, safe for me to personally do, dump him
As a victim of sexual assault I am almost always depressed. (On meds and in therapy, but suffering from PTSD badly)
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Depend how bad is she if it's serious depression I would do my best for her but if nothing improve I would take her to doc. If things become so serious I would pull away for a while having depressed partner can effect you badly at some point you must know when to keep yourself away for a while at least
No, we don’t do that here. It would also make me feel bad for making Sunako. She’s depressed ALL THE TIME, literally since she was born and has a somewhat horrible death
If my partner needed help I wouldn’t leave them and if you love them you would need to be there for them to support them, if you don’t love them then you leave
Job loss, death of a loved one... sonething substantial such as those. Again, perfectly acceptable to be depressed in cases like those, however, at some point you need to move on. So it comes back to " what are you doing about it?"
While In a pandemic with most places shut what can you do? Also there have been a lot of people that have suffered depression from the pandemic so how is that more less valid than what you have listed?
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I'm gonna work things out for her. I do know depression is really something in your head. Deny it and you'll never be happy.
Thank you, i know a lot of people won’t work through it as stated on this site or they will for a Time and then leave
If it didn't work then, you're not doing it right
How do you mean?
Fixing someone's depressions. Sure giving someone time and space is a way to do it but spoiling them with it can worsen their depression.
I understand, in my case though my ex left me at a low point as they couldn’t deal with it anymore so they broke up with me due to me feeling this way
He just lack the patience for it. But really it's satisfying to fix anyone out of it and anyone can be willing to help you out.
Thank you, I just feel hurt I guess
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Thank you so much for the link 😊
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stay becaus i dunno even what depression means or how it changes some1
Thank you, my ex left me when I was stressed during the pandemic and hit a low point as they couldn’t take anymore and left
o dam
Thank you, it just hurts
I only exit a relationship when it's one sided. are you able to make me feel wanted? desired? loved? it doesn't matter if depression keeps you from appeasing me. I'll try to help you with whatever the root cause is. if helping you is like picking you up, but you won't let go of the ground, yeah... you're only thinking of yourself.
If I felt like they were pulling me down with them, I probably would.
I might have feeling for the person, but if their depression weren't subsiding with my best effort, I wouldn't ruin my whole existence for one person.
That would depend entirely on how it affected me. If my partner's depression made me depressed, then for both of us, I think we would have to split.
If it didn't, then I'd be there for them.
Yes, because some people are emotionally manipulative and probably are trying that shit because they know they're getting dumped.
It’s possible but not exactly fair to assume?
You seem like a 16 year old 33 year old
@warrenstone You must really be mad at me.
If I had a partner, I assume I Love that person, I would "Stand by them" and support them until they got well, I would Not abandon them while they were sick.
I would not leave but try to support them and shower my love. I will be there for them
Thank you, that’s very sweet. My ex left me when I became low during the pandemic. He couldn’t take it anymore and left which has made me feel heartbroken and that it’s my fault
I would stay and try and be supportive through their healing process.
However, if she begins to become toxic, refuses to seek help and uses it to dismantle her life, I might be forced to leave as it could ruin my own mental health.
I’m depressed myself, but if i had a partner who is also depressed, i’d try to do my best for them i swear. But if it already reached the point where it boils my sanity, for example, they do the ‘emotional dumping’ often that it become a habit, safe for me to personally do, dump him
Hell no that’s the one time you want to standby them protect them and walk the journey will not go against them ❤️
As a victim of sexual assault I am almost always depressed. (On meds and in therapy, but suffering from PTSD badly)
Depend how bad is she if it's serious depression I would do my best for her but if nothing improve I would take her to doc. If things become so serious I would pull away for a while having depressed partner can effect you badly at some point you must know when to keep yourself away for a while at least
No, I would help them work through the depression, and I would hope they would do the same for me.
No way! That's when they need you MOST, and that would only make their situation worse. But I'm not the best at dealing with those sorts of situations
If you have mental illness, get that fixed before you start dating. Seriously.
No mature adult wants to babysit another.
No, we don’t do that here. It would also make me feel bad for making Sunako. She’s depressed ALL THE TIME, literally since she was born and has a somewhat horrible death
Depends. If any thing lasts for ever and would not know how to deal with it any more, what would you do?
If my partner needed help I wouldn’t leave them and if you love them you would need to be there for them to support them, if you don’t love them then you leave
maybe if they were always that way. not for a short term bad thing. negative people try to drag you down with them
It depends why they're depressed how long and what they're doing about it
What if the depression was due to the pandemic?
No... ridiculous. I'm out
Ok what would not be a stupid reason then?
Job loss, death of a loved one... sonething substantial such as those.
Again, perfectly acceptable to be depressed in cases like those, however, at some point you need to move on. So it comes back to " what are you doing about it?"
While In a pandemic with most places shut what can you do? Also there have been a lot of people that have suffered depression from the pandemic so how is that more less valid than what you have listed?
The pandemic is a complete shit show. There are no consistentcies to any of it. This isn't depression; this is drama. Shut your TV off and go outside.
Ok fair enough